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Old 10-16-2013, 12:53 PM   #221 (permalink)
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The person that the incident happens to is the person that gets to decide if they find it offensive or not. Just like you have decided that jokes about being legally blind or blind type of jokes won't affect you. that is your personal decision.
So if at one point it did offend me, and at another point it doesn't, that still doesn't give me the right to make the person telling the joke to feel bad about saying the joke to begin with. So like I said, is it really fair?
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Old 10-16-2013, 12:54 PM   #222 (permalink)
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So if at one point it did offend me, and at another point it doesn't, that still doesn't give me the right to make the person telling the joke to feel bad about saying the joke to begin with. So like I said, is it really fair?

Why would you not have the right to be offended by the joke and tell the guy? I think if offended people could just start wearing panties that would be very helpful. Thanks
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Old 10-16-2013, 12:57 PM   #223 (permalink)
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Why would you not have the right to be offended by the joke and tell the guy? I think if offended people could just start wearing panties that would be very helpful. Thanks
That's totally fine. But i'm asking if it's the responsibility of the person telling the joke to feel bad about telling the joke prior to knowing it was going to offend anyone. It could have easily just been a silly retort, but as soon as somebody is offended, apparently it's a big issue, which I don't understand.
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Old 10-16-2013, 01:03 PM   #224 (permalink)
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The only possible way I could see that as being funny, or even acceptable, would be if both parties had already decided it was ok to say that. Given what happened later, not in the least funny and certainly not a joke.
I didn't say it was funny I said it sounded like a joke, i.e. not serious.
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Old 10-16-2013, 01:10 PM   #225 (permalink)
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That's totally fine. But i'm asking if it's the responsibility of the person telling the joke to feel bad about telling the joke prior to knowing it was going to offend anyone. It could have easily just been a silly retort, but as soon as somebody is offended, apparently it's a big issue, which I don't understand.
Its that persons responsibility to their self to feel bad about whatever they want to feel bad about. I think the World is already over-regulated, Over thought, Sensitive, and slowly becoming no fun at all. If you don't find something funny don't laugh, If it offends you then say something, but over thinking like this is just a waste of your time honestly. Not directed at you just society in general so no offense.
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Old 10-16-2013, 01:15 PM   #226 (permalink)
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Its that persons responsibility to their self to feel bad about whatever they want to feel bad about. I think the World is already over-regulated, Over thought, Sensitive, and slowly becoming no fun at all. If you don't find something funny don't laugh, If it offends you then say something, but over thinking like this is just a waste of your time honestly. Not directed at you just society in general so no offense.
Exactly. Yes, I have mentioned that I wouldn't say the jokes around said person if they found offense, and yes, I would apologize for offending them, but personally I wouldn't feel bad about it nor would I feel obligated to change my behavior completely because of one person getting offended. I just don't see any reason to do so. And I absolutely agree.
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Old 10-16-2013, 01:19 PM   #227 (permalink)
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Its that persons responsibility to their self to feel bad about whatever they want to feel bad about. I think the World is already over-regulated, Over thought, Sensitive, and slowly becoming no fun at all. If you don't find something funny don't laugh, If it offends you then say something, but over thinking like this is just a waste of your time honestly. Not directed at you just society in general so no offense.
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Old 10-16-2013, 01:31 PM   #228 (permalink)
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Not really the same then is it if you were in fear of your safety ffs.
You still haven't told me whether I'm weak or not.

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Are you ****ing kidding me right now.

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You still haven't told me whether I'm weak or not.
You moved the goalposts though & said you feared for your safety, your point was not my point.
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