The Slut Debate

djchameleon · 02-03-2011, 05:11 AM

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Originally Posted by RandyMarsh

1. Why would you want to sleep around? Do you have no respect for yourself?

Having multiple partners doesn't lower one's self respect. I know that's a common idea that people have but it's not absolutely not true. You may feel that way but it's not.

If you are single and you want to have multiple partners and "sleep around" as you put it why would you look down on someone that does that? They are SINGLE and enjoying the single life while they can. Sex is great and it's not something that needs to be put up on some high pedestal like it is sacred and you should only have it with someone that you love. PFFFT

Bloozcrooz · 02-03-2011, 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Having multiple partners doesn't lower one's self respect. I know that's a common idea that people have but it's not absolutely not true. You may feel that way but it's not.

If you are single and you want to have multiple partners and "sleep around" as you put it why would you look down on someone that does that? They are SINGLE and enjoying the single life while they can. Sex is great and it's not something that needs to be put up on some high pedestal like it is sacred and you should only have it with someone that you love. PFFFT

Unless your a chick..then that makes you a slut..lol. But where would the world be without sluts? A pretty dull and boring S.T.D. less environment with little drunken entertainment.

djchameleon · 02-03-2011, 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Boozinbloozin

Unless your a chick..then that makes you a slut..lol. But where would the world be without sluts? A pretty dull and boring S.T.D. less environment with little drunken entertainment.

sluts should have a pride week or pride month. Which month do you think they should get? August when it's the hottest part of summer and they can break out the white tees for wet t-shirt contests? or maybe April because it's spring break time and we all know the sluts come out to play during that time.

Bloozcrooz · 02-03-2011, 05:27 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

sluts should have a pride week or pride month. Which month do you think they should get? August when it's the hottest part of summer and they can break out the white tees for wet t-shirt contests? or maybe April because it's spring break time and we all know the sluts come out to play during that time.

Hmmmmm....im gonna go with August. Slut pride in August..lol!!!

~~RandyMarsh~~ · 02-03-2011, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Having multiple partners doesn't lower one's self respect. I know that's a common idea that people have but it's not absolutely not true. You may feel that way but it's not.

I didnt say it lowers their self-respect, I said it's already lowered in the first place. If a women acts like a whore tha's how she will be treated (same with men) you need to learn to respect yourself and love yourself before someone else can respect you or love you.

There's no debating it. If you sleep around with people you don't truly care about you're a slut and have little to no self respect.

djchameleon · 02-03-2011, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by RandyMarsh

I didnt say it lowers their self-respect, I said it's already lowered in the first place. If a women acts like a whore tha's how she will be treated (same with men) you need to learn to respect yourself and love yourself before someone else can respect you or love you.

There's no debating it. If you sleep around with people you don't truly care about you're a slut and have little to no self respect.

What? That's just how you feel about the situation. These women that you are going around calling sluts and whores aren't all the same. Some of them have very high self respect for themselves. You equate sleeping around with being a bad thing when it's not. You seem to think that people that sleep around have no respect for themselves which is fine for you to think that way but the person that's actually doing it doesn't think the same way you do. You can continue to judge them all you want but they have high self respect for themselves and that's all that matter, not what you think.

Bloozcrooz · 02-03-2011, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

What? That's just how you feel about the situation. These women that you are going around calling sluts and whores aren't all the same. Some of them have very high self respect for themselves. You equate sleeping around with being a bad thing when it's not. You seem to think that people that sleep around have no respect for themselves which is fine for you to think that way but the person that's actually doing it doesn't think the same way you do. You can continue to judge them all you want but they have high self respect for themselves and that's all that matter, not what you think.

Uhhhh...huhuh..uhh..sluts are like...cool and stuff..uhhuhuhuhu

~~RandyMarsh~~ · 02-03-2011, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

What? That's just how you feel about the situation. These women that you are going around calling sluts and whores aren't all the same. Some of them have very high self respect for themselves. You equate sleeping around with being a bad thing when it's not. You seem to think that people that sleep around have no respect for themselves which is fine for you to think that way but the person that's actually doing it doesn't think the same way you do. You can continue to judge them all you want but they have high self respect for themselves and that's all that matter, not what you think.

If they're willing to throw themselves at complete strangers at any time then they clearly don't value themselves.

"A man that hops beds cause he's scared to sleep alone
Is the same as a loose women that can't keep 'em closed
Your both in the same boat, this is what you need to know
A man gets called a player, as for the woman she's a hoe
The truth is they both are insecure people trying to mend their broke hearts
If you brag that you've slept with thousands of girls
All that tells me is that you don't value yourself
You'll only be truly loved by someone else, when you learn to respect and to love yourself"

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 02-02-2011, 08:11 PM

****ing feels good, some men don't know how to ****

Musicwhore A-Z · 06-22-2014, 11:16 PM

Interesting thread and comments everybody. I think it's unfortunate that women have been tagged with the word "slut" throughout history, unlike men. The double standard is disgraceful, to be blunt. The only point of contention I would have is if it rains, wear a raincoat. Sure, one could say the other option is not to go out in the rain, but that's not always realistic, as most would acknowledge.

Someone earlier asked "Do prostitutes count?" Personally, I would say no. Simply because that's how some of them make their living. Truth be told, a prostitute can have more integrity than a spouse or "significant other". By and large, you'll get the who, what, where, when, and how BEFORE it takes place! Or rather, how much? The aforementioned spouse or S.O. will tell each other nothing, most notably when they begin dating, or doing, each other, take your pick. Rightly or wrongly. But I digress.

View Poll Results: A slut or not a slut? That is the question.
Yes...dirty girls that need a wash	18	16.98%
No...sexual liberation for women!!	37	34.91%
Indifferent...as long as I don't get any diseases off them.	38	35.85%
I'm a creep that's to busy jacking off to Nickelback music...and Chad	13	12.26%
Voters: 106. You may not vote on this poll

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Musicwhore A-Z Music Addict Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 140	Interesting thread and comments everybody. I think it's unfortunate that women have been tagged with the word "slut" throughout history, unlike men. The double standard is disgraceful, to be blunt. The only point of contention I would have is if it rains, wear a raincoat. Sure, one could say the other option is not to go out in the rain, but that's not always realistic, as most would acknowledge. Someone earlier asked "Do prostitutes count?" Personally, I would say no. Simply because that's how some of them make their living. Truth be told, a prostitute can have more integrity than a spouse or "significant other". By and large, you'll get the who, what, where, when, and how BEFORE it takes place! Or rather, how much? The aforementioned spouse or S.O. will tell each other nothing, most notably when they begin dating, or doing, each other, take your pick. Rightly or wrongly. But I digress.