Originally Posted by PoorOldPo (Post 1189857)

I have never actually interacted with Vanilla but she seems very nice, like a mother figure or somthin on here. I am probably off about the mother figure thing though, I dunno, that might have been a weird thing to say? whatever.

Originally Posted by mojopinuk (Post 1190041)

I'd say post in threads of bands and artists you like, genre-specific threads, and spread your posting as wide across the forums as you can and forget finding a niche. The more interesting members here are the ones who listen to all kinds of music anyway.

Originally Posted by Blarobbarg (Post 1190032)

I feel like most people on here are pretty awesome in their own way, with the exception of Norg. Seriously, what's up with that guy? He makes cute, colorful, anime rabbit avatars look shameful.

Unfortunately, even though people on here are really awesome, I don't really feel like I fit in very well. I don't have a niche. I'm not really metal enough to be with the metalheads, I'm way too lazy to be one of the journalists, and I just sort of post randomly in everything else. I tend to lurk a lot out of a lack of things to say. Anyone have any suggestions for how to integrate myself better? Hell, I've been here for over a year now. Seems like I would have found somewhere to fit in.

Originally Posted by Blarobbarg (Post 1190032)

Unfortunately, even though people on here are really awesome, I don't really feel like I fit in very well. I don't have a niche. I'm not really metal enough to be with the metalheads, I'm way too lazy to be one of the journalists, and I just sort of post randomly in everything else. I tend to lurk a lot out of a lack of things to say. Anyone have any suggestions for how to integrate myself better? Hell, I've been here for over a year now. Seems like I would have found somewhere to fit in.

Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 1189986)

Well if mothers are catty and horny count me in!

Originally Posted by Bam You Have AIDS (Post 1190075)

Truthfully, most of the time I don't think that I fit in all that well either, because I look around at the sub-communities of users, be they friends or tight-knit fans, and I don't really have any of that. But that's okay. I've found what works for me, and I'm happy with it. Point is, it's not a symptom of failure that you feel this way.

Originally Posted by TheBig3 (Post 1190084)

I have no idea who you are.

Originally Posted by Urban Hatemonger (Post 1190087)

Oojay

Originally Posted by Freebase Dali (Post 1189867)

Eh... I think nonsubmissivewife is probably the mom. Vanilla's the rebellious, horny stepchild.

Originally Posted by James (Post 1189873)

If NSW is the mother figure she isn't a very good mother. She's very absent and only pops in every now and then to make comments about beards. Pedestrian is the older sister who is forced to play the mother role due to NSW's neglect of the family.