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View Poll Results: Is suicide cowardly?
Yes 39 20.74%
No 79 42.02%
Sometimes, depends on the circumstances (kids etc.) 70 37.23%
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Old 09-08-2010, 08:49 PM   #1 (permalink)
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''Why bother discussing my suicidal feelings with anyone? They'll either label me as ill or selfish''. Then the living wonder why victims of suicide didn't talk about it when they were alive.
Or they won't believe them and label them as an attention seeker.
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Old 09-08-2010, 08:55 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Or they won't believe them and label them as an attention seeker.
Another very dangerous thing to do, because you never know. Suicide can also be used as a manipulation by the truly devious. ''I'll kill myself if you leave me'' etc. But it should be noted that both attention seeking and manipulative behaviours usually have roots in some kind of mental or personality disorder, and suicide is always a possibility, even in those cases. Labelling someone as an attention seeker is dangerous - not to be confused with 'attention seeking behaviour', and every human has that to a degree. When it's pathological, it's usually a symptom of a deeper issue.
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Old 09-20-2010, 07:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Suicide is like having sex with a fat chick, you keep telling yourself you'll never do it. . .
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Old 09-20-2010, 07:54 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Suicide is like having sex with a fat chick, you keep telling yourself you'll never do it. . .
no need to go raggin on the fat peeps.
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Old 09-20-2010, 07:55 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Old 09-21-2010, 01:24 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I wouldn't call it cowardly. I do think it's naive, though.

Suicide is rage turned inward; sort of a "Look what you made me do" act, but that's not the naive part.

The people you are hoping to hurt the most won't care, and the people you wouldn't want to hurt for the world will be the most broken.
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Old 09-21-2010, 03:01 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I wouldn't call it cowardly. I do think it's naive, though.

Suicide is rage turned inward; sort of a "Look what you made me do" act, but that's not the naive part.

The people you are hoping to hurt the most won't care, and the people you wouldn't want to hurt for the world will be the most broken.
I'm not buying that. I've not known of many people at all who have committed or attempted suicide because they wanted to really teach a lesson to the people who hurt them.

The majority of suicides and attempts I'm familiar with are mainly by people with mental illness and severe depression. The image of the person angry and crying that many people associate with suicide is inaccurate. It's more of a complete numbness and indifference.
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I wouldn't call it cowardly. I do think it's naive, though.

Suicide is rage turned inward; sort of a "Look what you made me do" act, but that's not the naive part.

The people you are hoping to hurt the most won't care, and the people you wouldn't want to hurt for the world will be the most broken.
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I agree. I think vindictive, vengeful suicide is rarer than people think, most mentally ill people are too isolated in their self-loathing to even bother with vengeance.
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