Your reaction when confronted with popular music

s_k · 11-28-2011, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by RezZ

Their are things called condoms/birthcontrol/planb you know. Their is also the highly scientific pull out method that many men love so much. Just be wary of the precum, because that tricky bastard has gotten girls pregnant before!

That's not a method. That's plain stupid.
I used a condom my first time to my... 70th time or something.
Then one broke and I decided I wouldn't rely on those anymore.
Took my girlfriend (who was in a serious depression back then, poor thing) almost a year to get herself to use birth control. So that's no actual sex for a year. Ah well. I'm not stupid

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How the **** did we end up talking about this in this discussion?

Oh yeah. Yes I go out to places where the music is good, so most of the people are just fine, as well.

Salami · 11-28-2011, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

Well, religious parents suck from my point of view. But I'm a very atheist person. Sorry for all you religious people out there

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I never noticed you're 16. Which probably is a compliment

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Eitherway, this is going to sound really awful because I'm only 27; When I was your age (...) I thought exactly the same. You may change. I don't know. I'm sure I did.
And you may think I'm some sort of male slut, but I'm definitely not! I lost my virginity at my 19th ànd 20th (my first time was actually around the midnight of my birthday, pure coincidence) and I didn't have actual sex with any other girl. Partly because I've had a relationship with her from my 18th to my 25th and it took me quite some time to get over her

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So all I really say is: I don't go out having sex with whomever I can, I just don't really need a relationship with someone to have sex with that person. I really do need to care a lot about her, though. But I do care a lot about my female friends, you know

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Haha... "Male slut?" I'm not being judgemental, I look up to you to see how all adults behave!!!
No, it wouldn't make sense for you to be condemned by some guy on the internet for your liking your female friends to manifest itself in a different way. So of course I won't! I'm just interested in how your idea of sex is different from the kind I've been brought up to believe.

s_k · 11-28-2011, 03:09 PM

Sex, to me, is a part of love. And Love, to me, is not neccesarily a part of a relationship.

Does that make sense in some way?

Salami · 11-28-2011, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

Sex, to me, is a part of love. And Love, to me, is not neccesarily a part of a relationship.

Does that make sense in some way?

Of course. Although when you say "love", you mean that you must still like a person for who they are for you to have sex with them.

s_k · 11-28-2011, 05:36 PM

Yes, obviously. What else would I like them for?
To make it more understandable; I tell my female friends, and I don't mean my actual girlfriend, I love them sometimes. It's usually something guys tell their girlfriend and girls tell their female friends, but I somehow do it to and it seems to work. And it's true, I do

anticipation · 11-28-2011, 06:34 PM

On the real, if I'm anywhere and someone starts playing pop music I'm straight:

Engine · 11-28-2011, 07:11 PM

I was just about to say that popular music has never really stepped to me before but you just said it a lot better.

Ferrari5180 · 11-30-2011, 09:42 PM

I honestly respect everyone's musical preferences. I must admit that sometimes I hear a song and literally utter "oh my". I think that a song can be terrible, but have a meaning and background that will categorize it as just not for me. Its when I hear useless songs that have no lyrical sense or fail to produce any unique sounding music. We will always have different preferences for music, and no one should be shy or embarassed to what they listen to. I admit, this forum is fairly advanced when it comes to music, but doesn't mean anyone should change their preferences to cater to others. Listen to what you like, and if it happens to be popular, who cares. For example, the song "Hey Jude" from the Beatles was popular in its time, and still is now, does that mean you should stop listening to them or frown at someone when presented with it? Absolutely not!

Dr_Rez · 12-01-2011, 03:55 AM

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Originally Posted by s_k

That's not a method. That's plain stupid.
I used a condom my first time to my... 70th time or something.
Then one broke and I decided I wouldn't rely on those anymore.
Took my girlfriend (who was in a serious depression back then, poor thing) almost a year to get herself to use birth control. So that's no actual sex for a year. Ah well. I'm not stupid

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How the **** did we end up talking about this in this discussion?

Oh yeah. Yes I go out to places where the music is good, so most of the people are just fine, as well.

Haha I was just messing around.

Salami · 12-01-2011, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by RezZ

Haha I was just messing around.

This has unfortunately turned into the "Sex Ed thread".

11-28-2011, 03:09 PM	#83 (permalink)
s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	Sex, to me, is a part of love. And Love, to me, is not neccesarily a part of a relationship. Does that make sense in some way? __________________ Click here to see my collection

11-28-2011, 05:36 PM	#85 (permalink)
s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	Yes, obviously. What else would I like them for? To make it more understandable; I tell my female friends, and I don't mean my actual girlfriend, I love them sometimes. It's usually something guys tell their girlfriend and girls tell their female friends, but I somehow do it to and it seems to work. And it's true, I do __________________ Click here to see my collection

11-28-2011, 07:11 PM	#87 (permalink)
Engine air quote Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: pollen & mold Posts: 3,108	I was just about to say that popular music has never really stepped to me before but you just said it a lot better. __________________ Like an arrow, I was only passing through.

11-28-2011, 06:34 PM	#86 (permalink)
anticipation Music Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 3,565	On the real, if I'm anywhere and someone starts playing pop music I'm straight:

11-30-2011, 09:42 PM	#88 (permalink)
Ferrari5180 Groupie Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 15	I honestly respect everyone's musical preferences. I must admit that sometimes I hear a song and literally utter "oh my". I think that a song can be terrible, but have a meaning and background that will categorize it as just not for me. Its when I hear useless songs that have no lyrical sense or fail to produce any unique sounding music. We will always have different preferences for music, and no one should be shy or embarassed to what they listen to. I admit, this forum is fairly advanced when it comes to music, but doesn't mean anyone should change their preferences to cater to others. Listen to what you like, and if it happens to be popular, who cares. For example, the song "Hey Jude" from the Beatles was popular in its time, and still is now, does that mean you should stop listening to them or frown at someone when presented with it? Absolutely not!