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Thrice 05-16-2009 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by IamAlejo (Post 660596)
I'm using what I've been told, seeing as though I've got quite friends that are both enlisted and special ops. I've grown up around the military since I was born. I live on the biggest naval station in the world. I'd say I'm more than able to speak on what I know, but I appreciate the advice.

It's not meant as a diss to anyone in the services as I'm not sure there's a more honorable duty to partake in.

I would put the POS guy that got a 34 on his asvab who is forced to frontline gruntism more honorable than a man that works out and trains twelve hours a day to tip toe around in spec ops. Along with a million other rates, FMF Coreman being next on the list.

IamAlejo 05-16-2009 09:15 PM

You don't seem to have much of a grip on what the spec ops does which is understandable.

Not to mention I never said one was more honorable than the other, just which one requires more cohesion between the units. But just wow if you believe spec ops is tip toeing around.

sleepy jack 05-17-2009 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 660543)
Oh come on, everyone needs to get off Obama's nuts....yeah he promised to do things but that stuff isn't going to happen over night....he has more pressing issues to attend to first

That's bullshit. Reversing a policy doesn't take that much time (and he did it regularly with Bush policies) and dealing with this Choi situation would only take a few minutes for him to make a statement - a few minutes he instead took to say he wouldn't intervene. There's no excuse for his hypocrisy.

IamAlejo 05-17-2009 11:42 AM

Also don't really understand the Bush parallel in the first post. This policy was started under Clinton...unless you were relaying the getting away with murder to another event?

adidasss 05-17-2009 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by IamAlejo (Post 660558)
And the fact is that sexual orientation does play a part in the ability of others to serve their country, coming straight from the mouth of some people that serve it.

Ok, on second thought, it really would be nice to hear how and why those SEALs feel that the presence of homosexuals in the unit breaks its cohesion and inhibits them from doing their job.

sleepy jack 05-17-2009 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by IamAlejo (Post 660832)
Also don't really understand the Bush parallel in the first post. This policy was started under Clinton...unless you were relaying the getting away with murder to another event?

That was me criticizing the President for talking about accountability/transparency and then hiding torture memos, pictures and other things. I see no way for a country to get past that issue without an actual discussion of it; a discussion which he doesn't seem to want to have which is contrary to the ideals he ran on.

IamAlejo 05-17-2009 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by sleepy jack (Post 660933)
That was me criticizing the President for talking about accountability/transparency and then hiding torture memos, pictures and other things. I see no way for a country to get past that issue without an actual discussion of it; a discussion which he doesn't seem to want to have which is contrary to the ideals he ran on.

While I agree they should get out in time, do you not see the obvious harm and backlash that troops overseas who never partook in any of those malicious acts would be put in if those pictures were released.

Do they need to get out? I'd say yes, but I'm not sure I'd say now is the right time. That of course raises the question of when the right time is, and that's a difficult question.

And adidasss I'll try to get those answers next time I see any of them.

sleepy jack 05-17-2009 04:50 PM

Um no I don't see the harm. Everyone's fully aware there was some level of punishment in there and that it's an old incident. I don't see how any rational person could all the sudden start criticizing the military upon the release of these pictures.

I think now is the perfect time. Were involved in two wars and we need to decide how were going to operate as a country. I don't see how we can go beyond with the issue without any sort of national discussion on it or how we can put it on hold any longer.

Bane of your existence 05-17-2009 05:00 PM

Personally, yeah, their's gonna be a backlash. Sleepy, Taliban doesn't "start criticizing the military." They gain support and will shoot all of their *** ass ancient weaponry at American bases. But they absolutely need to come out, now. We need to get our hands dirty in order to restore our image. I am personally willing to get shot at a little more in order for those pictures to be released. We voted for change, the government should act based on the desicions of the people, not work to "protect them from themselves."

sleepy jack 05-17-2009 05:21 PM

I was (rather egocentrically/ignorantly) thinking only of the Western world when he said backlash (and when I responded to it) my bad.

djchameleon 05-18-2009 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Thrice (Post 660553)
Ship 14, Great Lakes. I think we actually split it in half and did 40 plus at a time, Port and Stbd. We had a double shower and a separate single one. The double could fit about 10-12 at a time, but the other 30 guys stood around the inner walls of the shower waiting their turn. We were only authorized to use the single on Sunday (Holiday Routine) and we could shower alone. Alot of the guys hid in the head stalls to avoid showering with everyone and would only shower on sunday.

I don't even remember my Ship number lol but I remember my division number....I lucked out....I was in a co-ed division. lucky bastards, we didn't have a single one that we could use on sundays.....the only difference on sundays is that we could take an hour long shower if we wanted to. Which we would because that whole shower, shit and shave in 15mins wasn't cutting it.

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Originally Posted by sleepy jack (Post 660678)
That's bullshit. Reversing a policy doesn't take that much time (and he did it regularly with Bush policies) and dealing with this Choi situation would only take a few minutes for him to make a statement - a few minutes he instead took to say he wouldn't intervene. There's no excuse for his hypocrisy.

I don't blame him....he's a politician. He is suppose to be somewhat of a hypocrite. It comes with the territory. He may want to do one thing but then his advisory staff may give him reasons why he shouldn't act on those decisions. He does have the choice to ignore them and do what he wishes but like I said there are other pressing issues that have higher priority. When you are president you can take the short amount of time it takes to reverse said policy.

IamAlejo 05-18-2009 07:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Bane of your existence (Post 661038)
Personally, yeah, their's gonna be a backlash. Sleepy, Taliban doesn't "start criticizing the military." They gain support and will shoot all of their *** ass ancient weaponry at American bases. But they absolutely need to come out, now. We need to get our hands dirty in order to restore our image. I am personally willing to get shot at a little more in order for those pictures to be released. We voted for change, the government should act based on the desicions of the people, not work to "protect them from themselves."

Definitely can see where you're coming from on that. It's a fine line he's got to tip toe down [President]. If he releases those photos and there are major uproars/riots in Iraq and the troops see a death toll rise in any significant fashion he's going to catch a ton of heat for it. If he doesn't release them he's going to also catch heat for it. So goes the fun in being potus.

Thrice 05-18-2009 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 661263)
I don't even remember my Ship number lol but I remember my division number....I lucked out....I was in a co-ed division. lucky bastards, we didn't have a single one that we could use on sundays.....the only difference on sundays is that we could take an hour long shower if we wanted to. Which we would because that whole shower, shit and shave in 15mins wasn't cutting it.

Yeah I was in a newer ship, it wasnt really a single shower it was meant for about 5 people, but on Sundays if you didn't have to shower with other men you didnt. I would have loved to be in a co-ed div, i was in 156. I remember even the butt ugliest girls were fine as hell after about a month.

sleepy jack 05-19-2009 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 661263)
I don't blame him....he's a politician. He is suppose to be somewhat of a hypocrite. It comes with the territory. He may want to do one thing but then his advisory staff may give him reasons why he shouldn't act on those decisions. He does have the choice to ignore them and do what he wishes but like I said there are other pressing issues that have higher priority. When you are president you can take the short amount of time it takes to reverse said policy.

Get your argument straight. He's either too busy bailing out wall street or he's a hypocrite. You can't have it both ways because they're contradictory statements; though your last sentence shows you seem to enjoy some level of cognitive dissonance.

Yukon Cornelius 05-19-2009 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Bane of your existence (Post 660023)
Gays shouldn't be in the military because they can't fight. They're weak. What are they gonna do, bejewel their camo?


I dont mind *** ppl. I just dont really wanna shower with them if its all the same to you guys. In the military we have no privacy. I know that sounds *** but really.. When you were in highschool would you have wanted to know that one of your fellow football players was ***? Nah i think you would feel really weird about it.

The Unfan 05-19-2009 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius (Post 662031)
I dont mind *** ppl. I just dont really wanna shower with them if its all the same to you guys. In the military we have no privacy. I know that sounds *** but really.. When you were in highschool would you have wanted to know that one of your fellow football players was ***? Nah i think you would feel really weird about it.

If you're an adult who's brain is still stuck at high school level thinking you're too dumb to be defending our country. Go play tiddlywinks with someone else, thanks.

Yukon Cornelius 05-19-2009 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by The Unfan (Post 662036)
If you're an adult who's brain is still stuck at high school level thinking you're too dumb to be defending our country. Go play tiddlywinks with someone else, thanks.

I assume you are a offended *** male... Once again I dont mind that at all I just dont feel like being eyeballed by a guy. Thats just how i feel. What i dont know wont hurt or offend me. Don't you see that??? You can be as mad as you wanna be.

Son of JayJamJah 05-19-2009 01:33 PM

@ Ethan

In the future when you make these threads, I'd encourage you to use your mod privileges to erase all the posts that are irrelevant to the conversation, the issue gets lost in pissing contests and one-liners.

The Unfan 05-19-2009 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius (Post 662080)
I assume you are a offended *** male... Once again I dont mind that at all I just dont feel like being eyeballed by a guy. Thats just how i feel. What i dont know wont hurt or offend me. Don't you see that??? You can be as mad as you wanna be.

Who the Hell do you think I am? Adidass?

Yukon Cornelius 05-19-2009 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by The Unfan (Post 662124)
Who the Hell do you think I am? Adidass?

Take it how you want im not trying to offend you im just being honest. How would you feel as a *** man around a bunch of women/???

adidasss 05-19-2009 02:20 PM

I think what The Unfan is trying to tell you is that he's not a homosexual. I am, and I can tell you that I'd be equally uncomfortable taking a shower with women as with men, straight or otherwise.

The Unfan 05-19-2009 02:31 PM

If you're not comfortable with your sexuality that's your problem. Despite my straightness if another guy found me attractive I'd be flattered. If someone is *** they should be able to be open about it. It isn't the government's place to stifle discussion on non-issues.

Son of JayJamJah 05-19-2009 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by The Unfan (Post 662132)
if another guy found me attractive I'd be flattered. If someone is gay they should be able to be open about it. .

About as simple as it can be put

Yukon Cornelius 05-19-2009 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by JayJamJah (Post 662157)
About as simple as it can be put

Sorry... Thats only one opinion. I dont like the idea of being hit on by another dude. I assume a homosexual male can spot another homosexual male from miles. I do know that sometimes they can seek what they cant have and that makes me a little uncomfortable.

Double X 05-19-2009 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius (Post 662171)
Sorry... Thats only one opinion. I dont like the idea of being hit on by another dude. I assume a homosexual male can spot another homosexual male from miles. I do know that sometimes they can seek what they cant have and that makes me a little uncomfortable.

because all homosexual men dress up in designer clothing and speak like women. Of course...

I am curious though...guys are supposed to be okay with ***s in the locker rooms and showers, but girls and guys can't share locker rooms or showers? Why is this?

adidasss 05-19-2009 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius (Post 662171)
I assume a homosexual male can spot another homosexual male from miles.

Yes, that is true, we are equipped with long range beacons. I can usually sense another homosexual up to 1.7 kilometers on a clear day.
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I do know that sometimes they can seek what they cant have and that makes me a little uncomfortable.
In other words, you're a little bitch that's scared of gay people...

Son of JayJamJah 05-19-2009 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius (Post 662171)
Sorry... Thats only one opinion. I dont like the idea of being hit on by another dude. I assume a homosexual male can spot another homosexual male from miles.


Being hit on and not liking it is a part of life, it's your issue not someone theirs. Choosing which sex can and can't hit on you is ignorant and bigoted plain and simple, it's one opinion and the only one that is correct.


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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius (Post 662171)
I do know that sometimes they can seek what they cant have and that makes me a little uncomfortable

How do you think hot chicks feel around you.

As soon as the first gay on straight shower rape outside of prison occurs I'll give your concern more then a second of thought.

The Unfan 05-19-2009 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Double X (Post 662179)
I am curious though...guys are supposed to be okay with ***s in the locker rooms and showers, but girls and guys can't share locker rooms or showers? Why is this?

Societal standards are weird.

Double X 05-19-2009 07:26 PM

I'm not trying to be bigoted, I just think it's a bit hypocritical.

sleepy jack 05-19-2009 07:32 PM

If the idea is that no one who is sexually attracted to a certain gender should shower with that gender then I think it has to do with convenience because that means no homosexual could shower with anyone besides themselves and creating a bunch of single shower stalls specifically for homosexuals wouldn't be fair.

Freebase Dali 05-22-2009 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by sleepy jack (Post 662375)
If the idea is that no one who is sexually attracted to a certain gender should shower with that gender then I think it has to do with convenience because that means no homosexual could shower with anyone besides themselves and creating a bunch of single shower stalls specifically for homosexuals wouldn't be fair.

Black folks got reparations, I say it's time we give homosexuals their very own shower stalls.
:D

IamAlejo 05-23-2009 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by JayJamJah (Post 662200)
Choosing which sex can and can't hit on you is ignorant and bigoted plain and simple, it's one opinion and the only one that is correct.

Please explain this. This is astonishing to me. Does it apply to other things, not just particular sexes but sizes, etc?

adidasss 05-23-2009 05:20 PM

I think the man was trying to say that straight people shouldn't feel threatened by gay people hitting on them. I get hit on by straight women and don't freak out about it. Hell, it's kinda flattering...:\

Freebase Dali 05-24-2009 04:17 AM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 664960)
I think the man was trying to say that straight people shouldn't feel threatened by gay people hitting on them. I get hit on by straight women and don't freak out about it. Hell, it's kinda flattering...:\

The guy is afraid of getting raped apparently. Pshh.
I don't understand how people could possibly be afraid of a homosexual person.
Look at my sweaty body all you want, I'm not going to go Gestapo on another person's sexual interest. I'll be flattered, and I may lead on, but eventually, I'm going to draw a line that separates my ass from a dick in it.

I don't even know why I'm typing all this. Sexual preference is a constant, but any advances I get from a gay guy is just going to be met with a friendly conversation. If I weren't so sure about my own sexuality, I might be threatened, but since that's not the case, well... let 'er rip.

The Unfan 05-25-2009 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by IamAlejo (Post 664954)
Please explain this. This is astonishing to me. Does it apply to other things, not just particular sexes but sizes, etc?

Women and men large and small can hit on me. That doesn't mean they're getting any.

TheBig3 05-26-2009 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction (Post 665187)
The guy is afraid of getting raped apparently. Pshh.
I don't understand how people could possibly be afraid of a homosexual person.
Look at my sweaty body all you want, I'm not going to go Gestapo on another person's sexual interest. I'll be flattered, and I may lead on, but eventually, I'm going to draw a line that separates my ass from a dick in it.

I don't even know why I'm typing all this. Sexual preference is a constant, but any advances I get from a gay guy is just going to be met with a friendly conversation. If I weren't so sure about my own sexuality, I might be threatened, but since that's not the case, well... let 'er rip.

lol.

Was this supposed to be forward thinking and enlightened?

adidasss 05-26-2009 12:34 PM

Compared to the person he was referring to, yes, most definitely. You don't think so?

IamAlejo 05-26-2009 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 664960)
I think the man was trying to say that straight people shouldn't feel threatened by gay people hitting on them. I get hit on by straight women and don't freak out about it. Hell, it's kinda flattering...:\

Right...I'm sensing my idea of "getting hit on" is a more physical one than a come up and trying to start up some conversation at a bar.

And to whoever was after that....yes, deathly afraid of getting raped. :wave:

adidasss 05-26-2009 01:49 PM

Wow. Do gay men often rape straight men where you're from?

IamAlejo 05-26-2009 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 666356)
Wow. Do gay men often rape straight men where you're from?

The being deathly afraid was completely sarcastic. Thought my little waving guy gave that away. Guess not.


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