Opting Out Of Parenthood

WWWP · 01-19-2019, 11:57 PM

I got the evil stepmother experience. Today though I still do her the courtesy of a phone call every few months whereas I haven't talked to my dad for more than a decade. He cheated on my mom, dumped her, and married my stepmom within weeks of knowing her. He would force us to call her mom while at the same time she would say "don't call me mom, it freaks me out," and being told to only refer to our birth mom as "the egg donor." Just some really good parenting decisions being made.

OccultHawk · 01-20-2019, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by WWWP

I got the evil stepmother experience. Today though I still do her the courtesy of a phone call every few months whereas I haven't talked to my dad for more than a decade. He cheated on my mom, dumped her, and married my stepmom within weeks of knowing her. He would force us to call her mom while at the same time she would say "don't call me mom, it freaks me out," and being told to only refer to our birth mom as "the egg donor." Just some really good parenting decisions being made.

Did you live with him or your mom?

GunmouthGrace · 01-20-2019, 01:02 AM

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WWWP · 01-20-2019, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

Did you live with him or your mom?

I didn't see my mom between the ages of 7-18.

Lived with my dad and stepmom from 5-16.

Moved out at 16 and reconnected with my mom on myspace lol.

OccultHawk · 01-20-2019, 02:14 AM

WTF was wrong with her?

WWWP · 01-20-2019, 02:33 AM

My mom? She was young, bullied by my dad, his parents, and my stepmom, naive and without resources. There was a nasty custody battle and it's all part of a larger story which I'll write one day and sell to Lifetime.

The Batlord · 01-20-2019, 03:40 AM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

I was twelve when my parents got divorced. I liked the guy my mom ending marrying who is still my stepdad today and a great person, and my dad had an awesome girlfriend at one point and new wife at another who were both amazing. I also didn't have the mindset of thinking they were trying to replace my parents. I recognized my mom was extremely unhappy with my dad who was a control freak with depression issues and although he was miserable for a while, they shouldnt have been together.

No comment about your unsubstantiated opinion about the likelihood of great step parents.

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Originally Posted by WWWP

I got the evil stepmother experience. Today though I still do her the courtesy of a phone call every few months whereas I haven't talked to my dad for more than a decade. He cheated on my mom, dumped her, and married my stepmom within weeks of knowing her. He would force us to call her mom while at the same time she would say "don't call me mom, it freaks me out," and being told to only refer to our birth mom as "the egg donor." Just some really good parenting decisions being made.

No wonder you're both such ***gots.

SmokeAndMirrors · 01-20-2019, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

I was twelve when my parents got divorced. I liked the guy my mom ending marrying who is still my stepdad today and a great person, and my dad had an awesome girlfriend at one point and new wife at another who were both amazing. I also didn't have the mindset of thinking they were trying to replace my parents. I recognized my mom was extremely unhappy with my dad who was a control freak with depression issues and although he was miserable for a while, they shouldnt have been together.

No comment about your unsubstantiated opinion about the likelihood of great step parents.

Yeah, my parents are still married and both me and my sister agree that they should've divorced years ago and should've never had us as kids.

OccultHawk · 01-20-2019, 06:02 AM

Right on elph

The sooner you embrace your white trash side the better

Btw, are sure that 16 y/o girl wasn’t you?

OccultHawk · 01-20-2019, 08:20 AM

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I grew up in northern Florida

got the **** out at 18 where I went to San Diego with no plan

met the other young homeless, good times, lots of stealing and drinking

Isn’t you only 18 and a half next month?

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OccultHawk one-balled nipple jockey Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Dirty Souf Biatch Posts: 22,006	Right on elph The sooner you embrace your white trash side the better Btw, are sure that 16 y/o girl wasn’t you? __________________ 2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 Member of the Year & Journal of the Year Champion Behold the Writing of THE LEGEND: https://www.musicbanter.com/members-...p-lighter.html