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09-24-2016 09:27 AM |
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Originally Posted by djchameleon
(Post 1748216)
I haven't read all the pages yet but I want to ask you and duga and everyone else that does it.
Why not?
Why not just pick two genres and say those are your faves but you listen to so much more and very intricate genres?
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I have this weird thing where if I don't answer something "completely," I feel uncomfortable--I feel like I'm being dishonest, that I'm giving misleading information that's going to make future behavior and comments from me inconsistent and untrustworthy, etc.
I know that doesn't make a heck of a lot of rational sense, because typically what happens is that the more that you say, and the more nuanced that it is, the more it gets misunderstood. People deal better with simple, black & white answers. But it still makes me uncomfortable, because I want to make everything I'm thinking bare and I feel like I'm being dishonest when I don't.
Of course, in various social situations I'll give shorter, more black & white, inaccurate answers, but it makes me uncomfortable and I usually do that when I don't really want to get into a conversation or have any sort of significant relationship with the person--so that I'm uncomfortable interacting with that person anyway.
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Later edit: See, and even the answer above I kind of feel like going back and adding to, making it way more nuanced, because it's not quite right, there are a bunch of exceptions, conditions that change things, etc. . . . but sometimes it's just to tiring to go through all of that, too. And who the hell is going to want to read it. So sometimes it's easier just to say "everything."
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