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View Poll Results: A slut or not a slut? That is the question.
Yes...dirty girls that need a wash 18 16.98%
No...sexual liberation for women!! 37 34.91%
Indifferent...as long as I don't get any diseases off them. 38 35.85%
I'm a creep that's to busy jacking off to Nickelback music...and Chad 13 12.26%
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Old 01-01-2015, 10:04 AM   #331 (permalink)
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I doubt it lol. If they've slept with a lot of guys I'm not interested. It's a sign that we have different ideas on things. Im not interested in women who sleep around
Sexuality is related to morality in the same way that every other physical action is. Why, specifically, do you dislike very sexually active partners?
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Old 01-01-2015, 11:08 AM   #332 (permalink)
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I doubt it lol. If they've slept with a lot of guys I'm not interested. It's a sign that we have different ideas on things. Im not interested in women who sleep around
It's a sign you have differemt ideas on one thing. What do you think of guys that "bang a lot of chicks"?
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Old 01-01-2015, 12:01 PM   #333 (permalink)
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If that's stereotyping or unfair or whatever I don't care.
Ya, you're going to do just fine here.
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The guys just got a dirty mind is all.
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The guys just got a dirty mind is all.
I know, he's acting like a real butthead.
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Old 01-01-2015, 12:53 PM   #337 (permalink)
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While I strongly dislike the term "slut" and think that the moral condemnation of promicuous women is a sign of patriarchal thinking and a pathetic way of trying to control a woman's sexuality, I kind of do understand where [yr dmns] is coming from.
It's not much different from someone who prefers staying at home a lot being put off by a potential partner who is constantly partying and socializing.
(But yeah, he did phrase it in a much more unpleasant way.)
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How did I phrase it unpleasant?? I just said I'm not interested in dating promiscuous women
All this not caring about stereotyping and whatnot.
Relax, I'm basically on your side.
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I don't think anything of promiscuous guys since I have no desire to ever date one

I don't dislike promiscuous women I just wouldn't consider them as partners. Prob because sex is more intimate than other activities and I feel that sharing that level of intimacy with a lot of people makes it less meaningful. I think it's trashy and I'm not interested. It's also not just about sex, it's about the traits of women who are promiscuous. If that's stereotyping or unfair or whatever I don't care.
Why do you think sex automatically has to be more "intimate" than other activities? And you keep saying that sexual activity makes people "trashy", as if that's some kind of put-down or insult, and yet refuse to answer why you feel that sex demeans them in such a way. Isn't judging people based on moral preconceptions that you haven't even bothered to fully form and rationalize kind of foolish?
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Old 01-01-2015, 05:01 PM   #340 (permalink)
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By definition it's more intimate. There's not a lot of things if any more personal than sex lol. I'm somewhat surprised by your disagreeing. I'm not comfortable walking into a venue and bumping into a slew of guys my girlfriend has had sex with. I think being promiscuous is trashy because it reveals parts of a persons character that I don't agree with. Most peeps who are promiscuous are that way for a reason. I'm just not interested in a girl who's slept with many men.
Unless she's a virgin there's always the possibility that you might bump into someone she had sex or a relationship with. What's the problem with that?
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