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Originally Posted by CanwllCorfe
21) A lot of people plan get togethers, and I'd love to go. But if they don't directly ask me, I won't get involved.
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This one really stood out to me, because I thought that was something for which I was alone. I'll be in a group of people as they plan a party or an outing to go see a movie after rehearsal or something, and other people just walk right in and say they'd love to go as well. I never say anything, and even if the people in question are my really good friends, if they don't specifically say, "Hey, are you coming?" or "Do you want to come?" I'll just go home instead of saying I want to go as well.
I don't know what I'm so worried about - I think it's some irrational fear that I'd be like, "Whoa! That sounds great! Count me in!" and then everyone would get all quiet and awkward and I'd realize that they didn't want me there..