Although she prefers she and her pronouns she is agender actually. :)

Edit: Oop, she beat me to it.

I love you more than all of the things

STILL super not cool to call a person "IT"

I'll have to miss out then. I won't go more than 3, maybe 4 days without shaving. I did have a stache once though :laughing:

Sorry to offend you, but 'it' was used as a humorous twist.
Also, please remember English is not my native language ;).

I think the last time I actually shaved my face was about 9 years ago.

Wow! I shaved my face about 9 hours ago and it's already bothering me :laughing:

It's not humourous to use what's used as a slur against queer people. It's the same as calling me a tranny. I know English isn't your first language but that makes no difference.

Well, it does make a difference, as I didn't know it was offending and not humorous.

Your native language makes no difference since you'd called me "she" before that and not "it", or you could have used "they", I imagine you are familiar with this word, yes? When in doubt, google is your friend.

You knew which one to use. It's a serious slur and it dehumanises me. It's worse than calling me a "faggot".

I know the meaning. I just didn't know it would be that insulting. It wouldn't offend anyone overhere when used as a joke and I jokingly called you "it" because I didn't know your gender for sure.
And, in the end, why would you think I wanted to offend you. I don't even know who you are.

Because your joke was more important to you than the feelings of a human being, that's why it's offensive and not at all funny, even though you just said you didn't know what you were saying because of the language difference...then you said you knew what you were saying. So clearly you just don't care that it offends me.

It doesn't really matter who I am, but I used to be Paloma.

http://i41.tinypic.com/nx3ndf.png

Here's me and my baby! He's mad because I'm sitting him on his butt like a child, lmaooo

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v2...hoto_00028.jpg

My fail cat beard pic. I couldn't get her to look up without my hand being there :(

Me lounging around, the quality isn't the best due to it being an average camera phone:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v3...ps6255cfb2.png

Me trying on a dress at the op shop:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v3...psbc9e1a5f.jpg

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Beautiful pictures,Vanilla ! I can´t believe that someone as sexy-looking as you has visited Antarctica, which must be the bleakest, least sexy place on the planet.

Awww Lis, you're so sweet! Actually Antarctica is beautiful, pure white snow, soaring mountains and crystal lakes. I will pop some pictures of it in an appropriate thread one day. :D

Great dress!

I´d be very interested to see some Antarctic scenery; I´ve never met anyone who´s been there before.

Are we supposed to know what an op shop is, btw ?

Hahahahaha I have to try this, I've been wanting to forever. You look mad tho lmao would s/he not sit still?

Lol, no I wasn't mad just concentrating and trying to get the right angle.

You know what they say about working with animals and babies. :rofl:

She was the more cooperative than the other two. They wanted no parts of my shenanigans. :tramp:

Looking fly sister, did you buy the dress?

The real cause of the melting polar ice caps.

Vanilla, you are very pretty!

Vanilla, why you draw your eyebrows like that?
Just curious.

Thank you!! :love:

Because I have eyebrows so blonde that you can only see half of the eyebrow. I realise this eyebrow pencil is darker than it should be but I still like it. Do you not like them or don't think I look good with them?

No I was just wondering if you had some sort of artistic inspiration, or if you wanted specifically to avoid a natural look.

Ah I see. I think I look better with eyebrows than nothing at all. :)

Good spotting though. I've had people in the past who said I look stupid with them etc, however I never listened to them because it's my face not theirs. I've never had any complaints from guys though.

hmmm I guess I should've asked but I just assumed you were going for the Chola look.

I'm not complaining or anything. Maybe it's because I grew up around mostly women that I have a different appreciation than most guys when it comes to makeup on a woman, but in general I think it's less distracting when more subtle colors and shades are used to complement and enhance features rather than recreate them or serve as an extreme contrast.
For instance, if I was a woman and wore makeup but had blonde eyebrows, I'd use a more subtle brown to fill them out, rather than a stark, contrasting black line that doesn't match the hair color at all. That's just my opinion though. Not saying it should be everyone's.

Haha that video... hilarious.

Usually I have light brown eyebrows like you said but I felt like a change, so I bought a darker line that intensifies my look. I'm doing Lady Gaga style, not wearing make up for a man or even women but for herself. I wear make up for me and dress for me. Nobody else can define me. That is what I have learned from being bullied in high school, being told I'm ugly, my skin is too white (called me whitebait), my eyebrows look stupid, why are you wearing make up, my hair is too blonde, I stuff my bra, one boob is bigger than the other, I'm a slut, I'm too skinny, etc. I didn't let cruel words bring me down but it made me a strong, confident woman.

Sounds reasonable.
However I don't think Gaga does what she does because she likes looking at herself in the mirror. Enhancing outward appearance, regardless of the way in which people do it, is always meant for others just as much as themselves. Manipulating the way you look is also manipulating the way you intend for others to see you.
It's just how it works, whether subconscious or not. It's not a bad thing, and it shouldn't be. But if we were really all happy with our natural appearances, none of us would be making changes to it in the first place.

I hope I didn't come off as though I was attacking your appearance or anything. I was just wondering what your thought-process behind it was.
Thanks for answering the question. :)

Hehe I didn't take it personally but placed my perspective of it. :)

You are definitely right that subconsciously we alter our image to appear attractive to both the opppsite and same sex. It's a biological response that we find the most compatible partner so we show off our pretty feathers to attract others.

It's pretty hard as a woman to be 100% happy with our natural appearance in a society that criticises men and women and expects us to look and act a certain way.

Which is why it's great that you're not affected by that, since you define yourself.

It's really awesome that you respect it, thank you bb. :D

It's also an example of a woman that doesn't have to be aggressive to get her point across.

Hopefully that includes passive aggression as well?

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I'm peeing.

first shitting in forts now peeing all over MB.

Dirty bird you.

You know it. ;)

Hi peeing, I'm shitting. Do you know what time vomiting should be here?