Key

No offense, but when FD and Vanilla get in this thread, drama happens. Them both being mods, they should be taking a bit more care in not starting drama.

GuD

I hope that 'Awww" wasn't some patronizing bull****. I stand by my claim. And to my knowledge, FD, you still haven't owned up to the fact that you used the comparison of Vanilla to a tranny and WWWP to a man as an insult. It's been brought up multiple times and each time you've avoided it entirely. Do you really need help on understanding how that's offensive?

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Freebase Dali

If you want me to go around and look for things I think about dudes, let me know. I'm sorry if your face is the most shocking thing that I see on this website that causes me to have an opinion that kinda rides on the top of all the rest.

Sure, I can censor myself to not have negative opinions about female members. In fact, I can rename this thread to: Spill Your Guts: What You Really Think About Male MB Members. Would that make you more secure, even though it's highly sexist for you to even think that only men are deserving of brutal honesty. Really, you're not doing yourself any favors here. It's pretty f*cking obvious that you're trying to incorporate a double standard... and if you don't know it, well, I've an opinion about that too that I can put in another post in this thread.

If you prefer, you can delete this entire thread so that no one can ever thing badly of you in internet public. Granted, it's kind of a message of its own.

You decide.

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John Wilkes Booth

imo...

nobody gets offended when ladyis--- says she doesn't find batlord sexually appealing (sorry ladyis-- and batlord i'm honestly not trying to throw you under the bus on purpose it's just a useful example). i don't really get the difference between commenting on someone's looks and commenting on their sex appeal in general. it's the same game you're playing at the end of the day.

i guess it really boils down to... women want to have their cake and eat it too. they want their primary value to be sex appeal while still getting to resent that men overlook their other qualities.


personally if a girl doesn't like my looks i won't feel great about it but at the end of the day as long as i can find other ones that i like who like me back i don't care that much tbh. it's not the most important thing to me. i will genuinely get more of a hurt ego if i sense someone way smarter than me condescending me rather than someone condescending my looks cause intelligence is really more important to me at the end of the day. that's just my criteria. everybody has theirs. it just seems like 90% women have looks as their main criteria while pretending not to.

...imo.

Freebase Dali

Oh come on. It's somehow better if I'm being honest about a non-mod?

If you think mods should not be allowed to post in this thread unless it's positive, then start a petition. We will honor the demand, but guess what, it's not going to look good at all...

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Scarlett O'Hara

I didn't start it first of all and we were having a discussion that needed to be talked about as its the elephant in the room.

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Key

Before you guys jump all over me, this thread has had a history of stirring **** up, and mods took to it and deleted the drama. Having mods create drama that they have been said to delete in the past seems counter productive. You tell regular members to take these issues to PM, you guys should do the same.

Freebase Dali

Check the thread title.

Let me know if you need help understanding English.

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GuD

@JWB there's a pretty big difference between not finding someone attractive and voicing that opinion the way FD did. Not that this is at all my discussion but it seems everyone else is chiming in so I will too.

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Scarlett O'Hara

How is it sexist for me saying men are not having their looks critizied? It's sexiest that women here only get their looks bashed. You knew that's what I meant so stop playing the victim.

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