Physical discipline against children .. okay or not?

s_k · 01-31-2011, 03:05 PM

It's not "****head". It's my opinion.
I wouldn't blame anyone for trying, but I'd just be careful if I were them.

I won't have kids for completely different reasons by the way.

Edit: I'll stop posting here now as I'm sort of on thin ice here.
I knew I was. I just wanted to point out the way I think about stuff like this.
Hope I haven't made any enemies by being my usual honest self

djchameleon · 01-31-2011, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

I just want to say that DJChameleon was just a reason to talk about this, as a part of this thread. I realise it may look like I was trying to change the way he leads his life and maybe that's a wrong of me. I'm sorry

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Everyone should do what they think is the right thing. I'm just scared of a lot of things going wrong in this world. Pessimistic? Yeah. Hugely.

Yeah, you are fine to have your own opinion but I also have mines and so does Dirty. I will live my life the way I want to regardless of what you think/say.

Yeah and I think you haven't been around enough kids, there are some bad seeds out there where simple talking just doesn't work. Sometimes I have even wanted to spank other people's kids for them when they are acting up in public because their parents have NO fucking clue how to raise their kid but at the end of the day it's not my place to step in and teach them how to raise their kid.

s_k · 01-31-2011, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

I will live my life the way I want to regardless of what you think/say.

I never forced you to do what I say, have I?
Please live your life the way you want to dude, I obviously won't stop you.
But please don't mind me saying what I think. It may be useless one time, useful the other time. Pick what you like and leave the rest.
I hope you have a great life and I'm not being sarcastic here.

I already said sorry for the way I was putting things. Wasn't being very subtle.

~~Dirty~~ · 01-31-2011, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

It's not "****head". It's my opinion.
I wouldn't blame anyone for trying, but I'd just be careful if I were them.

I won't have kids for completely different reasons by the way.

Edit: I'll stop posting here now as I'm sort of on thin ice here.
I knew I was. I just wanted to point out the way I think about stuff like this.
Hope I haven't made any enemies by being my usual honest self

I'm just saying if you were physically beaten or abused as a child, I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate or enjoy someone telling you to not have kids because there's a "very very very VERY" good chance you will be abusive and be a terrible parent.

The way you talk about it is as if dj would have some addiction or disease... Like he'd have to fight the urge to abuse his children or something. He'd have to be really careful or somethin, and I think it's stupid.

djchameleon · 01-31-2011, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

I never forced you to do what I say, have I?

I didn't say you were forcing me. I already said previously to that statement that I respect your opinion and you should respect mines as well even though it's different than yours. I'm not upset or anything.

Urban Hat€monger ? · 01-31-2011, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

I never forced you to do what I say, have I?
Please live your life the way you want to dude, I obviously won't stop you.
But please don't mind me saying what I think. It may be useless one time, useful the other time. Pick what you like and leave the rest.
I hope you have a great life and I'm not being sarcastic here.

I already said sorry for the way I was putting things. Wasn't being very subtle.

If we used your logic I doubt many of us would be even here now.

Are you sure your parents or grandparents didn't have physical punishment used against them ?

What if they had decided to do what you suggest. You wouldn't be here now. I know I wouldn't be.

While your intentions are good I think that may have been one of the dumbest things I have ever read on this forum.

Queen Boo · 01-31-2011, 03:17 PM

s_k, I love how Dirty's talking sense into you and he's been branded as a sort of serial rapist/borderline retard.

s_k · 01-31-2011, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

I didn't say you were forcing me. I already said previously to that statement that I respect your opinion and you should respect mines as well even though it's different than yours. I'm not upset or anything.

Good. It's sometimes pretty hard to figure out what someone thinks when re not using your own language.
I totally respect and (really) understand your vision on this

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Originally Posted by Urban Hatemonger

If we used your logic I doubt many of us would be even here now.

I don't neccesarily think of that as a bad thing

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One of the three reasons I won't have kids.
One being autism, it's inhabitable.
Second being that I don't really like this world, so why should I have a kid?
Third being that we have quite enough people.
I wouldn't mind if everyone stopped having children, growing old, dying.
I don't think my own 'race' is all that special.

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While your intentions are good I think that may have been one of the dumbest things I have ever read on this forum.

I'm glad you think my intentions are good. Cause they are.
I obviously don't agree with that but I won't bother explaining as I'm sure you won't agree with me either. I just think it would make the world a better place in time.

s_k · 01-31-2011, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Tumor

s_k, I love how Dirty's talking sense into you and he's been branded as a sort of serial rapist/borderline retard.

I'm branded as a sort of hippie autist idiot who won't have kids. So I have no reason to speak here.
Dirty may as well have a point, I don't know. I just see things differently.

Queen Boo · 01-31-2011, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

I'm branded as a sort of hippie autist idiot who won't have kids. So I have no reason to speak here.
Dirty may as well have a point, I don't know. I just see things differently.

But everyone on this forum licks your ass.

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