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11-28-2014 07:07 PM |
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Originally Posted by Carpe Mortem
(Post 1514708)
Did that dude/chick really just get offended over my high self esteem? Its not like I put down others. Straight up sounds jealous.
Also just a note of philosophy, I'd personally rather hear people say how great they think they are than how little they think of themselves. I think I generally get along better with people who actually like who they are. Low self esteem is ****in annoying.
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Self esteem is great. It's easy when you're good looking to have it though. When you're not considered beautiful by the masses it's not easy for a woman to think highly of her looks. Judgements affect people no matter how much they say it doesn't.
In my case I have pretty high self esteem but am still human with my occasional moment I don't feel hot as usual (pms usually). I am a self admitted attention seeker so enjoy the appearance comments. I actually get nearly an equal amount of comments related to my personality (i.e. nice, good mod, w/e) and my music taste.
In terms of the members gallery, people post pictures because they want physical feedback on their looks, man or woman. Not all, but most. There is nothing wrong with that. Most of us are all friends and we care about each others opinions.
My main problem with Freebases comment isn't about him objectifying women but the fact that he used the word tranny as an insult. It's pretty pathetic and sets back the transsexual community. I don't give a **** if he thinks I'm fugly, he's on here like 3 times a year or something and is usually drunk. He comes back to try "stir things up" in the community and everytime he does it he tries to blast me. What does that say about him? He's holding some gripe against me. I'm not sorry that I don't fit your ideals of what a woman should look like. My unique look is what makes me different amongst the sheeple.
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