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Acceptable | 50 | 56.82% | |
Unacceptable | 38 | 43.18% | |
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03-18-2009, 04:05 AM | #51 (permalink) |
Al Dente
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I think one has to differentiate between physical discipline and physical abuse, and there are some factors that differentiate the two.
For one abuse is done out of anger and in a state of mind where the disciplining parent is not in control of their mind and subsequently their judgement. A parent physically lashing out at their child violently out of anger is unacceptable. No exceptions. Hwever their are instances where physical discipline, emphasis on the word discipline is acceptable, especially in very early childhood situations (toddlers) where its not easy to verbally communicate crucial messages that a child needs to understand relevant to how their actions affect their own safety. That being said, I think its safe to say that at least 95% of the physical discipline that is issued by parents is really abuse. The question is Does the parent have self control?, and more importantly are the actions done with the immediate intention of benefiting the child and the parents genuine concern for the child's well being? Most of the time, unfortunately, the answer to that question is "no". |
03-18-2009, 06:45 AM | #52 (permalink) | |
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03-18-2009, 06:49 AM | #53 (permalink) |
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Yeah, fuck science, you definitely know better. Incidentally, do you have kids?
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03-18-2009, 07:00 AM | #55 (permalink) |
Special K
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No, I do not have kids adidasss but when I do I will do exactly as I stated in my posts and which is exactly how my parents raised me and I believe all of that stuff helped me turn into a respactable member os society, I was a bad kid and to be honest I got spanked all the time, but never once thought my parents didnt love me and now we still have a great relationship, I couldnt have asked more from them. I think they did a great job of raising me and my teo ciblings.
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03-18-2009, 07:09 AM | #57 (permalink) | |
Atchin' Akai
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My strategy with parenting is based on that maxim. Although it's important not to be too harsh equally as it is not to spoil them by allowing the child to get away with blue murder. Being a parent is a massive responsibility and ensuring the child grows up to be a well balanced human being, knowing the difference between right and wrong, is the biggest responsibility of all. If the child knows exactly why he/she is being disciplined, then I see no harm with a swift smack on the hand. |
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03-18-2009, 07:11 AM | #58 (permalink) | |
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03-18-2009, 07:27 AM | #59 (permalink) | ||||
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Is that hard to understand? No. You don't care? Fine, then let's just disagree then. Quote:
It is a reasonable assumption that some of those who cross the line and smack their kids too much probably wouldn't had they not been smacked around themselves when they were kids. Quote:
For those who are not quite as mentally stubborn : Quote:
This wall of text comes from Wikipedia. I've bolded some of the points that might be interesting. There was a also a bit too much text, so I cut some of it out, but there was nothing in there that supported corporal punishment. Furthermore, this text is not something made up by random users because you will see there are numbers in the text and these means that the claims here come from and/or are supported by articles and the like found in this wikipedia article's reference list. Look through article's reference list if you want to look up the sources to these claims.
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