Spill Your Guts: What You Really Think About MB members

Engine · 08-25-2014, 08:31 PM

^Real talk: he said that calling this particular person 'a psycho' is cruel. I agree with Fred

RoxyRollah · 08-25-2014, 08:34 PM

Did he need to specify?
Its pretty obvious what statement made him reply with that.

YorkeDaddy · 08-25-2014, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Engine

^Real talk: he said that calling this particular person 'a psycho' is cruel.

wow what a total psycho

Engine · 08-25-2014, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

Did he need to specify?
Its pretty obvious what statement made him reply with that.

did who need to what because why?

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Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy

wow what a total psycho

KAPOW

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 08-25-2014, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

Fred, I agree with you here. Jen is a total sweetiepie and Jess is also so it kinda took me back to read this because I have yet to see an unkind word (that wasn't warranted) come out of Jess's mouth. I really think it is a case of not knowing her at all. I think if they actually had a conversation I think Jess's opinion would change as she is always good about owning up to her mistakes.

I think you guys need to realise that on the internet, you're not going to enjoy interacting with 100% of people you encounter. I'm not perfect by any means but as you all know I am a very loud and vocal person (see Franco's quote in Mankycaaant's sig). Often I do speak first and think later but I mean well. Yes I was nasty to her in the Nicki thread and am sorry for that.

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Really folks, Soulflower (aka RT92) is a sweetie pants. I think she feels alot of times like she is left out on the forum as alot of the humor on her is Caucasian based. I understand what it's like to feel like you can't relate with a community because of your skin tone. And that is something that comes from within the confidence to understand that just because you are a certain color doesn't make you less than, or better than. I honestly hate when people get on her case and I don't want to loose her as a poster.

I had no idea what skin tone she is. I don't judge people based on that.

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Edit: Also there was a comment made about Vanilla and Ladyislingering that I want to comment on... I forget who said what about Vanilla but it was along the lines of drama follows her wherever she goes. That is crap! I just want to put that lame duck comment out of it's misery. I think that alot of times she is unfairly vilified and there for it looks like it follows her. But to say that is complete garbage. The girl works her ass off in school/ work and has an illness that keeps her in bed alot of times, so to say that and attack her is weak. She is a bubbly sweet woman with a good head on her shoulders and I am proud to call her my friend and my favorite blonde in the known universe.

It is crap. Yes I had loads of drama with Sansa which worked both ways but that comment doesn't make sense. I think because I am a big personality and loud which means I am noticeable but I don't feel drama follows me. I think that was just a comment to try get a rise out of me.

Thank you baby girl you're such a sweetheart. I don't let my situation justify what I say and do on here like some people do. I have a boat load of health issues including general anxiety disorder which is sometimes why I have little freak outs or overreact but again that's up to me to get a handle on. I only got diagnosed this year and am on medication which I hope will start making a difference soon. I also live with chronic pain which often affects my study but I'm trying so hard to get through it. I've made money through my own self arranged work under the table (social media etc) which is exciting. I am so flattered by your comments Jess (Roxy) and you work just as hard. I think it's fucking fantastic what you're doing with forensics and you also have been through a lot as well

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I'm sure she's very nice but her approach to debate is too bullheaded for my taste. The war on logic is pretty irritating too.

This!! I wasn't trying to put her down as a person, I have no doubt she is a nice person, but I was talking about the style of debate she has. I can't be bothered discussing things with her because she is very bull in a china shop discussion wise. Sure it's great to see more people discussing music but as this is a SYG I am allowed to be open about my frustrations with other members. You guys see me supporting members who have differences about them that don't necessarily meet societies norms. I actually give a big **** about people here.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 08-25-2014, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan

I don't see why you have to judge Vanilla. That's how she feels, and I can understand where she is coming form. I put realtalk/Soulflower on the ignore list awhile back after one of her rants.

Thanks for understanding. I will put her on ignore too. Yes saying psycho doesn't sound nice but I mean't she is like that in discussions. I'm not sure how it comes off cruel?

Engine · 08-25-2014, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Thanks for understanding. I will put her on ignore too. Yes saying psycho doesn't sound nice but I mean't she is like that in discussions. I'm not sure how it comes off cruel?

I realize 'psycho' hasn't been fully co-opted by the PC but in my mind it's kind of like calling her a retard. Personally I'm fine with both of those words but I acknowledge that they're damn cruel when you consider what you are actually saying.

TheBig3 · 08-25-2014, 08:57 PM

You know whats wrong with you people? You take this **** too seriously. And beyond this ****, you take most **** too seriously.

Here's some advice: Your thoughts aren't that deep. And even if they were, you lack to basic skills to communicate them without sounding like a flock of squawking geese. Everything is "You've degraded a whole sub-section of humanity with that sentence, you cretin!"

Or "but what about the queer-neutral transmogrified Inuit you left out of your otherwise all-inclusive verbiage? How patriarchal are you!??!"

And you know, it's not really what you say. It's how you say it. Yes, you. You're an idiot. Stop looking behind you like I'm talking to the other jerk with a stupid avatar. You read an article, or watched a lecture on Youtube and you came here to masturbate all over the forums like you're a ****ing PhD in pan-societal family structures. And you jerk off here because none of the friends you have off of these forums gives a ****. Well news flash, we don't give a **** either. We're just stuck here on this raft with you, and to be honest, a few of us got together yesterday and thought about killing you for the extra meat it would provide.

Stop thinking up a response. Just stop. The forum cannot be all wars, soapbox mounting and gifs. We've all had enough of that, and the "remember when" posts it yields. Let's just pretend I never wrote this, and you never did these things, and maybe the next time you write something you can pretend like you give a **** about other people and the forums and make a post worthy of responding to.

Just go write a post for your journal. **** it, post a gif if that's all that's left in your arsenal, but stop coming to the lounge. And for christ sake go to the doctor, you look like your cholesterol's through the roof.

(side note: spelled cholesterol right on the first go...its a banner day for me.)

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 08-25-2014, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Engine

I realize 'psycho' hasn't been fully co-opted by the PC but in my mind it's kind of like calling her a retard. Personally I'm fine with both of those words but I acknowledge that they're damn cruel when you consider what you are actually saying.

I don't understand how you get retard from psycho? I mean it as coming off angry with her posts. I can say for sure retard is not what I'm saying. But whatever, people can get offended easily by some slang words that can have multiple meanings. I can't please everyone.

TheBig3 · 08-25-2014, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

I don't understand how you get retard from psycho? I mean it as coming off angry with her posts. I can say for sure retard is not what I'm saying. But whatever, people can get offended easily by some slang words that can have multiple meanings. I can't please everyone.

What the **** did I just say?

08-25-2014, 08:31 PM	#5361 (permalink)
Engine air quote Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: pollen & mold Posts: 3,108	^Real talk: he said that calling this particular person 'a psycho' is cruel. I agree with Fred __________________ Like an arrow, I was only passing through.

08-25-2014, 08:57 PM	#5368 (permalink)
TheBig3 killedmyraindog Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 11,172	You know whats wrong with you people? You take this ** too seriously. And beyond this , you take most too seriously. Here's some advice: Your thoughts aren't that deep. And even if they were, you lack to basic skills to communicate them without sounding like a flock of squawking geese. Everything is "You've degraded a whole sub-section of humanity with that sentence, you cretin!" Or "but what about the queer-neutral transmogrified Inuit you left out of your otherwise all-inclusive verbiage? How patriarchal are you!??!" And you know, it's not really what you say. It's how you say it. Yes, you. You're an idiot. Stop looking behind you like I'm talking to the other jerk with a stupid avatar. You read an article, or watched a lecture on Youtube and you came here to masturbate all over the forums like you're a ing PhD in pan-societal family structures. And you jerk off here because none of the friends you have off of these forums gives a . Well news flash, we don't give a either. We're just stuck here on this raft with you, and to be honest, a few of us got together yesterday and thought about killing you for the extra meat it would provide. Stop thinking up a response. Just stop. The forum cannot be all wars, soapbox mounting and gifs. We've all had enough of that, and the "remember when" posts it yields. Let's just pretend I never wrote this, and you never did these things, and maybe the next time you write something you can pretend like you give a about other people and the forums and make a post worthy of responding to. Just go write a post for your journal. ** it, post a gif if that's all that's left in your arsenal, but stop coming to the lounge. And for christ sake go to the doctor, you look like your cholesterol's through the roof. (side note: spelled cholesterol right on the first go...its a banner day for me.)