Music Preferences Less Flexible with Age?

sopsych · 10-10-2012, 10:17 AM

After what age (if any), do you think most people's music preferences don't change much? Age 25, maybe? (That's when the brain is about fully mature, and many people are too busy with life to follow the music scene as much as they used to.)

LoathsomePete · 10-10-2012, 10:23 AM

Probably around the time they settle into a familiar routine, or where other obligations overtake the curiosity and explorative elements of music. I can't imagine it's a lot of fun using your free time taking chances on new bands or styles when you've got a 1 year old child, or a new house to pay for. As for specific age points, I'd say probably anywhere from 28-35 is where you'll see most people settling into this kind of routine.

SATCHMO · 10-10-2012, 12:35 PM

I'm 41 and my music preferences are more diverse now than they ever have been. There are people that only hold on to the music of their youth, because it makes them nostalgic. I prefer to explore new and different styles and witness how music has evolved over the course of history and how contemporary music reflects the cultural zeitgiest of the day. If had to listen exclusively to the music I was listening to when I was 17, I'd likely have my ears surgically removed.

Norg · 10-10-2012, 01:00 PM

yeah prob around the time u start a fmaily and settle down whit picket fence thing

but im not married or have any kids so yeah right now my music taste are wider then ever

ribbons · 10-10-2012, 01:46 PM

I'm 45 now, first became a mother at 25 and after that (and after having another child at 37), I didn't have as much time to devote to exploring music, although the yearning was there as strong as ever. My tastes have always been varied and that hasn't really changed -- but what I've had to do over the years is to squeeze in listening to/reading about new music between family responsibilities and other distractions. The result being that I've held fast to what has proved "golden" to me over time and as far as expanding my horizons and deepening exposure to newer music, I'm much more of a dilettante than I would like to be.

jackhammer · 10-11-2012, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by SATCHMO

I'm 41 and my music preferences are more diverse now than they ever have been. There are people that only hold on to the music of their youth, because it makes them nostalgic. I prefer to explore new and different styles and witness how music has evolved over the course of history and how contemporary music reflects the cultural zeitgiest of the day. If had to listen exclusively to the music I was listening to when I was 17, I'd likely have my ears surgically removed.

I feel the exactly the same and at 40 I am more open minded than ever. Of course I am nostalgic and a lot of what I listened to as a kid still holds up really well and some doesn't but paradoxically this makes me very very selective regarding what I like because I have been listening to music intensively since the age of 14 and some music that may be viewed as original or genre bending by new listeners may not be to me as I have that much more listening experience. It's not elitism or arrogance at all, it's just my own musical evolution and when some of you reach the age of us oldies on here and are still listening and exploring music you will probably be posting the same sort of reply. I am really proud of the fact that I am open minded and finding music that still excites me and that will never change.

sopsych · 10-10-2012, 01:31 PM

For a few years, around college age, I mostly stopped listening to new music. Later I returned to music television, etc. - but I rarely like what I hear and mostly still enjoy what I did as a teenager (with the exception of some bland hard rock and soulless pop). I've never gone looking for underground or obscure music, and I am not interested in expanding into jazz, classical, and other genres that maybe some people embrace as they get older.

Freebase Dali · 10-10-2012, 04:33 PM

I'm far more diverse with my tastes at 31 than I was when I was in my early 20s and under. I don't know if it's a result of exposure, maturing out of a particular mindset, or a combination of the two, but I'm personally very grateful for such a development either way.

While there are still certain styles I don't particularly care for, and many that I have grown out of, I never feel like my horizons have done anything but widened by filling those gaps with things I've given a chance and liked, versus solely eliminating things I've grown apart from.
My only complaint is the rate at which it happens. I'm definitely not as enthusiastic about actively listening to music as I used to be, but when I dedicate the time to such pursuits, I most certainly am active about trying to step outside of my own boundaries in an attempt to find something new [to me] and refreshing.

Franco Pepe Kalle · 10-10-2012, 06:26 PM

Well I have definitely opened to other music since I was 17 years old. Before hand, I only liked R&B, Hip Hop and African music. I have opened myself to like some rock music and great Latin music. I have opened up a bit. I am still learning to have a bigger tolerance towards genres I think is very annoying.

katsy · 10-18-2012, 09:28 PM

I'm in my early 30s and right now I am more open to new music styles than ever before. I have the mortgage, the kids, life, etc. I may not devote as much time to music as I did before but I still actively try to expand my musical horizons.

There are certain genres I know I will never get, i.e. modern country, hair metal(i'm not 100% sure what it even is). And that's totally okay.

I have become more open to music with age, no doubt. For example, I never even gave The Misfits a second glance because of their graphics-- now, I love them. Same for Alice Cooper, whom I love even more.

However, I will say that with age I have become more settled with my mainstay of laid-back indie/folk/pop bands, and lax in my narrow-minded views.

10-10-2012, 10:17 AM	#1 (permalink)
sopsych Music Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: indoors Posts: 722	Music Preferences Less Flexible with Age? After what age (if any), do you think most people's music preferences don't change much? Age 25, maybe? (That's when the brain is about fully mature, and many people are too busy with life to follow the music scene as much as they used to.)

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LoathsomePete Cardboard Box Realtor Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Hobb's End Posts: 7,648	Probably around the time they settle into a familiar routine, or where other obligations overtake the curiosity and explorative elements of music. I can't imagine it's a lot of fun using your free time taking chances on new bands or styles when you've got a 1 year old child, or a new house to pay for. As for specific age points, I'd say probably anywhere from 28-35 is where you'll see most people settling into this kind of routine. __________________ Last.FM 101 Albums That May Not Change Your Life, But I Really Like And You Might Too

10-10-2012, 06:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
Franco Pepe Kalle Mwana Nzala Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Shakopee, Minnesota Posts: 627	Well I have definitely opened to other music since I was 17 years old. Before hand, I only liked R&B, Hip Hop and African music. I have opened myself to like some rock music and great Latin music. I have opened up a bit. I am still learning to have a bigger tolerance towards genres I think is very annoying. __________________ The problem with Franco Pepe Kalle is that he is a unpredictable character. There is surprising info about this man. You think he only likes Franco and Pepe Kalle but when you find out that he hears other artists, you are shock. Girls are the sexy thing that God created. Important to notice FPK.

10-18-2012, 09:28 PM	#10 (permalink)
katsy Music Addict Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 286	I'm in my early 30s and right now I am more open to new music styles than ever before. I have the mortgage, the kids, life, etc. I may not devote as much time to music as I did before but I still actively try to expand my musical horizons. There are certain genres I know I will never get, i.e. modern country, hair metal(i'm not 100% sure what it even is). And that's totally okay. I have become more open to music with age, no doubt. For example, I never even gave The Misfits a second glance because of their graphics-- now, I love them. Same for Alice Cooper, whom I love even more. However, I will say that with age I have become more settled with my mainstay of laid-back indie/folk/pop bands, and lax in my narrow-minded views. __________________ Split the Lark-- and you'll find the Music - Emily Dickinson

10-10-2012, 12:35 PM	#3 (permalink)
SATCHMO Al Dente Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 4,847	I'm 41 and my music preferences are more diverse now than they ever have been. There are people that only hold on to the music of their youth, because it makes them nostalgic. I prefer to explore new and different styles and witness how music has evolved over the course of history and how contemporary music reflects the cultural zeitgiest of the day. If had to listen exclusively to the music I was listening to when I was 17, I'd likely have my ears surgically removed.

10-10-2012, 01:00 PM	#4 (permalink)
Norg Music Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2,360	yeah prob around the time u start a fmaily and settle down whit picket fence thing but im not married or have any kids so yeah right now my music taste are wider then ever

10-10-2012, 01:46 PM	#5 (permalink)
ribbons Music Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1,265	I'm 45 now, first became a mother at 25 and after that (and after having another child at 37), I didn't have as much time to devote to exploring music, although the yearning was there as strong as ever. My tastes have always been varied and that hasn't really changed -- but what I've had to do over the years is to squeeze in listening to/reading about new music between family responsibilities and other distractions. The result being that I've held fast to what has proved "golden" to me over time and as far as expanding my horizons and deepening exposure to newer music, I'm much more of a dilettante than I would like to be.

10-10-2012, 01:31 PM	#7 (permalink)
sopsych Music Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: indoors Posts: 722	For a few years, around college age, I mostly stopped listening to new music. Later I returned to music television, etc. - but I rarely like what I hear and mostly still enjoy what I did as a teenager (with the exception of some bland hard rock and soulless pop). I've never gone looking for underground or obscure music, and I am not interested in expanding into jazz, classical, and other genres that maybe some people embrace as they get older.

10-10-2012, 04:33 PM	#8 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	I'm far more diverse with my tastes at 31 than I was when I was in my early 20s and under. I don't know if it's a result of exposure, maturing out of a particular mindset, or a combination of the two, but I'm personally very grateful for such a development either way. While there are still certain styles I don't particularly care for, and many that I have grown out of, I never feel like my horizons have done anything but widened by filling those gaps with things I've given a chance and liked, versus solely eliminating things I've grown apart from. My only complaint is the rate at which it happens. I'm definitely not as enthusiastic about actively listening to music as I used to be, but when I dedicate the time to such pursuits, I most certainly am active about trying to step outside of my own boundaries in an attempt to find something new [to me] and refreshing.