|
Register | Blogging | Today's Posts | Search |
![]() |
|
Thread Tools | Display Modes |
![]() |
#741 (permalink) | |
Zum Henker Defätist!!
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Beating GNR at DDR and keying Axl's new car
Posts: 48,199
|
![]()
I'd say if the other person doesn't notice then there's no reason to open yourself up to the physical danger of outing yourself to any Yahoo you happen to trade tongues with.
__________________
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#742 (permalink) | |
Music Addict
Join Date: Sep 2020
Location: Westberlin
Posts: 56
|
![]() Quote:
I have a question: Is pathologizing transsexuality (and homosexuality) against the forum rules? As a German I have the impression that this forum is quite tolerant and maintains an American understanding of freedom of speech.
__________________
I speak German English. |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#743 (permalink) | ||
the bantering battleaxe
Join Date: Oct 2018
Location: Cute Post Malone's mom
Posts: 3,395
|
![]()
I'd say any reasonable statement of your opinions is ok, (by which I mean being calm and gentle about it, not aiming to troll or hurt) but going on a transphobic rant results in a ban.
About the trans question: I think you should tell people when a relationship is getting serious. Like Hawk said, living through something like that is so big and formative that by omitting it you leave out a part of yourself. That way it's very different from the number of sexual partners.
__________________
![]() Quote:
Quote:
|
||
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#744 (permalink) |
one-balled nipple jockey
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Dirty Souf Biatch
Posts: 22,006
|
![]()
If your number of past sexual partners is zero or only one or well-over the standard deviation like over 100 I think it’s bad form not to mention that during courtship. With one night stands abnormal weirdness should be assumed so it’s more all is fair.
__________________
2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 Member of the Year & Journal of the Year Champion Behold the Writing of THE LEGEND: https://www.musicbanter.com/members-...p-lighter.html |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#745 (permalink) | ||
the bantering battleaxe
Join Date: Oct 2018
Location: Cute Post Malone's mom
Posts: 3,395
|
![]()
True, in exceptional cases it becomes relevant enough to mention. But even then it's far less important than being trans
__________________
![]() Quote:
Quote:
|
||
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#746 (permalink) | |
Music Addict
Join Date: Sep 2020
Location: Westberlin
Posts: 56
|
![]() Quote:
I am a realist. So I won't talk very openly about these things. ![]() Homo- and transsexuality should be legal and without problems. But what happens when I discuss pathologic reasons? It's not so important. I'm just interested because there are certain limitations in our "progressive" societies. ![]() When I read your statement again I think it would be okay to discuss those reasons but you have to be polite and factual.
__________________
I speak German English. |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#747 (permalink) | ||
the bantering battleaxe
Join Date: Oct 2018
Location: Cute Post Malone's mom
Posts: 3,395
|
![]()
Exactly
__________________
![]() Quote:
Quote:
|
||
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#748 (permalink) |
Account Disabled
Join Date: Jul 2019
Posts: 4,403
|
![]()
Moral obligation seems loaded
I think some amount of deception is permissible to try to get laid but that can also backfire I think it would be smarter for at trans person to get that out in the open right away since if that's gonna be a deal breaker you are saving both parties wasted time. For casual sexual encounters I don't really care except that it might be more dangerous to hide it. If someone who's transphobic finds out about the deception that can be very dangerous. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#750 (permalink) |
one-balled nipple jockey
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Dirty Souf Biatch
Posts: 22,006
|
![]()
Yeah lol
Just put your hate in the open gut. It grows better in sunlight.
__________________
2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 Member of the Year & Journal of the Year Champion Behold the Writing of THE LEGEND: https://www.musicbanter.com/members-...p-lighter.html |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
|