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Old 01-18-2019, 06:47 PM   #391 (permalink)
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It depends on the age of the kid. Attachment bonding etc.
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Old 01-18-2019, 06:50 PM   #392 (permalink)
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Old 01-18-2019, 06:59 PM   #393 (permalink)
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I've never said that to my step dad.
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Old 01-18-2019, 07:06 PM   #394 (permalink)
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If you go into it with a lack of understanding or sympathy towards the kid in that situation and care more about being respected as an authority over him, do you really deserve the respect?
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Old 01-18-2019, 07:08 PM   #395 (permalink)
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If you go into it with a lack of understanding or sympathy towards the kid in that situation and care more about being respected as an authority over him, do you really deserve the respect?
It couldn't be this simple
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Old 01-18-2019, 07:16 PM   #397 (permalink)
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well once the kid knows mommy overrides anything you say(as is their right), it's a hostage situation

that's what you sign up for and yeah it takes a special kind of patience

my siblings and I never took step father #2 or 3 seriously feel bad in retrospect
After the second divorce that person needs to seriously consider whether they are unmarriable.
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well once the kid knows mommy overrides anything you say(as is their right), it's a hostage situation

that's what you sign up for and yeah it takes a special kind of patience
I wouldn't have that kind of patience either tbf.

Also factor in what ever bs the dad could be feeding the kid behind their back. Most divorced people I've known have tried to use the kid in some way to hurt the other parent. It's disgusting.

My possibly controversial take is that I don't think mentally ill, unstable or immature people should have kids.
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Old 01-18-2019, 07:26 PM   #399 (permalink)
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That's never stopped you before.
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Old 01-18-2019, 07:54 PM   #400 (permalink)
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my siblings and I never took step father #2 or 3 seriously feel bad in retrospect
I think it’s pretty reasonable to forgive yourself

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