Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2095165)

It really helps me cope to know that there are neurological explanations for where these existentially horrific thought patterns come from.

Not entirely unrelated, I have recently cut my abusive stepmother off and I purposely gave her no reason for blocking her on social media and deleting all her voicemails without listening. She sent me a text the other day offering to send me money on a prepaid Walmart debit card if I call her back.

I'm going back to WYO at the end of the month to spend some time with my wonder woman of a sister and my very brand new niece and I'm debating whether or not to confront my equally abusive father by inviting him to dinner while I'm there and just seeing what happens. Problem is my angel of a mother (who i will be traveling with) keeps telling me how she's having nightmares of running into him so I wonder if it's a dick move or not to pursue my morbid curiosity about putting him on the spot on our trip. The last thing I want to do is bring drama to my post-partum sister, but it's been 10 years now since I've seen him, and I'm not afraid of him anymore. I'm so curious about what he has to say.

WWMBD?

Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2095694)

Like $100-150

Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2095767)

100-150 a day is not a lot tbh

what is your degree in again

Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls (Post 2095776)

Its not bad. I make about 160 a day before taxes and i can live alright in NJ. i got enough money for food, rent, and all my bills plus a few luxuries like monthly subscriptions to games, streaming services, and apps. Im not saving much but im putting some money into a hsa for a bit then swapping to a 401k.

Ill be extra good when these gd student loans are paid off.