The Negative Effects of Porn (May be NSFW)

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-13-2013, 09:20 PM

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Homemade porn is the best kind of porn

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My initial response to this thread: what negative effects?

I mean i guess I understand, how it can ruin others' relationships or how a significant other would be not play with their partner watching porn

That being said, both me and my bf are fine with the other watching porn. We can't *always* be there to satisfy each others needs, and are totally fine, if the other person needs release to get it.

I mean hell sometimes we watch porn *together*

Again I understand it, for others, but I guess given the way my relationship is, I don't see the big deal

i think the main effects in this thred so far have been young porn stars regretting their choices. BUT most 18 year olds make bad decisions. Most young ppl in general. So i dont know if there is really a proposed solution for that. id the US in particular is gonna draw the adult line at 18 then its obvious 18 yr olds will regret their choices later in life. maybe when they try to get married or somethin and it comes with resistance cause they took a 5 guy gangbang years ago. that sucks for them. but its THEIR choice. i am not arguin with you, just stationg more opinions. also i will never understand any female who gets mad their bf watches porn. i been doin that for 15 years why you tryin to make me stop somethin i enjoy

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 07-13-2013, 09:27 PM

Why are you quoting me

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-13-2013, 09:33 PM

i dunno i was tryin to quote the other guy

djchameleon · 07-14-2013, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by 216

also i will never understand any female who gets mad their bf watches porn. i been doin that for 15 years why you tryin to make me stop somethin i enjoy

this so much. I never get it either.

They try to run that silly ass line about "oh you don't think I'm enough for you that you need to see other naked women."

Really? Come on now.

Newkie · 07-14-2013, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

this so much. I never get it either.

They try to run that silly ass line about "oh you don't think I'm enough for you that you need to see other naked women."

Really? Come on now.

Nah I can say I get it. I tend to go in extremes where I couldn't care less or am massively jealous/possessive. It's been the former for most of the last few years, but thinking of girlfriend wanting men like that has made me feel like **** in the past and i've given it up for the same reason. Maybe that was youth and insecurity, but I tend to think you don't really need porn if you're getting the good stuff. Each to their own.

djchameleon · 07-14-2013, 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Newkie

Maybe that was youth and insecurity, but I tend to think you don't really need porn if you're getting the good stuff. Each to their own.

Yeah but when your partner isn't really in the mood or they just aren't available like they are out of town or something. Porn is needed. I also found it strange that I used to watch porn more when I was in a relationship then when I'm out of it.

Porn isn't even about your significant other "wanting" what they see it porn, it's just a method to get off. If they really wanted the type of guys they see in pornos then they wouldn't be with you in the first place so I don't see what there is to be insecure about.

Burning Down · 07-14-2013, 07:52 AM

I don't see a problem with one person in a relationship watching porn. However, if they start preferring porn over sex with their partner, then there is a problem. Not with the porn itself but rather with the person's mind. When you become so addicted to watching it that you no longer feel a need for actual sex. That's how porn negatively affects relationships and even your own sexuality.

Paedantic Basterd · 07-14-2013, 10:53 AM

Research has indicated that men who view pornography do treat their partners' bodies more critically after the fact, and that it can decrease the amount of sex between partners overall (Albright, Sex in America Online, 2008).

djchameleon · 07-14-2013, 02:01 PM

Men treat their partner's body critically without porn too the longer that they are with them. I don't have a study for that it's just from personal experience with stories I've heard from my friends. I could probably find a study to support it though.

Newkie · 07-14-2013, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Porn isn't even about your significant other "wanting" what they see it porn, it's just a method to get off. If they really wanted the type of guys they see in pornos then they wouldn't be with you in the first place so I don't see what there is to be insecure about.

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Men treat their partner's body critically without porn too the longer that they are with them. I don't have a study for that it's just from personal experience with stories I've heard from my friends. I could probably find a study to support it though.

So for me, those two things are conflicting. Men judge women by their bodies, it's fact. If they wanted the guys they wanted in pornos, they might still want them over their man, but they just can't get them due to physical or psychological reasons. I bet there are plenty of men that would switch their "not so serious" partners for pornstars any day of the week, so why not the same for the females?

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Yeah but when your partner isn't really in the mood or they just aren't available like they are out of town or something. Porn is needed. I also found it strange that I used to watch porn more when I was in a relationship then when I'm out of it.

Again, I think if the relationship is going alright then "going away" isn't that big a deal but again people are different. Home made porn should mean that it isn't "needed" but meh.

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Burning Down The Music Guru. Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Beyond the Wall Posts: 4,858	I don't see a problem with one person in a relationship watching porn. However, if they start preferring porn over sex with their partner, then there is a problem. Not with the porn itself but rather with the person's mind. When you become so addicted to watching it that you no longer feel a need for actual sex. That's how porn negatively affects relationships and even your own sexuality.

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Paedantic Basterd Music Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 5,184	Research has indicated that men who view pornography do treat their partners' bodies more critically after the fact, and that it can decrease the amount of sex between partners overall (Albright, Sex in America Online, 2008).