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Old 05-16-2009, 06:30 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Wasn't the main problem with gays serving in the military that their comrades might feel uncomfortable around them and such a distraction wouldn't be acceptable in a combat situation? For instance, someone is shooting at you and but you have to keep your back to the wall because that gay might stick a dick up your ass if you're not careful...:|
The funny thing about that is in bootcamp in the Navy at least you shower together with 80 plus men. I dont see how one could feel much more uncomfortable than that.
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Old 05-16-2009, 06:48 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Right, and to your point it took quite some time to desegregate after they became full rights protected citizens. So wouldn't it be safe to assume that it's going to take some time before ***s get the same rights in the military?
That simply wasn't the case as Bane rightfully noted. You can google it yourself.

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There's no need, we have an actual man serving in Iraq right now saying he gets along with his gay comrades just fine and that it doesn't affect the cohesion of their unit(s). It's highly probable your buddies' reasoning won't amount to much more than homophobia.

Had your government pandered to the prejudices of its servicemen, you would still have segregation in the military. The fact is that sexual orientation plays no part in your ability to serve your country. What's problematic here is your blasé attitude towards the blatant and shameful discrimination of your fellow citizens.
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Old 05-16-2009, 07:03 PM   #33 (permalink)
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The funny thing about that is in bootcamp in the Navy at least you shower together with 80 plus men. I dont see how one could feel much more uncomfortable than that.
what bootcamp were you in? There wasn't enough room in the shower for 80 plus men. more like ten at max.

I had one flamboyant gay roommate while in the Navy but you know how the stereotype goes that the guys in the Navy are gay, well I tended to find more gays in the Marines and Army

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That's not the point. Obama said he was going to abolish this pointless policy and he's already said he's staying out of this situation. I don't want to hear "oh that's just election talk" if he's going to claim to be the left's white knight he needs to stop talking about it and start acting it.

Dan Choi Explains 'Why I Cannot Stay Quiet' - ABC News

There's more than that; it's not a simple case of keeping "I'm gay" quiet. As Choi points out you have to hide the fact you have a boyfriend, whereas heterosexuals can be as open as they want about their wives and girlfriends. It isn't fair in the slightest and Obama's pussying out shouldn't be excused.

Oh come on, everyone needs to get off Obama's nuts....yeah he promised to do things but that stuff isn't going to happen over night....he has more pressing issues to attend to first

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Old 05-16-2009, 07:26 PM   #34 (permalink)
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what bootcamp were you in? There wasn't enough room in the shower for 80 plus men. more like ten at max.

I had one flamboyant gay roommate while in the Navy but you know how the stereotype goes that the guys in the Navy are gay, well I tended to find more gays in the Marines and Army




Oh come on, everyone needs to get off Obama's nuts....yeah he promised to do things but that stuff isn't going to happen over night....he has more pressing issues to attend to first
Ship 14, Great Lakes. I think we actually split it in half and did 40 plus at a time, Port and Stbd. We had a double shower and a separate single one. The double could fit about 10-12 at a time, but the other 30 guys stood around the inner walls of the shower waiting their turn. We were only authorized to use the single on Sunday (Holiday Routine) and we could shower alone. Alot of the guys hid in the head stalls to avoid showering with everyone and would only shower on sunday.
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Old 05-16-2009, 07:33 PM   #35 (permalink)
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That simply wasn't the case as Bane rightfully noted. You can google it yourself.


There's no need, we have an actual man serving in Iraq right now saying he gets along with his gay comrades just fine and that it doesn't affect the cohesion of their unit(s). It's highly probable your buddies' reasoning won't amount to much more than homophobia.

Had your government pandered to the prejudices of its servicemen, you would still have segregation in the military. The fact is that sexual orientation plays no part in your ability to serve your country. What's problematic here is your blasé attitude towards the blatant and shameful discrimination of your fellow citizens.
Segregation in the armed forces lasted through WWII. It was segregated for quite some time. But believe whatever you want. Everything involving desegregation in this country has been slow, what tends you to believe this should happen so fast? I'm not saying it's right, but I'm saying it might be the best for all parties involved to occur with minimal incidents.

And the fact is that sexual orientation does play a part in the ability of others to serve their country, coming straight from the mouth of some people that serve it. And no offense, but I'm sure cohesion in the Seals is a bit more needed than someone enlisted.
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Old 05-16-2009, 08:01 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Segregation in the armed forces lasted through WWII. It was segregated for quite some time. But believe whatever you want. Everything involving desegregation in this country has been slow, what tends you to believe this should happen so fast? I'm not saying it's right, but I'm saying it might be the best for all parties involved to occur with minimal incidents.

And the fact is that sexual orientation does play a part in the ability of others to serve their country, coming straight from the mouth of some people that serve it. And no offense, but I'm sure cohesion in the Seals is a bit more needed than someone enlisted.
I hope you dont speak of the entire enlisted field. Even though, I still dont see how someones sexuality effects the workplace whatsoever. Its two thousand fucking nine.
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Old 05-16-2009, 08:39 PM   #38 (permalink)
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And no offense, but I'm sure cohesion in the Seals is a bit more needed than someone enlisted.
Oh, are you sure?
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Old 05-16-2009, 08:47 PM   #39 (permalink)
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Oh, are you sure?
Speak on what you know, man, not what you feel like is.
I'm using what I've been told, seeing as though I've got quite friends that are both enlisted and special ops. I've grown up around the military since I was born. I live on the biggest naval station in the world. I'd say I'm more than able to speak on what I know, but I appreciate the advice.

It's not meant as a diss to anyone in the services as I'm not sure there's a more honorable duty to partake in.
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Old 05-16-2009, 09:58 PM   #40 (permalink)
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SEAL's and special ops are enlisted, so I honestly have no idea what you're talking about.
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