Physical discipline against children .. okay or not? (country, effects, member)

s_k · 01-31-2011, 01:13 PM

I think spanking is a very big deal.
But that's not what I wanted to say.
In one of my first postings I explained that kids who get physically abused
(what you're talking about isn't beating, that's just abuse, it's awful and I'm really very sorry to hear what happened to you) usually do the same to their children and so on. It's not something I make up, it's the way these things work.
The fact that you really don't want to do it like that, often causes you to make the same awful mistakes. You might want to google a bit on that, it's really the (inconvenient) truth.
Exceptions are rare. If you are indeed an exception, you definitely can tell everyone you're making the world a better place.

Edit:
here is that posting
I guess you already read it

View Poll Results: Physical punishment aganist children. Acceptable or Unacceptable?
Acceptable	50	56.82%
Unacceptable	38	43.18%
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01-31-2011, 01:13 PM	#10 (permalink)
s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	I think spanking is a very big deal. But that's not what I wanted to say. In one of my first postings I explained that kids who get physically abused (what you're talking about isn't beating, that's just abuse, it's awful and I'm really very sorry to hear what happened to you) usually do the same to their children and so on. It's not something I make up, it's the way these things work. The fact that you really don't want to do it like that, often causes you to make the same awful mistakes. You might want to google a bit on that, it's really the (inconvenient) truth. Exceptions are rare. If you are indeed an exception, you definitely can tell everyone you're making the world a better place. Edit: here is that posting I guess you already read it __________________ Click here to see my collection