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Carpe Mortem 03-24-2014 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds (Post 1431135)
Does anyone think the father should have a say in the decision? Haven't seen that mentioned yet.

No, I say he doesn't. Because all he has to do is squirt his DNA to make the thing, and maybe spend some money.

A woman has to carry that extra weight around, literally and figuratively, for about 9 months and then go through a terribly painful process wherein this big ass thing squeezes itself out of her vagina and instantly wants to lick her nipples. Her body is never the same, if the guy decides to leave her for whatever reason 9/10 dudes aren't gonna wanna be with her, and any plans for independence or fun she had are down the drain because judges usually wanna award custody to the mother.

Dude has NO say. Sorry. Only date women who want your babies if it's a problem.

Carpe Mortem 03-24-2014 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1431138)
If you can abort it then it's not a person. If it's not a person then I guess it's technically property until it develops into one. And since it's inhabiting the woman it stands to reason that it's her property. So no. He shouldn't.

Also this, well said duder.

Tristesse 03-24-2014 05:53 PM

I'm obviously pro-choice, but I do wince a little every time a see a developing foetus referred to as a parasite on this thread.

RoxyRollah 03-24-2014 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Tristesse (Post 1431232)
I'm obviously pro-choice, but I do wince a little every time a see a developing foetus referred to as a parasite on this thread.

I agree with you there. It isn't something that makes it's home in your intestines. Stomach yes, intestines no. So I agree with you it's a little heartless, but not all together factually untrue.

Paul Smeenus 03-25-2014 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds (Post 1431135)
Does anyone think the father should have a say in the decision? Haven't seen that mentioned yet.

No

butthead aka 216 03-29-2014 12:53 PM

Well the decision is ultimately the girls but any responsible woman would consult the father n I feel the father has every right to pressure a woman to abort if that's what he wants

Black Francis 03-29-2014 03:13 PM

Im pro choice and also pro paternal testing. lol

Females can be pretty sneaky when it comes to pregnancy and if a guy as any opinion on it, it better be in agreement with her or else he is an *******.

Ladies don't fool a guy to think he is a dad when he is actually a step dad.
i know this has nothing to do with abortion, just saying that's not cool.

Burning Down 03-29-2014 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis (Post 1432863)
Ladies don't fool a guy to think he is a dad when he is actually a step dad.
i know this has nothing to do with abortion, just saying that's not cool.

Not exactly the same situation, but that kind of reminds me of one of my friends, who learned that her dad was not actually her read bio dad from her mother in probably the most impersonal, indirect, and worst way possible - through a fucking birthday card on her 18th birthday from her mom. The card said something like "Happy birthday Jane, have a great day! By the way, your dad is not your real dad." Nice birthday surprise, huh?

Her "dad" already knew this though since her mom was pregnant when they met, but they never revealed the truth. They are both loopy nutjobs so you can't really expect anything more from them. Her mom is seriously crazy, though. She was engaged to the father, got pregnant, and had a bad breakup (according to her). My friend has asked her mom for some information about him, like his name and what he looks like and all that, and she won't give it to her.

WWWP 03-29-2014 06:22 PM

Your body, your choice. I would certainly personally let the father know if it came to it, but I'm not sleeping with anyone who doesn't know I would abort the fetus in a second. That said, I take all precautionary measures to ensure the unlikelihood of the event because I don't want to have an abortion and I understand the complexity of and emotional toll the entire experience would take on both parties.

GuD 03-29-2014 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216 (Post 1432806)
Well the decision is ultimately the girls but any responsible woman would consult the father n I feel the father has every right to pressure a woman to abort if that's what he wants

A father can choose to stay or be a bitch and leave but he has no say in her choice. If you're a man and have unprotected sex with a woman you know exactly what risks you're taking.


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