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Originally Posted by FETCHER. (Post 1283955)

Um, I dunno who that apology is directed at.

I think maybe in future you should try and be less emotional before you engage in musicbanter, I'm not going to lie, I'm pissed off at how judgemental everyone was towards my remark, I will try to be less rude and inane with my sociopathic ways in future :laughing:. How was it disheartening? I could go into the funny picture thread and find way more offensive stuff that people find funny. Just because you don't find me funny doesn't mean you can say **** like that to me, be thankful I'm not easily pissed off.

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the apology was directed at you.

it was disheartening because you're a human and vegan is a human and humans shouldn't tell each other to kill themselves. the breach in logic (a blatant one, IMO) in what you've just written here (aside from the contradiction i posed by bolding two parts of that quote) that i also find disheartening that you seem to think because some people find you funny (regardless of your sentence "I'm pissed off at how judgemental everyone was toward my remark", you still say this) it gives you licence to say whatever you feel like saying and expect it to just slide off of any and everyone's back. and furthermore, your last sentence declares that i am not allowed to say whatever i want, while you - seemingly - are.

i am totally over being "emotional" about it (but nonetheless quite alright that i have the capacity to do so), but your statement here is no less confusing than it is disheartening. i know now not to get worked up about what you say, perhaps because you seem to think you can kick my ass, and perhaps because your words just fall out of your mouth without much thought. either way, i apologized for over-reacting. and that's where you and i part on the subject.

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Originally Posted by FETCHER. (Post 1283873)

Ki, if I was singling you out I would've blatantly wrote your name, your post was freshest in my head alright? I don't think you were being sarcastic at all either.

Whether or not you think my comment was sarcastic, it doesn't matter. I express my apologies, even though my remarks were meant to be taken lightly.

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Originally Posted by zevokes (Post 1283962)

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the apology was directed at you.

it was disheartening because you're a human and vegan is a human and humans shouldn't tell each other to kill themselves. the breach in logic (a blatant one, IMO) in what you've just written here (aside from the contradiction i posed by bolding two parts of that quote) that i also find disheartening that you seem to think because some people find you funny (regardless of your sentence "I'm pissed off at how judgemental everyone was toward my remark", you still say this) it gives you licence to say whatever you feel like saying and expect it to just slide off of any and everyone's back. and furthermore, your last sentence declares that i am not allowed to say whatever i want, while you - seemingly - are.

i am totally over being "emotional" about it (but nonetheless quite alright that i have the capacity to do so), but your statement here is no less confusing than it is disheartening. i know now not to get worked up about what you say, perhaps because you seem to think you can kick my ass, and perhaps because your words just fall out of your mouth without much thought. either way, i apologized for over-reacting. and that's where you and i part on the subject.

Cool. I was going to accept it, before I read your full post.

I never once directed my kill yourself comment at vegan. It was a general statement. If you hadn't hit a blind rage then you would have realised I said I didn't care what anyone thought, vegan is such a sweet person or something along those lines. I would never blatantly tell someone on the Internet to kill themselves because I know not everyone has a thick skin like myself, I did however say if you can't take a bit of a slagging then don't use the Internet because people are nasty when they don't have to face the consequences of their actions/words. If I have a problem with someone I will approach the problem, not that I ever do have problems with members, except you. Yeah I was pissed off at how judgemental everyone was, I was bothered by your remarks to begin with which is when I first replied to you, being pissed off is a very general term, I'm sure you understand you get different degrees of anger, don't try and trip me up.

I'm never said everyone had to find me funny, if you don't like it you don't need to tell me you're going to beat the **** out of me over it, at least I was ****ing joking when your post was full of malice.

Listen, this isn't some sort of intelligence competition, I'm awfully sorry I'm not as good at writing pretentious posts as you are. Don't speak down to me as if I'm stupid, I'm certainly not.

On a side note, I've probably put bigger guys than you on their ass for less.

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 1283891)

I disagree with this analogy. No offense to you personally, but I think this perception of the mods demonstrates a lack of understanding of what we actually spend most of our time doing.

To me the mods are more like unpaid bartenders. We spend most of our time cleaning the bar (deleting spam) and serving people (updating avatars, approving threads, answering questions, etc.). Every once in a while we get a rowdy drunk in the bar who's either picking fights with people or making a mess or both. So we tell this person to knock it off. Sometimes they calm right down, sometimes they're belligerent drunks who get up in our faces. When that happens, rather than immediately throwing them out of the bar, we sometimes have a few harsh words for these belligerent ones in a final attempt to get them to back down. This is where Vegangelica comes in, not in the form of a social worker, but in the form of a busybody who just entered the room and has no idea what's going on but nevertheless decides to deliver some interminable, condescending sermon about how bartenders shouldn't be so mean to poor innocent patrons. It doesn't do anything to improve the mood in the bar, all it does is create drama. That's why it annoys the bartenders.

That is a really well thought out analogy, I am totally agreeing with it.

I think the irony of this thread now is the fact that it's 10 pages long, and Vegan hasn't posted once.

She will, she's probably preparing it currently.

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Originally Posted by FETCHER. (Post 1283972)

I never once directed my kill yourself comment at vegan.

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Originally Posted by FETCHER. (Post 1283612)

I'd also like to say Erica, that this is the Internet and you need to chill out man if you can't handle a bit of a bashing off someone on the Internet then you're not ready for the real world and if it makes you suicidal then you should probably be dead anyway.

Sounds like it's directed expressly at Vegangelica?

Well.. I'm **** at writing we've all pointed that out. I never meant by saying "you" that that was Erica. I meant in general, as I've said maybe once or twice before.

Anyone else got any complaints? I'm going to bed soon.

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Originally Posted by FETCHER. (Post 1284042)

You didn't notice my apology :( Anyway, I apologize for the miscommunication, hopefully no hard feelings.

It is cool, there is no hard feelings at all Ki, like I said your post was freshest in my head which is why I brought it up.