Physical discipline against children .. okay or not? (albums, effect, show)

Thrice · 04-09-2009, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius

I do and voted acceptable, but only if its in the moment so they know why it happened.. For the record your kids dont believe that its acceptable to hit because you pop them on the butt when they are bad.. They learn that pain is something that happens when you do the wrong thing. As you get older, its replaced by far worse things then getting spanked on the but...

You on the other hand sound like its about abuse. A spank on the butt is not child abuse at all.

I dont belive you have any kids anyways.

333 · 04-09-2009, 02:55 PM

I don't think that those of whom voted 'acceptable' are for BEATING children. I think it's moreorless spanking, or even something lighter like a slap on the hand. I don't have children, so I probably don't have much room to discuss this topic. However, I was a result of strict physical discipline and though I depised it at the time, I feel like it was crucial to get some things across to me. Not to say that those kids who were never physically disciplined are brats, but I don't think you should straight up call someone who chooses to punish their children with spankings a bad parent. My parents spanked me and at times, did much, much worse, but they are great parents, and I can say I'm glad they did it. I've faced that I can be hard-headed, stubborn, and ill-tempered, and if I had to deal with a little **** like myself as a parent, I'd probably spank me, too.

Edit: Also, the Vietnamese culture had devised a new way of physical disciplinary action back in the day. I don't know how long ago, but my parents used it on me, and it worked very well. It's a combo of time-out and kneeling. Yes, it sounds strange, but it ****ing hurt without my parents laying a hand on me. What they would actually do was make children get on both knees with their backs straight and ass off the ground, cross their arms, and face the wall for hours. My parents used this one quite often and it worked, but in Vietnam, they used to make children kneel on durian rinds. Now that's ****ed.

This is a durian:

Yukon Cornelius · 04-09-2009, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Thrice

I dont belive you have any kids anyways.

I have 2 sons and a daughter.

Thrice · 04-09-2009, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by 333

I don't think that those of whom voted 'acceptable' are for BEATING children. I think it's moreorless spanking, or even something lighter like a slap on the hand. I don't have children, so I probably don't have much room to discuss this topic. However, I was a result of strict physical discipline and though I depised it at the time, I feel like it was crucial to get some things across to me. Not to say that those kids who were never physically disciplined are brats, but I don't think you should straight up call someone who chooses to punish their children with spankings a bad parent. My parents spanked me and at times, did much, much worse, but they are great parents, and I can say I'm glad they did it. I've faced that I can be hard-headed, stubborn, and ill-tempered, and if I had to deal with a little **** like myself as a parent, I'd probably spank me, too.

Edit: Also, the Vietnamese culture had devised a new way of physical disciplinary action back in the day. I don't know how long ago, but my parents used it on me, and it worked very well. It's a combo of time-out and kneeling. Yes, it sounds strange, but it ****ing hurt without my parents laying a hand on me. What they would actually do was make children get on both knees with their backs straight and ass off the ground, cross their arms, and face the wall for hours. My parents used this one quite often and it worked, but in Vietnam, they used to make children kneel on durian rinds. Now that's ****ed.

This is a durian:

I just saw that in a movie...secret life of the bees. But please refer up a few posts.

Yukon Cornelius · 04-09-2009, 03:12 PM

I've also noticed in a doctor Phil world were less people pop there kids on the butt, children are smartazzes and the walk all over there parents.. F-that

Yukon Cornelius · 04-09-2009, 07:12 PM

My kids love me to death and tell me there problems, I don't spank them for telling the truth no matter the reason, I will if they lie.. All kids try to lie and if you catch them doing it (not that hard to figure out) thats when you let them know why there getting spanked. My kids also know that I take no pleasure in doing this.

I know this is acceptable and I have no problem with it.

What is the best way.. You tell me. Sounds like your daughter is about 6 months or so falling asleep in your arms or shes way to sheltered. Of course this is also an opinion.

ElephantSack · 04-09-2009, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by wayfarer

right on. Get 'em with the chokehold.

hahahahaaa!!!

ElephantSack · 04-09-2009, 09:05 PM

Acceptable? Unacceptable? To me, its all relative and its all about moderation.

Then again, I don't have children. I'm speaking strictly from what I experienced as a child, and yes, I did get hit (spanked, slapped). And now that I've grown into adulthood, I can say that I'm genuinely grateful for it. I love my parents, and I can talk to them about anything. I'm not saying that hitting your kids is the only way to raise good people. But I will tell you that I'm glad they hit me instead of doping me up. Doping your kids up doesn't teach them anything about respect.

Thrice · 04-09-2009, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius

My kids love me to death and tell me there problems, I don't spank them for telling the truth no matter the reason, I will if they lie.. All kids try to lie and if you catch them doing it (not that hard to figure out) thats when you let them know why there getting spanked. My kids also know that I take no pleasure in doing this.

I know this is acceptable and I have no problem with it.

What is the best way.. You tell me. Sounds like your daughter is about 6 months or so falling asleep in your arms or shes way to sheltered. Of course this is also an opinion.

Shes 1, but even if she were 10 I would hope she would still fall asleep in my arms, maybe that means shes too sheltered, I sure hope not because I look forward to it.

ElephantSack · 04-09-2009, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by boo boo

That's right and if they give ya any lip, beat them with a sack of Florida oranges, it won't leave a bruise and it'll show 'em who's boss.

Holy ****, man! ****in' hysterical.

View Poll Results: Physical punishment aganist children. Acceptable or Unacceptable?
Acceptable	50	56.82%
Unacceptable	38	43.18%
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04-09-2009, 02:55 PM	#132 (permalink)
333 Music Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 965	I don't think that those of whom voted 'acceptable' are for BEATING children. I think it's moreorless spanking, or even something lighter like a slap on the hand. I don't have children, so I probably don't have much room to discuss this topic. However, I was a result of strict physical discipline and though I depised it at the time, I feel like it was crucial to get some things across to me. Not to say that those kids who were never physically disciplined are brats, but I don't think you should straight up call someone who chooses to punish their children with spankings a bad parent. My parents spanked me and at times, did much, much worse, but they are great parents, and I can say I'm glad they did it. I've faced that I can be hard-headed, stubborn, and ill-tempered, and if I had to deal with a little ** like myself as a parent, I'd probably spank me, too. Edit: Also, the Vietnamese culture had devised a new way of physical disciplinary action back in the day. I don't know how long ago, but my parents used it on me, and it worked very well. It's a combo of time-out and kneeling. Yes, it sounds strange, but it *ing hurt without my parents laying a hand on me. What they would actually do was make children get on both knees with their backs straight and ass off the ground, cross their arms, and face the wall for hours. My parents used this one quite often and it worked, but in Vietnam, they used to make children kneel on durian rinds. Now that's* ***ed. This is a durian: Last edited by 333; 04-09-2009 at 03:00 PM.*

04-09-2009, 03:12 PM	#135 (permalink)
Yukon Cornelius Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 625	I've also noticed in a doctor Phil world were less people pop there kids on the butt, children are smartazzes and the walk all over there parents.. F-that __________________ Attempting to find a cure for Stupid...

04-09-2009, 07:12 PM	#136 (permalink)
Yukon Cornelius Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 625	My kids love me to death and tell me there problems, I don't spank them for telling the truth no matter the reason, I will if they lie.. All kids try to lie and if you catch them doing it (not that hard to figure out) thats when you let them know why there getting spanked. My kids also know that I take no pleasure in doing this. I know this is acceptable and I have no problem with it. What is the best way.. You tell me. Sounds like your daughter is about 6 months or so falling asleep in your arms or shes way to sheltered. Of course this is also an opinion. __________________ Attempting to find a cure for Stupid...

04-09-2009, 09:05 PM	#138 (permalink)
ElephantSack Man vs. Wild Turkey Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: ATX Posts: 948	Acceptable? Unacceptable? To me, its all relative and its all about moderation. Then again, I don't have children. I'm speaking strictly from what I experienced as a child, and yes, I did get hit (spanked, slapped). And now that I've grown into adulthood, I can say that I'm genuinely grateful for it. I love my parents, and I can talk to them about anything. I'm not saying that hitting your kids is the only way to raise good people. But I will tell you that I'm glad they hit me instead of doping me up. Doping your kids up doesn't teach them anything about respect.