Science!

DwnWthVwls · 12-07-2019, 11:53 AM

I don't see how.. Its a 3 step process:

1) Do you have a personality I like?
2) Am I attracted to you?
3) Do you have a vagina?

Can you put me in a situation where someones gender would stop or push me into having sex with them?

**Marie Monday** · 12-07-2019, 12:47 PM

Yeah apparently it works different for different people; I am attracted to women regardless of whether they have a vagina or a penis. To me the gender alone is what determines my sexual orientation

DwnWthVwls · 12-07-2019, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor

that's all you

I just thought saying you wouldn't have sex with a man in regards to a woman with a penis demonstrates the very problem with our language as it is

I wasnt saying that to take a shot at gender, i was using the terms scientifically.

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Originally Posted by MarieMarie

Yeah apparently it works different for different people; I am attracted to women regardless of whether they have a vagina or a penis. To me the gender alone is what determines my sexual orientation

So youre bi not a lesbian? Sexual orientation references the biological sex not the gender, but i believe you said you are a lesbian.

**Marie Monday** · 12-07-2019, 01:25 PM

I always considered sexual orientation as aplying to gender as that makes more sense, I think. But yes, I suppose that if it referred to sex you could call me bisexual, but that would give a wrong impression without explanation

DwnWthVwls · 12-07-2019, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by MarieMarie

I always considered sexual orientation as aplying to gender as that makes more sense, I think. But yes, I suppose that if it referred to sex you could call me bisexual, but that would give a wrong impression without explanation

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Originally Posted by elphenor

if I say I'm attracted to women regardless of genitals, I'm not bisexual

yeah you are.. get over it. Does that bother you?

DwnWthVwls · 12-07-2019, 01:54 PM

nothing.. having sex with someone who you have the same sex as is gay though.

DwnWthVwls · 12-07-2019, 02:22 PM

Yeah because unconsensual sex is what were talking about when you say you'd fuck a woman with a penis

**Marie Monday** · 12-07-2019, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

nothing.. having sex with someone who you have the same sex as is gay though.

According to your definition it is, but I don't think that makes much sense. When we talk about a woman in our daily lives we almost always mean gender, not sex, so it would be much more logical to define your sexuality as the gender you're attracted to

DwnWthVwls · 12-07-2019, 03:01 PM

I dont think your definition makes much sense, but I think gender identity is stupid. I typically think about male/female in the scientific sense.

DwnWthVwls · 12-07-2019, 03:12 PM

Yes it is.