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02-02-2011, 12:10 PM | #471 (permalink) |
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No. A good example of what I think of as corporal punishment is spanking. If you're wondering what the definition of corporal punishment used in the studies are, check them out. It may differ slightly from study to study, but I can assure you they don't define it as beating the crap out of kids.
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02-02-2011, 12:22 PM | #473 (permalink) | |
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As for the definition they used in studies... well if they're making up their own definition for words I'd hate to think what they make up to support their 'study'. How many of these studies included kids with abusive parents who were beaten often? I'd bet my house the vast majority fell into that category or a similar one as opposed to a light spanking once every few years because they have done something awful repeatedly and aren't responding to the usual forms of discipline (grounding etc). |
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02-02-2011, 12:41 PM | #474 (permalink) | |
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Through various statistical analyses, you can f.ex make regression models from such data which is able to make predictions. For example, a model might say that a kid who gets beaten so and so often is likely to become this depressed or this violent towards his or her spouse with a standard deviation of that (standard deviation basically tells the uncertainty of the model). If you can say with a certainty of 95% or more that corporal punishment f.ex explains violence in later life, that result is considered scientifically significant and something you can use as a basis for a conclusion. 95% certainty is a standard in science meaning any conclusion you can draw from a study should have at least a 95% likelihood of being true. This could be a general way to do it, but several studies have tested this in different ways. The people doing these studies are not complete idiots and when you have a significant amount of studies dating back to the 50s that show negative effects of corporal punishment on society, you should open your mind a bit to the possibility that they may be on to something. Suffice to say that when a country like Sweden decided to prohibit corporal punishment in the 70s, that decision was based on more than mere opinion and we know a lot more about the effects of spanking and other forms of corporal punishment now than we did today. It's a difficult lesson to teach people because it rouses feelings and invades intimate family privacy. No parent likes to hear that what they did or are doing to their kids may cause long term damage, so telling people about it is not enough. You also have to battle their old fashioned ideas and their wishes to live a life in denial where their parenting decisions to smack and spank were/are right. Noone wants to be a bad parent.
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02-02-2011, 12:56 PM | #475 (permalink) | |
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Have you ever been spanked/smacked? I think you're imagining it to be a lot more painful and distressing than it actually is. I was never spanked as a child but my relatives and friends were, and after getting smacked once, they NEVER did anything like that again. It works, and as far as I know none of them have had any long term negative effects (and I'd say 9/10 people I know now were spanked as kids). I think the ones with the long term negative effects had more issues, they were probably abused physically or psychologically. Whatever the case, I think there were more underlying issues than what these studies let on. You don't get spanked once or twice in your life (spanked not struck, slapped, punched or kicked) and end up being so distressed with it you have long term negative effects. If you hit them full force maybe, but that's just abuse. |
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02-02-2011, 01:18 PM | #476 (permalink) | |
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Also, no studies here have concluded that you get completely f-ed from being spanked once or twice. They are general studies that describe the general effect of a practice in large scale. I got a slap on the wrist once when I was a kid. I think my father regretted doing it and so he never did it again. I know it wasn't me changing my behaviour because of it because I didn't. Someone I know got smacked a few times when she was a kid. She said she lost all her respect for her father when it happened and if I ask if she thinks it has a lingering effect on the family relationship today, I'm pretty sure she'll say yes. Negative effects can come in many different forms. I find it strange that so many people think something good can come from hitting children in the long term. One of the studies I referred to show that the positive effect of corporal punishment is immediate conformity, but that it has various negative long-term effects. If you can explain to me what the positive long-term effects corporal punishment has on society, something that warrants why society as a whole should want to protect it as a practice, then please; enlighten me!
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02-02-2011, 02:19 PM | #477 (permalink) |
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I don't think that a sharp smack on the bottom qualifies as abuse. Kids do worse things to themselves by accident when they fall off the playgrounds or trip over cracks in the sidewalk, but I also don't think it's okay for anybody BUT the parent to punish in such a manner. It's nobody's business but the parent's.
I only remember being spanked once as a child, and it's because I had stuffed my pockets with candy at the grocery store when I didn't know any better. I never did it again, and as far as I'm concerned, I turned out to be a fine human being. I'm not advocating parents slapping their children around every time they mouth off or have a tantrum, but when it comes to really big things like hitting other children, stealing, or hurting the pets, a stronger message needs to be sent than "Go to your room". Again, I'm not advocating breaking wooden spoons on your kids or whipping them with belts. |
02-02-2011, 02:22 PM | #478 (permalink) | |
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