See now I can understand that... But it's all in how you approach her And I mean that darling. I have had some very serious racial motivated discussion with her, and she and I don't but heads at all and yall know damn well I say what I think with no motha****in filter. Come at her differently because Jen really responds if you come at her in an educational perspective. If you treat her in a way where she can use that big old beefy brain of hers then she is lovely.

Well, since we're on the Soulflower love train I'll throw my two cents in too. I think she's pretty groovy. She's passionate about music and that's mostly what she talks about. This place could use more of that.

Fixed! Guess who is not going to be asked to be Don Cornelius this year for Halloween.... cough :rolleyes:

Soulflower is cool with me, I just disagree with a great deal of her posts. Her constant rag on the mainstream is pretty tiresome.

Roxy: Doesn't actually know how to edit her sig.

So true! I don't but I know how to pm you ;) :love:

I don't see why you have to judge Vanilla. That's how she feels, and I can understand where she is coming form. I put realtalk/Soulflower on the ignore list awhile back after one of her rants.

He didn't judge Vanilla babe, he pointed out her statement was harsh.

Is that weird? I thought you said you liked friends.

But then again Fred didn't precisely say that her statement was cruel. In so many words Vanilla said what she took away the conversation she had with realtalk/soulflower. Vanilla only expressed how she felt about the situation Fred said "Thats pretty cruel."