Freebase Dali

I wasn't giving you advice. I was giving you an opinion. If you truly don't care about other people's opinions, you wouldn't be replying to mine like a butt-hurt little school girl. Woman up and realize that your own perspective isn't the only one that exists. I'm sorry if that hurts, but it's kinda necessary if you want to traverse life not being the only one unaware of your appearance. Indeed, if you didn't care about your appearance at all, you've no reason for makeup in the first place. So, since it's established that you DO care how you appear to others, maybe some outside input could be interpreted less as an attack and more as something to keep in mind? At least, that way, you might actually be able to gain something constructive out of it.

Love ya.

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Chula Vista

Whoa.

Love the most recent pic V. Extremely fetching.

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“The fact that we live at the bottom of a deep gravity well,
on the surface of a gas covered planet going around a nuclear fireball 90 million miles away
and think this to be normal is obviously some indication of how skewed our perspective tends to be.”

John Wilkes Booth

lol everyone is somewhat insecure but how can you really cast off the shackles of society's judgment when you continue to give it so much weight. it really seems like a paradox to me to be offended on the one hand and 'not care' on the other. it's just thinly veiled caring to me.

Freebase Dali

It's probably not something controllable. Humanity is bound by humanity's shortcomings and/or tendencies. We will always care about our appearance to the world. If we don't, we're usually the ones cast aside because we end up as the slobs of the world or the afflicted that cannot think outside of themselves in order to function socially. There's a legitimately motivating social function involved with fitting in. It's kinda how society works on a broad scale. What we see with people that claim to "not care" who are also offended by people that insult our sensibilities is just evidence of a typical ego problem. Someone that can judge others in every way, irrelevant of whether it's internal our not, but can't handle the same coming back. It seems to me such a thing is based on an individual's misguided sense of self. Sure, it's great to be confident in one's own self image, but when that confidence excludes any possibility of being incorrect, there's an ego problem.

I say all that to say, while I might be completely wrong, I still reserve the right to express what I currently believe until someone comes along and educates me on why it is not a valid perspective.

I'm waiting. Not as a challenge, but as a will to understand people better minus the bullshit part about people's feelings being hurt. This isn't the place for that crap.

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Scarlett O'Hara

Haha I'm butthurt because I don't care for your opinion? That's rich. You're butthurt because I'm calling you out for being rude and critizing me when you again brought up my make up out of nowhere. Try learning to have some respect for me instead of teaching me how life is. I don't care what people think of my make up because I wear it for my own enjoyment. I don't expect you to understand this since you don't wear make up. It's also disappointing that you think I'm trying to cover up my natural beauty because men who affiliate themselves as women wear make up because it makes them feel good and feminine. Exactly why I like it. So next time you want to call someone a tranny get off your high horse and have some respect for the transgender and transexual community.

Catch ya bb!

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Scarlett O'Hara

Thanks hun. If only you weren't taken hehe.

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Freebase Dali

I accept your opinion with as much validity as my own. Welcome to the thread.

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Scarlett O'Hara

Ignoring my opinion of your bad behaviour is acceptance? I must be Abraham Lincoln then.

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Freebase Dali

I didn't ignore it. I just didn't need to comment on it because I believe it is valid as your opinion. Although I'm unsure about the "bad behavior" part. What have I done do you consider inappropriate?

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Chula Vista

I'm old school.

Dudes should go out of their way to respect girls.

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“The fact that we live at the bottom of a deep gravity well,
on the surface of a gas covered planet going around a nuclear fireball 90 million miles away
and think this to be normal is obviously some indication of how skewed our perspective tends to be.”