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Originally Posted by Frownland
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If I would refer to you in the third person as "they", it wouldn't make any sense since "they" refers to more than one person.
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I think the concept is that a gender-neutral term term is needed for people who don't like "she" or "he", and "they" has become that term. Words change meanings over time, you know. That's how language works.
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Hopefully people who are in the minority that don't quite identify due to true dysphoria will understand since most people don't even consider that **** and maybe they're not the centre of the universe that dictates how people speak.
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I don't think you realize how callus you're being. You're basically saying that people who don't want to be called "he" or "she" should just deal with it because they're a minority. These people just want to be respected, they're not asking to be the center of the universe. Wouldn't you want to correct someone if they called you she? Wouldn't it bother you if that was something you had to do very regularly?
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People who have "dysphoria" just because it's trendy on tumblr should understand as well, but we both know that being understanding is the last thing that those types are capable of.
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What are you talking about? Why does it matter where someone finds out about dysphoria? Do you realize how great it is to have a resource like that that speaks to how people feel when there might not be anything or anyone else that does? And who the **** are you to question the validity of someone else's experiences? I'm not saying people don't make **** up, but wouldn't you rather just go with it and be wrong than not go with it and potentially hurt someone? If someone says they're experiencing something, at the very least they're considering what it's like to experience it. That's a lot more than what you appear to be doing here so far-- all making assumptions and acting like you know better about what people feel than they do-- and it's not the first time I've seen you do this. And what do you mean by "those types"? What are you trying to insinuate?
tl;dr you're being a jerk, words can mean new things if the need arises.
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