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WWWP 01-18-2019 06:47 PM
It depends on the age of the kid. Attachment bonding etc.

OccultHawk 01-18-2019 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2035314)
It depends on the age of the kid. Attachment bonding etc.
“You’re not my dad!”

Always said and for a reason.

Lucem Ferre 01-18-2019 06:59 PM
I've never said that to my step dad.

Lucem Ferre 01-18-2019 07:06 PM
If you go into it with a lack of understanding or sympathy towards the kid in that situation and care more about being respected as an authority over him, do you really deserve the respect?

WWWP 01-18-2019 07:08 PM
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If you go into it with a lack of understanding or sympathy towards the kid in that situation and care more about being respected as an authority over him, do you really deserve the respect?
It couldn't be this simple

OccultHawk 01-18-2019 07:11 PM
I have some terrifically brutal one liners are going unused thanks to the crybaby brigade

The Batlord 01-18-2019 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2035324)
well once the kid knows mommy overrides anything you say(as is their right), it's a hostage situation

that's what you sign up for and yeah it takes a special kind of patience

my siblings and I never took step father #2 or 3 seriously feel bad in retrospect
After the second divorce that person needs to seriously consider whether they are unmarriable.

Lucem Ferre 01-18-2019 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2035324)
well once the kid knows mommy overrides anything you say(as is their right), it's a hostage situation

that's what you sign up for and yeah it takes a special kind of patience
I wouldn't have that kind of patience either tbf.

Also factor in what ever bs the dad could be feeding the kid behind their back. Most divorced people I've known have tried to use the kid in some way to hurt the other parent. It's disgusting.

My possibly controversial take is that I don't think mentally ill, unstable or immature people should have kids.

Lucem Ferre 01-18-2019 07:26 PM
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I have some terrifically brutal one liners are going unused thanks to the crybaby brigade
That's never stopped you before.

OccultHawk 01-18-2019 07:54 PM
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my siblings and I never took step father #2 or 3 seriously feel bad in retrospect
I think it’s pretty reasonable to forgive yourself

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That's never stopped you before.
Yes it has.


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