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08-31-2013, 10:44 AM | #163 (permalink) | ||
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08-31-2013, 11:58 AM | #164 (permalink) | |
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There's no real explanation for why we do this chivalry thing, other than that's how we were raised, and yes that was according to our parents' now-outdated moral values, but can you say it's a bad thing? Generally, you give your seat up to a woman and you'll get a smile, make someone feel they're a little special, and/or be called a gentleman. I see that as win/win. Paying for a date, same thing. If you take a girl out and you don't pay for her you're just a cheapskate in my book, and don't deserve any. I'm not an ATM either, but I don't expect any woman to pay if I take her out. It's just politeness in my book. Her company is all the payment I need. Batlord, please stop throwing up! Hey look: some people were brought up that way, some weren't. I ain't gonna apologise for it, and I certainly am not going to accept that it's sexist, no matter who sees it as such. Funny thing: I bet the girl I would be with would choose not to see it as a problem. Happens every time, which isn't very often, these days... Oh, and standing up, though not practiced any more, was simply a sign of respect and good breeding. Nothing wrong with that. Mind you, if you tried to do it now you'd be laughed at. Sadly.
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08-31-2013, 12:04 PM | #165 (permalink) | |
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do i think there are some inequalities? sure. do i think theres very many?? do i think they are as pervasive in society as most feminists would have u believe?? no. i think its very minor and largely exagerated (see employment stats). i also think feminists and at this point, society in general just has a general problem with accepting differences in the sexes. men are generally better at certain things. women are generally better at other certain things. why is there a constant battle to meet some kind of quotea in different sectors of the workplace?? why can we not acknowledge differences and call a spade a spade? |
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08-31-2013, 12:05 PM | #166 (permalink) |
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I might get flamed for this but whatever. I think whoever does the asking out on a date is responsible for paying for it. It's silly to say to someone "Can I take you out to dinner?" and then expect them to either go dutch or pay the entire bill at the end. This goes for men AND women - if you ask, then you pay.
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08-31-2013, 12:07 PM | #167 (permalink) | ||
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first date ok after that lets alternate or split the bill |
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08-31-2013, 12:19 PM | #169 (permalink) | |
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If you've agreed to go on the date then you're interested in that person so I think it's polite to offer to split the bill. |
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08-31-2013, 12:47 PM | #170 (permalink) |
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IMO, men are expected to pay the tab for the same reason men are expected to make the first move. In our mating ritual men are generally seen as the aggressors. If we're really worried about gender roles we should be questioning that and thinking about if it's possible to change it and somehow encourage women to be more aggressive.
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