djchameleon

If she's giving you the idk sign it depends on how drunk you are because you will just go for it anyways. The more drunk/horny you are is what will determine how you perceive the whole "idk" point.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

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Yeah, I get where you're coming from but it's when it comes to serious crimes, law enforcement has to make difficult decisions. If a suspect has skipped town or mysteriously disappeared before you could get a name and picture, do you just let him go? Or do you try by any means you can to find him so you can proceed with the investigation?

It's an even more difficult choice because most of the time when it happens and it's that important to find people it's usually in serious crimes like rape or murder. Which means that if the person is innocent their reputation will be damaged but sometimes there isn't much choice.

I don't know about this specific case and jurisdiction but I know that many will only divulge names and information about people if they're officially suspects/people of interest with enough to tie them to the case. If it turns out they're innocent that sucks but what if they aren't and you're just letting someone go? It's difficult.

Maybe the guy ended up being cleared or else they found out some other way of tracking him down. It's freaky to think of a situation like that but I can also see the point behind it, if this makes sense.

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Then... what about not going for it anyways? I don't know, I'm prone to getting drunk and horny myself but if my partner is giving those vibes then I just stop and call it a day. As to not perceiving it, maybe it's why clear communication with a sexual partner is important. Even if it's just a one-night stand, I try to make sure they know they can safely back out without getting insulted or forced into anything they don't want to do.

Scarlett O'Hara

You sound like a really switched on and intelligent guy. I am definitely going to keep an eye out for your posts. How long have you been with your partner?

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I'm not in a serious relationship right now because I'm happily single. Also because my life right now is chaotic (in a good way) as I've been moving around a lot, so I don't want to force anyone to adapt to my ways or be miserable.

When I said "partner" in my posts, I meant sexual partners in general - more casual relationships, or a potential future SO once my life settles down a bit.

djchameleon

It is easy to say that now while you are sober and your judgement isn't impaired by alcohol.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

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That's why I said that you can, at the very least, make sure she knows she can safely back away without feeling pressured to do anything she doesn't want to do. And come on, "but I was drunk" isn't that great an excuse... I used to pick fights all the time when I got drunk, with some work you can change the way your drunk self acts. Plus if you know you're going to get like that, maybe be courteous and don't get drunk near your lady friends.

Then again, even when I'm drunk I'm not desperate enough to have half-hearted sex with someone who isn't really into it.