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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah
Fred, I agree with you here. Jen is a total sweetiepie and Jess is also so it kinda took me back to read this because I have yet to see an unkind word (that wasn't warranted) come out of Jess's mouth. I really think it is a case of not knowing her at all. I think if they actually had a conversation I think Jess's opinion would change as she is always good about owning up to her mistakes.
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I think you guys need to realise that on the internet, you're not going to enjoy interacting with 100% of people you encounter. I'm not perfect by any means but as you all know I am a very loud and vocal person (see Franco's quote in Mankycaaant's sig). Often I do speak first and think later but I mean well. Yes I was nasty to her in the Nicki thread and am sorry for that.
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Really folks, Soulflower (aka RT92) is a sweetie pants. I think she feels alot of times like she is left out on the forum as alot of the humor on her is Caucasian based. I understand what it's like to feel like you can't relate with a community because of your skin tone. And that is something that comes from within the confidence to understand that just because you are a certain color doesn't make you less than, or better than. I honestly hate when people get on her case and I don't want to loose her as a poster.
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I had no idea what skin tone she is. I don't judge people based on that.
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Edit: Also there was a comment made about Vanilla and Ladyislingering that I want to comment on... I forget who said what about Vanilla but it was along the lines of drama follows her wherever she goes. That is crap! I just want to put that lame duck comment out of it's misery. I think that alot of times she is unfairly vilified and there for it looks like it follows her. But to say that is complete garbage. The girl works her ass off in school/ work and has an illness that keeps her in bed alot of times, so to say that and attack her is weak. She is a bubbly sweet woman with a good head on her shoulders and I am proud to call her my friend and my favorite blonde in the known universe.
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It is crap. Yes I had loads of drama with Sansa which worked both ways but that comment doesn't make sense. I think because I am a big personality and loud which means I am noticeable but I don't feel drama follows me. I think that was just a comment to try get a rise out of me.
Thank you baby girl you're such a sweetheart. I don't let my situation justify what I say and do on here like some people do. I have a boat load of health issues including general anxiety disorder which is sometimes why I have little freak outs or overreact but again that's up to me to get a handle on. I only got diagnosed this year and am on medication which I hope will start making a difference soon. I also live with chronic pain which often affects my study but I'm trying so hard to get through it. I've made money through my own self arranged work under the table (social media etc) which is exciting. I am so flattered by your comments Jess (Roxy) and you work just as hard. I think it's f
ucking fantastic what you're doing with forensics and you also have been through a lot as well
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Originally Posted by Frownland
I'm sure she's very nice but her approach to debate is too bullheaded for my taste. The war on logic is pretty irritating too.
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This!! I wasn't trying to put her down as a person, I have no doubt she is a nice person, but I was talking about the style of debate she has. I can't be bothered discussing things with her because she is very bull in a china shop discussion wise. Sure it's great to see more people discussing music but as this is a SYG I am allowed to be open about my frustrations with other members. You guys see me supporting members who have differences about them that don't necessarily meet societies norms. I actually give a big **** about people here.