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GuD 04-29-2015 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by John Wilkes Booth (Post 1583576)
ease up with the buzzwords would ya?

i never denied white privilege. but i'm not taking responsibility for every black kid that gets shot by some cop either.

i shouldn't be posting right now, im exhausted.

John Wilkes Booth 04-29-2015 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan (Post 1583577)
Well the world would be better off if people work like ants

if you honestly believe that then you're a communist, my friend

John Wilkes Booth 04-29-2015 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude (Post 1583581)
i shouldn't be posting right now, im exhausted.

yea, i don't know what to say to this... you shouldn't be posting.

Soulflower 04-29-2015 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by John Wilkes Booth (Post 1583568)
the bolded text highlights one of the reasons why you run into hostile responses. you think about "race" like it's one single entity. like white people collectively share the guilt and actions of the white race. as if we were a colony of ants. people don't work that way.


But some of your posts on this topic reflect that post though so don't get defensive now.

I am not speaking on all white people, I am referring to some white people's their feelings about issues that affect black people.

John Wilkes Booth 04-29-2015 11:56 PM

you'll have to be more specific if you're accusing me of something. which post reflects what?

Neapolitan 04-29-2015 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by John Wilkes Booth (Post 1583583)
if you honestly believe that then you're a communist, my friend

oh the irony. The phrase "white privilege" was coined by a then clandestine group that subscribed to Marxist/Communist ideas.
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Originally Posted by John Wilkes Booth (Post 1583576)
ease up with the buzzwords would ya?

i never denied white privilege.


John Wilkes Booth 04-30-2015 12:00 AM

when did i ever claim not to be a commie?

Nameless 04-30-2015 12:16 AM

I think most of the annoyance stems from the way the debate is framed.

John Wilkes Booth 04-30-2015 12:19 AM

^pretty much

Soulflower 04-30-2015 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583579)
Don't worry, Soulflower will find some way to blame it on you.


Get your troll on Ki I see you.

Ninetales 04-30-2015 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583561)
I was saying that I don't understand the point in getting all riled up in these issues when in probably a week or two, there will probably be another issue picking up the same amount of attention.

maybe "innocent black guy gets killed by police" isn't just a singular event anymore, but something that seems to be a headline every week or so. so talking about this new one as an isolated event is dumb as hell. especially the way you've put it where, well, they'll be another black murder tomorrow so why fret?

buddy, that's the god damn point.

and to your post about "why care when it probably wont happen to most people on mb" - empathy. man ive had my disagreements with soulflower but good lord I am kinda forced on her side here (or atleast im not on the other fucking side).

Key 04-30-2015 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Soulflower (Post 1583603)
Get your troll on Ki I see you.

Ironically you continue to respond to my supposed trolling.

Key 04-30-2015 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Ninetales (Post 1583607)
maybe "innocent black guy gets killed by police" isn't just a singular event anymore, but something that seems to be a headline every week or so. so talking about this new one as an isolated event is dumb as hell. especially the way you've put it where, well, they'll be another black murder tomorrow so why fret?

buddy, that's the god damn point.

and to your post about "why care when it probably wont happen to most people on mb" - empathy. man ive had my disagreements with soulflower but good lord I am kinda forced on her side here (or atleast im not on the other fucking side).

To the first part of your post,I didn't mention anything about race. I said 'another event will take all the media attention'. Not sure why everything has to turn to race, especially when I don't consider any of this to be a race problem.

It's not about empathy though, it's about realizing that the time we're spending talking about this issue on an internet forum where the people who want to fix the problem won't even see it seems very pointless to me. If this happened to someone I knew, of course I'd feel bad, but talking about it here does absolutely nothing.

Frownland 04-30-2015 09:41 AM

Every opinion that is not my own is clearly the work of a troll.

Soulflower 04-30-2015 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583658)
Ironically you continue to respond to my supposed trolling.

Yep I am giving you the attention you crave since you won't leave.

Trollheart 04-30-2015 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583512)
I don't see the problem. Keep in mind I think this whole issue is dumb.

I'm actually quite shocked that you would say that Ki. Why do you think the issue is dumb? Black guys are getting killed, let them? Surely you're not that insensitive? "I'm all right Jack, keep your hands off my stack"?
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Originally Posted by Neapolitan (Post 1583530)
I don't see point at getting annoyed at Ki for participating in this thread when the part of the thread title is "Why do people get annoyed...?" I think we can equally ask "Why do people get annoyed at people who have a minority (or less popular) opinion about social issues?" I don't think Ki should be treated like a second class citizen for his opinions or his approach to the issues.

He's being treated that way because he's belittling the very events that are taking place by shrugging and saying "**** happens". He might as well say, so young girls are getting kidnapped by Boca Harum (sp?) and sold into slavery: so what? **** happens!" It's a godawful attitude to have in my opinion and I don't think it's worthy of him.
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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583557)
You're being a hypocrite here because you are telling me I can't give my opinion on this thread about the fact that I think it's pointless and a joke, yet you say it's ok for people to express their opinions on various topics. I've given my opinion on this topic and you've told me I've been trolling and adding nothing to the topic, even though you've been caught not reading people's responses and ranting off about pointless jibber jabber throughout this entire thread.

If you want people to take you seriously, you need to take other people seriously and not try to shove your facts down people's throats and expect people to agree with you. We've had this issue with you before in another thread and in that thread you said you apologized and realized what you were doing, however it doesn't seem to have had much of an effect on you since it seems like you'd rather pull the same old **** and expect people to take you seriously.

Here I have to agree with Ki. You can't keep changing the goalposts, and you are a world class goalpost shifter. This is another example of that. First you say this
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Originally Posted by Soulflower (Post 1583551)
Also, imo when it comes to racial minority issues, white people tend to not want to admit when their race is at fault and are oblvious to the whole institutionalized systematic racism that plagues minorities today.


and then you backtrack by saying this
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Originally Posted by Soulflower (Post 1583585)
I am not speaking on all white people, I am referring to some white people's their feelings about issues that affect black people.

You simply can't have it both ways. If you make a mistake or are caught in a logical trap then you should hold your hands up and say, yes, I was wrong there. You can then go on to explain that what you meant was this, but you have to first admit that you were not clear on, or were too general in, your original post.

It's the same as you did with the "why are current artists not concerned about social issues" thread. When I pointed out some that were, you changed the criteria by saying you meant pop artists, but that was in no way decipherable or clear from your original post. It's just, you know, what you do and what you have become known for doing here: you seem to think we can all climb into your head and see what you're thinking, or that we should be able to know automatically what you mean when your meaning is not clear, or at least open to interpretation.

I'm also concerned by your use of the blunt phrase "You are wrong". Who are you to say anyone is wrong? Unless it's an absolute, like someone saying the sky is green, you can't and you should not assume that you are right and thy are wrong. You can say I don't agree, or I think you're wrong, but YOU ARE WRONG is perhaps the worst form of condescending arrogance that really, I'm sorry to say, populates most of your posts and most of your threads, so that in the end, people really know what you're going to write before your write it.

Finally, I have noticed, in all your threads, that you only ever give credit to, agree with or validate an opinion of someone who agrees with you or sides with you. I have never (ever) seen you say "that's a good point but I don't agree" or "You may have a case there" or (god forbid) "I never thought of it that way." All of which goes to create the impression (true or not) that you are arrogant, condescending, one-sided, blinkered and display a total refusal to entertain any opinion other than yours.

I know this does not contribute to the thread or answer your question, but honestly, my comments could refer or apply to any of your threads, and sadly (as I think you have a lot to give to a discussion if you didn't make it such a high-handed lecture, as you always seem to do) this makes the title of the thread more appropriate if it were to read: "Why do people never take Soulflower seriously?"

Food for thought? As if...

YorkeDaddy 04-30-2015 12:31 PM

And now she's either going to completely ignore Trollheart's sublime torching of her ass or she's going to call him an ignorant racist. Can't wait to see what happens!!!

On a side note: I actually do think there's serious issues here and Ki should take them a little more seriously

John Wilkes Booth 04-30-2015 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart (Post 1583776)
I'm actually quite shocked that you would say that Ki. Why do you think the issue is dumb? Black guys are getting killed, let them? Surely you're not that insensitive? "I'm all right Jack, keep your hands off my stack"?

:laughing:

classic trollheart

Trollheart 04-30-2015 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by John Wilkes Booth (Post 1583787)
:laughing:

classic trollheart

Well it's Pink Floyd, but I'll take the credit... ;)

The Batlord 04-30-2015 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart (Post 1583788)
Well it's Pink Floyd, but I'll take the credit... ;)

And I'll let you, just so Pink Floyd doesn't get any.

Trollheart 04-30-2015 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1583789)
And I'll let you, just so Pink Floyd doesn't get any.

Everybody wins!

Trollheart 04-30-2015 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy (Post 1583778)
And now she's either going to completely ignore Trollheart's sublime torching of her ass or she's going to call him an ignorant racist. Can't wait to see what happens!!!

On a side note: I actually do think there's serious issues here and Ki should take them a little more seriously

Let's not forget that I too started a very similar thread, deploring the cop brutality and violence against blacks, so I would be surprised if she called me a racist. Wait, no I wouldn't...
:shycouch:

The Batlord 04-30-2015 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart (Post 1583793)
Let's not forget that I too started a very similar thread, deploring the cop brutality and violence against blacks, so I would be surprised if she called me a racist. Wait, no I wouldn't...
:shycouch:

You're old school Irish -- and I'm assuming of Catholic stock -- so I already know you're a racist. I know our people well. We're *******s.

Edit: Perhaps it isn't wise to imply that I am a racist with a Hitler avatar.

Ninetales 04-30-2015 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583667)
To the first part of your post,I didn't mention anything about race. I said 'another event will take all the media attention'. Not sure why everything has to turn to race, especially when I don't consider any of this to be a race problem.

well this absolutely is a race problem.

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583667)
It's not about empathy though, it's about realizing that the time we're spending talking about this issue on an internet forum where the people who want to fix the problem won't even see it seems very pointless to me. If this happened to someone I knew, of course I'd feel bad, but talking about it here does absolutely nothing.

dang ya wow youre right we cant fix all of the racism or police brutality issues on musicbanter[dot]com may as well shut everything down. gimme a break. I bet the 2016 presidential tread doesn't actually have an affect on whos elected either; lock her up mods!!

its about discussion not fixing every damn problem on earth cmon dude.

Oriphiel 04-30-2015 02:28 PM

Ninetales versus Ki... Round Three... Fight!

http://i.imgur.com/DBCH9aQ.gif

DwnWthVwls 04-30-2015 02:38 PM

Who's who?

The Batlord 04-30-2015 02:40 PM

I've been lazy about entering into the discussion, but while I disagree with Soulflower's knee jerk, inflammatory approach to this issue, she isn't entirely wrong. Police brutality obviously happens to every race, but the different causes make it so that dealing with the issue in the same way across the board is silly. Anyone who claims that it should be should also argue against hate crimes. Strictly speaking, hate crimes involving assault or murder or whatever are basically the same thing as a normal assault or murder, but the motivations make all the difference, as they are two separate issues that can lead to separate consequences (i.e. race riots, minority distrust of government institutions, etc).

One is likely to be motivated merely by normal issues of anger or petty criminality, while the other is indicative of a mindset that has entirely different causes and effects. You can't treat a violent mugging the same as a redneck beating up a black person, because ignoring the motivation does nothing to solve a problem that is present in only one of the crimes. It's why we differentiate between simple assault and attempted murder, or assault and domestic violence, because motivation and context are as important as the action itself.

Treating a racially motivated shooting the same as a non-racially motivated one will only teach a police officer not to shoot somebody without proper procedure, but will not necessarily discourage a mindset that we as a nation are committed to changing.

I still say that whatever the truth of the issue, the media's coverage of it should be taken with a grain of salt, as it's now trendy for the news to cover police shootings that might be racially motivated, but without properly doing the journalistic legwork to find out the truth. I certainly believe that racial profiling exists, and that a black man is more likely to be shot than a white one -- though the causes are too complex to simply pass off as American police being racist hatemongers -- but we need to stop reacting to every news story as if it's gospel, and take a step back to rationally study the causes and context of police racism. Otherwise we're just going to encourage an even worse climate of resentment.

anticipation 04-30-2015 02:46 PM

I just love how Batlord is now an "respected" MB talking head, times are tough all over it seems.

Soulflower 04-30-2015 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart (Post 1583776)
I'm actually quite shocked that you would say that Ki. Why do you think the issue is dumb? Black guys are getting killed, let them? Surely you're not that insensitive? "I'm all right Jack, keep your hands off my stack"?

He's being treated that way because he's belittling the very events that are taking place by shrugging and saying "**** happens". He might as well say, so young girls are getting kidnapped by Boca Harum (sp?) and sold into slavery: so what? **** happens!" It's a godawful attitude to have in my opinion and I don't think it's worthy of him.

Here I have to agree with Ki. You can't keep changing the goalposts, and you are a world class goalpost shifter. This is another example of that. First you say this



and then you backtrack by saying this

You simply can't have it both ways. If you make a mistake or are caught in a logical trap then you should hold your hands up and say, yes, I was wrong there. You can then go on to explain that what you meant was this, but you have to first admit that you were not clear on, or were too general in, your original post.

It's the same as you did with the "why are current artists not concerned about social issues" thread. When I pointed out some that were, you changed the criteria by saying you meant pop artists, but that was in no way decipherable or clear from your original post. It's just, you know, what you do and what you have become known for doing here: you seem to think we can all climb into your head and see what you're thinking, or that we should be able to know automatically what you mean when your meaning is not clear, or at least open to interpretation.

I'm also concerned by your use of the blunt phrase "You are wrong". Who are you to say anyone is wrong? Unless it's an absolute, like someone saying the sky is green, you can't and you should not assume that you are right and thy are wrong. You can say I don't agree, or I think you're wrong, but YOU ARE WRONG is perhaps the worst form of condescending arrogance that really, I'm sorry to say, populates most of your posts and most of your threads, so that in the end, people really know what you're going to write before your write it.

Finally, I have noticed, in all your threads, that you only ever give credit to, agree with or validate an opinion of someone who agrees with you or sides with you. I have never (ever) seen you say "that's a good point but I don't agree" or "You may have a case there" or (god forbid) "I never thought of it that way." All of which goes to create the impression (true or not) that you are arrogant, condescending, one-sided, blinkered and display a total refusal to entertain any opinion other than yours.

I know this does not contribute to the thread or answer your question, but honestly, my comments could refer or apply to any of your threads, and sadly (as I think you have a lot to give to a discussion if you didn't make it such a high-handed lecture, as you always seem to do) this makes the title of the thread more appropriate if it were to read: "Why do people never take Soulflower seriously?"

Food for thought? As if...




What I don't understand about you and most of the people on this site is your so quick to lecture me about the way "I present my opinions" but I never hear you or anyone else lecturing the posters who make some of the most racist disrespectful things on this board or when people are getting bullied some of you "high and mighty intellectuals" sit quietly on the side lines and say nothing

BUT

There is always something so wrong about the way I state my opinions or try to engage the site in discussions every time I make a post.

I know I can be opinionated but I have never bullied or made disrespectful personally attacks or racist remarks that I often see a lot of posters do on this site that the moderators oddly do nothing about

I frankly don't care whether anyone takes me seriously or not because I am not really here to be liked by the group clique here on this site. I am cool with a select few here and I am fine with that. I don't need everyone to kiss my ass like alot of ya'll do.


There have been multiple racist things said about this topic in two threads but you felt the need to lecture me on "why people dont take my opinions seriously?" because to you that is more important than people making racist immature posts about police brutality?

Really?


I really don't take this post seriously at all because you need to be lecturing all the racist trolls who trolls these minority threads, not someone who is trying to bring awareness to a problem that affects a certain group of people.

YorkeDaddy 04-30-2015 03:06 PM

Ha! I knew it! She completely ignored the criticism and called everybody racist!

I'm rolling over here, this is just too hilarious

Trollheart 04-30-2015 03:26 PM

I say this in all sincerity: you're an idiot.
Let's examine how you've responded to my post.
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Originally Posted by Soulflower (Post 1583844)
What I don't understand about you and most of the people on this site is your so quick to lecture me about the way "I present my opinions" but I never hear you or anyone else lecturing the posters who make some of the most racist disrespectful things on this board or when people are getting bullied some of you "high and mighty intellectuals" sit quietly on the side lines and say nothing

This has as usual got nothing to do with what I posted about. All I said was you see your opinion as right, always, and never change. How that turns into me sitting quietly by while people make racist comments is totally beyond me. Maybe in your world. You do realise I called Ki out on his attitude in that same post, don't you?
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BUT

There is always something so wrong about the way I state my opinions or try to engage the site in discussions every time I make a post.
There most certainly is. I realise you're being facetious here but it is in fact the very root of the problem as to why people do not take you seriously and start trolling or fighting with you (which is sad, as you could talk sense if you tried and the issues you bring up are valid, just not how you approach them) and why your threads always end up with you, and maybe one or two others who may take your side, against everyone else.
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I frankly don't care whether anyone takes me seriously or not because I am not really here to be liked by the group clique here on this site.
Why would you say this, and then open a thread asking why people get annoyed at your threads (reading between the lines, this is the actual question you're posing)? If you don't want to be liked then why expect anyone to give your opinion any credence or time? Someone who goes out of their way to be annoying, condescending and closeminded will never get anyone to listen to them seriously or take their views with anything other than a rolleyes, so if that's what you want why are you so annoyed that people don't take your threads seriously?
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I am cool with a select few here and I am fine with that. I don't need everyone to kiss my ass like alot of ya'll do.
Totally irrelevant. Nobody even mentioned this.
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There have been multiple racist things said about this topic in two threads but you felt the need to lecture me on "why people dont take my opinions seriously?" because to you that is more important than people making racist immature posts about police brutality?
And again, you hear what you want to hear. I never said at any time that there weren't racist, for want of a better phrase, things being posted here (although really, bored and disinterested would describe them better: I never read anyone say "those black people deserve to be shot" or "White power!" or anything like that. But take it as you always do). Again I repeat, I called Ki out on his comment, but you of course have ignored that.
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Really?


I really don't take this post seriously at all because you need to be lecturing all the racist trolls who trolls these minority threads, not someone who is trying to bring awareness to a problem that affects a certain group of people.
That's the trouble: you are unable to have adult, informed discussion. Your threads basically boil down to WAAHH! WAHHH! YOU'RE ALL RACIST AND NOBODY LISTENS TO ME!

Well, enjoy. Once again I have nothing left to say to you. You've again, and not for the first time by any means, cherry-picked what you wanted out of my post, twisted my words and completely failed to answer any of my questions or deal with any of my points. You've ignored most of it, so I guess the best thing to do is leave you to your rant and ignore you.

But before I go: sitting on the sidelines I believe you said? And you have seen the thread I created about racism and police brutality, I trust? It's quite honestly like talking to a brick wall.

I said brick, not black! Jesus! :rolleyes:

Trollheart 04-30-2015 03:28 PM

Oh, I'll say one more thing before I go. I am certainly not racist, but if anyone could turn anyone into a racist, it's you. You're actually hurting the cause you purport to support by your ignorant remarks and your refusal to see beyond the (say it with me) black and white of the issue.

Scarlett O'Hara 05-09-2015 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1583520)
Is it an issue for anybody in this thread?

This thread is closed but I want a say because, hey mod powers a there for a reason right? ;)

Does it matter whether it affects someone in the thread in order to talk about it? It's like saying, "oh no one in this thread is affected by euthanasia being illegal so why discuss it?" While people out there are dying slow deaths who could do with it legalised. The politicians making the laws may not experience any of what they make laws about but it's still important to be discussed and ruled upon. People need to be educated about what can effect others, or history can repeat itself. Law makers or not.

I may not agree with the majority of what the OP says but I still believe the topic should be allowed to be discussed.

I know this post seems pointless at the end of the discussion/thread being closed but I want to send the message to other members to not be so quick to judge. And also, racism can indirectly effect you whether you think so or not.


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