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Old 01-18-2019, 08:16 PM   #401 (permalink)
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well once the kid knows mommy overrides anything you say(as is their right), it's a hostage situation

that's what you sign up for and yeah it takes a special kind of patience

my siblings and I never took step father #2 or 3 seriously feel bad in retrospect
After the second divorce that person needs to seriously consider whether they are unmarriable.
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Old 01-18-2019, 08:19 PM   #402 (permalink)
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well once the kid knows mommy overrides anything you say(as is their right), it's a hostage situation

that's what you sign up for and yeah it takes a special kind of patience
I wouldn't have that kind of patience either tbf.

Also factor in what ever bs the dad could be feeding the kid behind their back. Most divorced people I've known have tried to use the kid in some way to hurt the other parent. It's disgusting.

My possibly controversial take is that I don't think mentally ill, unstable or immature people should have kids.
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Old 01-18-2019, 08:26 PM   #403 (permalink)
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Old 01-18-2019, 08:54 PM   #404 (permalink)
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Old 01-18-2019, 08:59 PM   #405 (permalink)
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Old 01-18-2019, 09:13 PM   #406 (permalink)
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Old 01-19-2019, 03:37 AM   #407 (permalink)
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Old 01-19-2019, 05:29 AM   #408 (permalink)
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Not all stepparents are bad and have rocky relationships with the bio kids. I've met a few that were pretty awesome. Though, the key word there being "few." I definitely don't think it's impossible, just somewhat uncommon or unlikely. Though then again, what the **** do I know?? I don't have kids and rarely date anymore.
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Old 01-19-2019, 06:21 AM   #409 (permalink)
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Old 01-19-2019, 11:27 AM   #410 (permalink)
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