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Lisnaholic · 03-17-2018, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by rubber soul

Well this comment says it all. It seems either you think it’s totally okay for certain members to attack people at any moment, or you are willfully turning your heads as if to say, “I see nothing.” Did it occur to you nobody has been banned because the forum wants to tolerate bullying behavior?

So maybe your forum (and I’m saying your forum; I’m only on to post this), is at something of a crossroads. The forum can be run by the likes of Occult and Frownland or maybe the members that really matter will be the Trollhearts and Lisnaholics of the world. It’s up to you guys. I mean you’ve lost me, Pet Sounds, and maybe Troll. Who else do you wish to alienate? I can see Occult adding the names of people he’s driven away from the forum as if they’re medals of honors. That might satisfy him, but it won’t be good if there aren’t many people left.

Anyhow, maybe this is something the Mods should chew on, that is, if they really care. Meanwhile, I’ll say hi to those that were/are my friends here. If you’re interested in a writing site that does actually treat people with respect, send me a PM. My E-mail is still set to read MB messages.

Okay, Frown and Occult, show me your venom since that’s all you two are capable of doing. I’m off to friendlier pastures anyway.

^

Oh dear, I didn't realise you'd left us in that sense, rubber soul.

I thought something more exciting irl had caught your attention for a week or so....

I'll be in touch later, if that's ok...

grindy · 03-17-2018, 08:06 AM

I think it's great that the site has a somewhat relaxed atmosphere and people can tell each other to go **** themselves without us mods being all up their asses.
Still some people (especially Occ and Frown) should be able to recognize the point when things are escalating, people aren't having fun anymore and one should just shut the **** up.

**Frownland** · 03-17-2018, 08:11 AM

I'm always either joking or trying to stimulate discussion. Get over your damn selves.

grindy · 03-17-2018, 08:13 AM

Yeah. And when you see that someone isn't able to get that, it's time to shut the **** up and leave it be. It's pretty simple.

**Frownland** · 03-17-2018, 08:15 AM

Agree to disagree. This is a discussion forum. I like to discuss things. Pretty simple.

grindy · 03-17-2018, 08:18 AM

Discussions are great and some friendly insults in the mix lighten things up nicely.
But when you see that the person you converse with is just pissed and isn't going to move an inch from where they are standing, any further discussion is unnecessary and dumb and leads to conflicts that have nothing to do with the topic at hand.

OccultHawk · 03-17-2018, 08:47 AM

1) welcome back rubber soul - keep posting
2) I have been cracking at people harder than ever recently- also like grindy says I’m not backing off when people get butthurt - in fact, when I smell blood I go for the kill - but like mlm says I am just joking - I can certainly take a joke and I’ve never once cried to a mod about anything ever - also, I don’t **** with people who don’t **** with me- but if someone goes tit for tat I find that amusing- generally I don’t start fights, I finish them
3) don’t dish it out if you can’t take it

~~Cuthbert~~ · 03-17-2018, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by MicShazam

Bingo

http://www.musicbanter.com/lounge/44...ng-now-63.html

Having looked at that thread it seems TH was name calling as well.

If guys want to leave that's up to them but this site is not some brutal place where people are being attacked for no reason and it doesn't make me a bully for believing it's not as bad as some are making out.

Edit: name calling wasn't the right choice of word. What I mean is the bants was not all one way.

GD · 03-17-2018, 09:46 AM

wtf?

Hope TH comes back at some point

~~MicShazam~~ · 03-17-2018, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Man like Monkey

Having looked at that thread it seems TH was name calling as well.

If guys want to leave that's up to them but this site is not some brutal place where people are being attacked for no reason and it doesn't make me a bully for believing it's not as bad as some are making out.

Edit: name calling wasn't the right choice of word. What I mean is the bants was not all one way.

I don't think this site is that bad either. It's just that some times the button pushing goes overboard a bit. I've never personally felt attacked.

03-17-2018, 08:06 AM	#2142 (permalink)
grindy . Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: . Posts: 7,201	I think it's great that the site has a somewhat relaxed atmosphere and people can tell each other to go ** themselves without us mods being all up their asses. Still some people (especially Occ and Frown) should be able to recognize the point when things are escalating, people aren't having fun anymore and one should just shut the up. __________________ A smell of petroleum prevails throughout.**

03-17-2018, 08:11 AM	#2143 (permalink)
Frownland SOPHIE FOREVER Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: East of the Southern North American West Posts: 35,541	I'm always either joking or trying to stimulate discussion. Get over your damn selves. __________________ Studies show that when a given norm is changed in the face of the unchanging, the remaining contradictions will parallel the truth. d e a f b o x

03-17-2018, 08:13 AM	#2144 (permalink)
grindy . Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: . Posts: 7,201	Yeah. And when you see that someone isn't able to get that, it's time to shut the ** up and leave it be. It's pretty simple. __________________ A smell of petroleum prevails throughout.**

03-17-2018, 08:15 AM	#2145 (permalink)
Frownland SOPHIE FOREVER Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: East of the Southern North American West Posts: 35,541	Agree to disagree. This is a discussion forum. I like to discuss things. Pretty simple. __________________ Studies show that when a given norm is changed in the face of the unchanging, the remaining contradictions will parallel the truth. d e a f b o x

03-17-2018, 08:18 AM	#2146 (permalink)
grindy . Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: . Posts: 7,201	Discussions are great and some friendly insults in the mix lighten things up nicely. But when you see that the person you converse with is just pissed and isn't going to move an inch from where they are standing, any further discussion is unnecessary and dumb and leads to conflicts that have nothing to do with the topic at hand. __________________ *A smell of petroleum prevails throughout.*

03-17-2018, 08:47 AM	#2147 (permalink)
OccultHawk one-balled nipple jockey Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Dirty Souf Biatch Posts: 22,006	1) welcome back rubber soul - keep posting 2) I have been cracking at people harder than ever recently- also like grindy says I’m not backing off when people get butthurt - in fact, when I smell blood I go for the kill - but like mlm says I am just joking - I can certainly take a joke and I’ve never once cried to a mod about anything ever - also, I don’t ** with people who don’t ** with me- but if someone goes tit for tat I find that amusing- generally I don’t start fights, I finish them 3) don’t dish it out if you can’t take it __________________ 2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 Member of the Year & Journal of the Year Champion Behold the Writing of THE LEGEND: https://www.musicbanter.com/members-...p-lighter.html

03-17-2018, 09:46 AM	#2149 (permalink)
GD ???pp? ??snW Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: NO Posts: 686	wtf? Hope TH comes back at some point __________________ lasty\|rate-y music-y