The Slut Debate

Urban Hat€monger ? · 12-10-2010, 08:31 AM

The only time I ever refer to a man or woman as a slut is if they sleep around AND they are an arsehole.

Just the sleeping around thing ... Don't really care, It's none of my business.

s_k · 12-10-2010, 08:37 AM

I'm convinced that (most) people are not made to be monogamous.
So I don't mind a girl having a couple of boyfriends at the same time or having a one night stand with a really close friend.
What I don't like is girls going out and ****ing some other guy's brains out every weekend.

That's my two cents.

Urban Hat€monger ? · 12-10-2010, 08:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dirty

What's the real question? Do we think there is such a thing as a slut?

...And where do we meet them.

s_k · 12-10-2010, 08:57 AM

Hahaha, lol (literally)

Freebase Dali · 12-10-2010, 10:27 AM

My view on it is strictly a 'type of person' perspective.
What I mean by that is I'm less inclined to want a relationship with a girl who drops trousers for any swinging dick that crosses her path. That's not to say I think all people who do that have cheap values, but speaking strictly from experience, if I were to make an assumption about that kind of person's character, I'd likely be correct.

Obviously, I would expect women to hold men up to the same standards. I certainly wouldn't expect a woman to want a relationship with me if I was frivolously bonking every random girl I met. I think there should at least be some semblance of self control and pride regarding who you're intimate with... to me, that makes a statement about the kind of person you are and it's simply one of the things I consider regarding relationships. I would hope my partner held the same basic expectations of me as well.

s_k · 12-10-2010, 10:33 AM

Yeah, I wouldn't call myself moralistic, but some girls just have quite some sexual partners and some girls are sluts. It's not always the same thing, I guess.

~~Dirty~~ · 12-10-2010, 10:38 AM

Open question to everyone... If you found a girl.....not the perfect girl or 'the one' or whatever... but you had a good vibe and you liked her and she wanted to start dating. Is there any number of guys that shes slept with that would turn you off from dating her? Or a ball park number, and what is that number?

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 12-10-2010, 10:42 AM

IMO, a slut is anyone who ****s for any reason other than they like ****ing. Anyone who ****s for personal gain = slut

Freebase Dali · 12-10-2010, 10:44 AM

I don't care about the number. How would you know if that number was mostly random sleaze bags or not? What if they were all good friends or people she's known for a while? To me, the people she sleeps with and how she goes about it is more important. I'd take 30 good friend fucks over 5 bent-over-the-toilet in a public bathroom random stranger fucks any day.

~~Dirty~~ · 12-10-2010, 11:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paloma

IMO, a slut is anyone who ****s for any reason other than they like ****ing. Anyone who ****s for personal gain = slut

That's a whore

View Poll Results: A slut or not a slut? That is the question.
Yes...dirty girls that need a wash	18	16.98%
No...sexual liberation for women!!	37	34.91%
Indifferent...as long as I don't get any diseases off them.	38	35.85%
I'm a creep that's to busy jacking off to Nickelback music...and Chad	13	12.26%
Voters: 106. You may not vote on this poll

12-10-2010, 08:31 AM	#11 (permalink)
Urban Hat€monger ? The Sexual Intellectual Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Somewhere cooler than you Posts: 18,605	The only time I ever refer to a man or woman as a slut is if they sleep around AND they are an arsehole. Just the sleeping around thing ... Don't really care, It's none of my business. __________________ Urb's RYM Stuff Most people sell their soul to the devil, but the devil sells his soul to Nick Cave.

12-10-2010, 08:37 AM	#12 (permalink)
s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	I'm convinced that (most) people are not made to be monogamous. So I don't mind a girl having a couple of boyfriends at the same time or having a one night stand with a really close friend. What I don't like is girls going out and ****ing some other guy's brains out every weekend. That's my two cents. __________________ Click here to see my collection

12-10-2010, 08:57 AM	#14 (permalink)
s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	Hahaha, lol (literally) __________________ Click here to see my collection

12-10-2010, 10:33 AM	#16 (permalink)
s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	Yeah, I wouldn't call myself moralistic, but some girls just have quite some sexual partners and some girls are sluts. It's not always the same thing, I guess. __________________ Click here to see my collection

12-10-2010, 10:27 AM	#15 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	My view on it is strictly a 'type of person' perspective. What I mean by that is I'm less inclined to want a relationship with a girl who drops trousers for any swinging dick that crosses her path. That's not to say I think all people who do that have cheap values, but speaking strictly from experience, if I were to make an assumption about that kind of person's character, I'd likely be correct. Obviously, I would expect women to hold men up to the same standards. I certainly wouldn't expect a woman to want a relationship with me if I was frivolously bonking every random girl I met. I think there should at least be some semblance of self control and pride regarding who you're intimate with... to me, that makes a statement about the kind of person you are and it's simply one of the things I consider regarding relationships. I would hope my partner held the same basic expectations of me as well.

12-10-2010, 10:38 AM	#17 (permalink)
~~Dirty~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: USA Posts: 981	Open question to everyone... If you found a girl.....not the perfect girl or 'the one' or whatever... but you had a good vibe and you liked her and she wanted to start dating. Is there any number of guys that shes slept with that would turn you off from dating her? Or a ball park number, and what is that number?

12-10-2010, 10:42 AM	#18 (permalink)
~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	IMO, a slut is anyone who **s for any reason other than they like ing. Anyone who **s for personal gain = slut

12-10-2010, 10:44 AM	#19 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	I don't care about the number. How would you know if that number was mostly random sleaze bags or not? What if they were all good friends or people she's known for a while? To me, the people she sleeps with and how she goes about it is more important. I'd take 30 good friend fucks over 5 bent-over-the-toilet in a public bathroom random stranger fucks any day.