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A close friend of mine heard a song once that had a very profound effect on him. He does not know what the song is called, or who is it by. He could only recall a few lyrics and he's not even sure that they are correct. I have been looking for this like crazy and any help would be unbelieveable. He said it sounded kind of like Cave In, and that the lyrics said something about "why do roses/or maybe it was flowers? bloom/maybe it is grow? over/on? graves" something like that. I've searched Cave In so I'm pretty sure It's NOT them. Any ideas? ahhh this is crazy but any help would be much much much appriciated.
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