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Old 08-18-2012, 09:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I've heard both of those songs before and would rather not hear them again. I seriously wonder if the popularity of prog in the 70's is largely due to the popularity of getting stoned then. Those songs do not convey emotion-laden realistic stories, so I cannot tolerate their length.
You're putting King Crimson under your "never listen to again" list? They're hardly that difficult to listen to. If you're expecting prog of all genres to convey realistic stories, good luck finding something. Yes are pretty much known for their bizarre lyrics. Hell, give Jon Anderson's solo records a listen and you'll see what I mean.
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You're putting King Crimson under your "never listen to again" list? They're hardly that difficult to listen to. If you're expecting prog of all genres to convey realistic stories, good luck finding something. Yes are pretty much known for their bizarre lyrics. Hell, give Jon Anderson's solo records a listen and you'll see what I mean.
Based on a limited sample, I don't have a clue what King Crimson songs are about. Even the 'classic' Yes songs convey something, despite the obtuse lyrics. The Yes I prefer is the material with, and largely written by, Trevor Rabin. I've heard a tiny bit of Jon Anderson solo (or Vangelis) material and found it too outside the mainstream.

The first post defines "long" as over 6 minutes.
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I've heard a tiny bit of Jon Anderson solo (or Vangelis) material and found it too outside the mainstream.
Which is exactly why I like it so much. It's different and works well, especially for him.
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Does anyone else here see the irony behind calling oneself "wisdom"
with the description, "music addict" while really being quite limited
when it comes to listening?
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Does anyone else here see the irony behind calling oneself "wisdom"
with the description, "music addict" while really being quite limited
when it comes to listening?
I think someone mentioned that earlier in the thread, but yes, that is quite ironic.
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Does anyone else here see the irony behind calling oneself "wisdom" with the description, "music addict" while really being quite limited when it comes to listening?
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I think someone mentioned that earlier in the thread, but yes, that is quite ironic.
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And sorry, but I have to say this: based on your judgement shown in this thread, your username doesn't seem very appropriate...
Implying that one of our members lacks wisdom due to his or her listening preferences sounds like a personal attack to me.

I wish you would not turn a civil discussion about wisdom's preference for songs under 6 minutes long into a personal attack. Personal attacks violate MusicBanter policy.

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To respond to the first bolded part in your response, I find pleasure in any sort of music whether it be short or long. In my experience, i've seen that if a song reaches to 10 to 12 minutes, it starts off a bit slow, but gradually gets better reaching an incredible climax. Again, just in my experience. So I disagree with you on finding pleasure in music by limiting my listening time.

Onto the second bolded point, we do agree partly on something. I get that you don't have to listen to the entire song to make a good opinion on it, but I find it beneficial to give the whole song at least a trial run just to see how it sounds the first time, regardless of the length. I don't know if you mentioned in your post but I feel like you did, do you limit yourself before listening to a song? Or do you look at the time of the song after giving the music a trial listen? I'm hoping you lean more towards the second question because any song by any artists at least (and i'm sure you can agree) deserves a fair listen. Even if you don't want to listen to the whole album, that's fine. However, not listening to a whole song strictly based on the time without even knowing what the rest of the song sounds like is a case of bad listening in my honest opinion.

If I may add, I don't find your listening style or your style of discarding music any worse than I would find my own. I don't want you to think i'm attacking your points either, it's a bit of debate if anything regardless of how it comes by. Even with your post though, I still don't get why one must limit themselves with music. As you say, it is strictly democratic and you have the free will to listen to whatever you like. However, there has to be a trial session somewhere, though I feel like you probably already know that just by the looks on how you listen to music today.
I like our debate, Ki, and I appreciate your pointing out commonalities in our listening even as there are differences in our listening philosophy.

I can understand how you'd like a 10-12 minute song that builds to an incredible climax, but I prefer (with music) not to wait so long until the climax!

I think the main differences between your and my listening are that (1) you are more likely than I to listen to a new song from finish to end; (2) you are less likely than I to reject a song due only to its length.

My issue with your and Trollheart's descriptions and those of many others in this thread is that you discuss the virtues of listening to and liking music "regardless of length," and yet that seems unrealistic to me.

I also disagree with you on the idea of there being a "fair listen." I don't see listening preferences as having to do with fairness toward an artist or a song.

Finally, I don't agree with you that "bad listening" exists. When someone says she doesn't want to listen to the end of a long song, I just see that as a preference...a different type of preference than for a genre, yet still just a preference. Since people like their own preferences, then I feel their listening tendencies can't be bad because the way they listen to music isn't bad for *them.*

In answer to your question, when I confront songs I've never heard, before I listen to them I usually *do* glance at the length to see how much time I'll need, if I want to listen to all of the song. Occasionally I reject listening to a new song because it is over ten minutes long. More often I'll listen to the first two minutes and then decide if I want to hear the rest. So, no, I almost never look at the time *after* I've listened to the whole song.

I agree with you that if I don't listen to all of a long song, there may be times when I miss out on something wonderful at the end.

However, I am searching for songs that I like from beginning to end. If I already know after several minutes that I don't like the beginning, then it makes sense for me to move on to a song where I may like the whole thing. And if I like the beginning of the song but am starting to feel its length is unappealingly long, then it is reasonable to stop listening because I'm not enjoying it.

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Great analogy, but, just my two cents:

(to the bolded): At least once, right? I mean, at some point in your life you should be able to set aside the time to hear it. Maybe a road trip, maybe laying on the beach or in the park with headphones while sunbathing. Am I right? Am I wrong? If you feel the song deserves merit/attention but is too long to ever hear regularly, you know there's odd times where you could be multitasking that tune in. Perhaps.

Like a movie... did you walk out of the theater when you watched Titanic or Lord of the Rings because it was far over 2 hours? Do you skip chapters of good, long books to get to the better parts or the end? Music, movies, and books take time to consume. Just which tome is the question... that's where multitasking comes in..
Yes, if I *really* wanted to listen to all of "Somnium," I could, although I don't think I'd listen to it in the shower like you might, getting all pruney. I have the song playing in the background as I type, and I'm on 35 minutes now, but I'm not paying much attention to the song, so I don't know if that really counts as "listening."

My point is that I don't feel like giving all songs my attention, and so I choose which I want to listen to and which to listen to in their entirety. Song length is one criterion I may use to decide if I listen to the whole song or not, because I've learned from experience that I tend to prefer songs under 6 minutes in length.

Your question about lengths of movies, books, and music is interesting, because I think the length of all three are usually chosen to fit average human preferences based on our physiology.

I love music, but I feel it offers less conceptually than a movie or a book, and so it makes complete sense to me that I will get more easily bored by long music than I would by a movie or book. (I did feel Lord of the Rings got boring, but I paid, so I stayed.)

Songs usually aren't 2 hours long. Why? I think the reason is that most people would get bored by such a long song. Some people, like wisdom and I, also tend to be put off by songs longer than 6 minutes. Perhaps we prefer more stimulation, more variety, more sense of a quick resolution than is offered in a longer song. I also find that too much of even a good thing can become unappealing. Spending three days at an amusement park can lead to fatigue, boredom, and lack of enthusiasm by day three. Long songs tend to feel to me like day three at an amusement park.

Also, what I like about music is that it offers a quick tap into emotion, which I feel is the power of music. Music stirs the emotions faster and more intensely than almost any other creative endeavor of people. This is the reason a short song works best for me: I can "absorb" an emotion from a song in a short time, and so I don't need or even want the song to be longer. My favorite songs feel like musical poems, stirring my intellect, rousing my emotions, reminding me that I and others are alive, all in a very short time.

I *do* sometimes jump ahead to find out the ends of books when I don't like them very much and just want to get it over, but rarely with books I like. I tend to avoid reading books that are longer than 400 pages, because I don't want to wait that long to get to the end and grasp the whole story.

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Actually, Somnium is 10 seconds short of 7 hours in length, but carry on...
Oops...I should have said that *Part 1* of Somnium lasts 2:35. You are right that the whole album lasts almost 7 hours.

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Who's exaggerating now? And please stop putting words in my mouth. I never mentioned anything further than a song of 2 hours, which, to be fair, if I enjoyed it and had the time, I would listen to. 100 years? Well, unless I'm a vampire and can live forever... er... never mind. You didn't hear that from me. What? Is that the sun on the horizon I see? Excuse me....
I'm not exaggerating, potential vampire. I wrote that *if* you say it makes no difference to you whether a song lasts 1 minute, 10 minutes, 1 hour, 1 day, or 100 years, I will think you are exaggerating your indifference. I am not putting of words in your mouth but instead am constructing an if/then statement based on claims you had made that song length makes no difference to you.

I'm glad to hear that you understand why a person might not wish to listen to a song that lasts 1 day or 100 years, because I feel that until now you and others in this thread have been exaggerating when they say that song length makes no difference to them, or that length has no bearing on how they enjoy a song...which was written by someone whom you, upon reflection, might recognize (if you can see him in the mirror ):

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It's totally alien to me to deconstruct a song (apart from for review purposes, as I mentioned) in order to be able to enjoy it, and length has no bearing on how I enjoy a song.
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Unlike you (and, it seems, one other), the length of the song has no bearing whatever on whether or not we enjoy it.
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I hate that song (for the scream-singing).

But VEGANGELICA's point is one of the best I've ever seen on this forum: linking song length to natural/preferred expression of emotion. Like why rageful songs often are short bursts, while most sad songs last from maybe 3 to 6 minutes and build more slowly. Maybe happy people feel that way for long periods, but I don't (unless I just 'won' something) and extended club mixes do not reflect my emotional state and therefore feel forced and irritating (though there are things about the style that bug me). I like music for getting me safely into moods that feel real and then go away so that I can focus elsewhere. I usually don't want 'easy listening' that relaxes me, which I suppose is what some people want from long songs.
Heh heh...I *thought* you would hate Behemoth's "Day of Suffering" for the scream-singing (because I read you don't like scream-singing), but since it is a short song I thought you'd actually listen to it.

I'm glad you appreciated my point about how song length may relate to natural or preferred expression of emotion, as you put it, and you even think this point is one of the best you've ever seen on this forum! Preen, preen, purr.

Just like you, I like music for getting me into moods that feel real, after which (following the catharsis of emotional experience) I can go away and focus elsewhere. I *also* dislike extended club mixes because they feel like maniacal, forced, singled-minded happiness, and that irritates me, as do other aspects of the style, such as the never-ending, pounding beat going on and on and on.

Since I thought you wouldn't like "Day of Suffering," I had a second song in the wings (one I thought you *would* like) ready to share with you to demonstrate your point that lengthening a short song you like does not automatically improve it but often makes you like the song less:

Pulp - "Common People" (4:15 minute version)
I love this 4 minute song, but I find its 7 minute extended version less compelling. The longer version feels rambling and has less punch, less pent-up frustration building up to release. A volcano that erupts violently after a short buildup or warning is more exciting than one that spits and steams for 10 years before finally exploding.


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I like our debate, Ki, and I appreciate your pointing out commonalities in our listening even as there are differences in our listening philosophy.
It's definitely one of the better ones i've had in a long time.

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I can understand how you'd like a 10-12 minute song that builds to an incredible climax, but I prefer (with music) not to wait so long until the climax!
I suppose it's just a matter of patience. You and I are different in that sense. You want to hear what you are supposed to hear from the song right away, whereas I am not worried about waiting a couple extra minutes. Also keep in mind that I listen to music that would be deemed as very repetitive, but over the last year or two, i've realized that it's 95% worth the wait. Even if the song is 10 minutes long, and the climax is within the last 2 minutes.

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I think the main differences between your and my listening are that (1) you are more likely than I to listen to a new song from finish to end; (2) you are less likely than I to reject a song due only to its length.
Length never comes into play when I listen to music. In the time that I have been exposed to music, (and I would wager that's been the last 16 years of my life) i've never once thought to look at the length that it would take for the song to be over, I listen to the song to enjoy the music.

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My issue with your and Trollheart's descriptions and those of many others in this thread is that you discuss the virtues of listening to and liking music "regardless of length," and yet that seems unrealistic to me.
What is so unrealistic about liking music? Isn't that what you're supposed to do? I still have not been convinced that the length of the song has anything to do with how much you like the music.

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I also disagree with you on the idea of there being a "fair listen." I don't see listening preferences as having to do with fairness toward an artist or a song.
Well if you're not willing to give a thorough listen of an album, than you aren't giving the band's release a fair listen.

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Finally, I don't agree with you that "bad listening" exists. When someone says she doesn't want to listen to the end of a long song, I just see that as a preference...a different type of preference than for a genre, yet still just a preference. Since people like their own preferences, then I feel their listening tendencies can't be bad because the way they listen to music isn't bad for *them.*
If it's not bad for them, fine. But it's still a pretty flawed way to go about it.

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I agree with you that if I don't listen to all of a long song, there may be times when I miss out on something wonderful at the end.

However, I am searching for songs that I like from beginning to end. If I already know after several minutes that I don't like the beginning, then it makes sense for me to move on to a song where I may like the whole thing. And if I like the beginning of the song but am starting to feel its length is unappealingly long, then it is reasonable to stop listening because I'm not enjoying it.
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Does anyone else here see the irony behind calling oneself "wisdom"
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"Music Addict" is just the default label that comes after you make enough posts to get past "Groupie", it's not like wisdom chose it.
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"Music Addict" is just the default label that comes after you make enough posts to get past "Groupie", it's not like wisdom chose it.
How many posts until I become a "blockhead"?

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