I agree with that sentiment 100%

The way you remember it kind of makes me cringe, honestly.

He said "wouldn't it be funny if 5 guys raped you right now?" He was angry and being heckled. He got carried away with anger and I bet he wishes he had made a smarter comeback.

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Are you cringing at me/my post or the joke?

It's piss funny mate, she heckled so he took it there for heckling him.

So wait, let's say you make some insensitive comment about rape to someone, and they're a rape victim and they get offended by it (whether they show it or not), they're weak? What?

I always find it's the weak people making offensive comments.

It was bad enough what he actually said. If he had said "I bet you got raped" or "we should rape you" it would be way worse to me.

I feel like the tone i'm getting from this is far stronger than you intended. However, I don't actually disagree. In a sense, I think the strength to just take the joke and let it slide is far better than letting it offend you to the point that you get upset.

I think it's weak if you get offended and don't do anything about it. It's natural to be offended, but you should stand up for yourself. That's just me, though.

It is also weak to make offensive comments.

The girl at the Daniel Tosh show was offended, stood up, and was reprimanded by the comic. Most of the drunk-ass audience just laughed. Many were appalled though. I think Tosh knew better - he apologized and I think his apology was honest.

Give an example.

Real life example of mine: "You're so adorable with that lipstick on I'm going to rape your face."