Changes to Rule Enforcement

DwnWthVwls · 05-31-2015, 08:28 PM

Like I said earlier before you joined the discussion. I think the mods could afford to be a little more proactive with removing posts that derail thread discussion on purpose, and arguments that result in aggresive/hurtful name calling with no actual point. Besides that I think you guys do a good job.

Neapolitan · 05-31-2015, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

I am telling you other members have posted sexual and porno like videos before. In addition, people post non music related videos in the plug ALL the time (which is not what the plug is for but members do, do it) so I think you should research more before you boldly claim another member is the ONLY one that does something. That was like the only one time she did that, that is not something she normally does and I can honestly say that because I have plugged with her numerous of times.

Stands to date she is the only one who played a video of her subs. I don't agree with that other video being played either. And anyone who plugs better understand that showing porn to minors is illegal. And in case you forget there are minors who belong to MusicBanter who plug.

She calls them "slaves" and/or "slaves" and you're cool with that? When she was here she would get her subs/slaves to follow her into MusicBanter or stalk her or whatever they were doing. And had one Scotty the Rebel harass us in plug.

You can't justify a wrong with the wrongs other people do. And I don't see defending her actions. Unless you're all cool with someone being treated like a slave or sub, for whatever reason.

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

You have done some questionable things yourself in that plug for someone who is suppose to run it.

You skipped me multiple times one night in the plug. I was confused as to why you did that. I had said nothing and did nothing to you that night and you have also done it before.

I didn't say anything but just ignored it then.... but I found that to be beyond immature and a blatant abuse of authority.

I don't remember skipping but I remember muting you, I said I did it by accident. I wanted to click @ but I clicked the wrong button. I remember apologizing about it. I thought we were cool with that. I apologize for any misunderstand about that happening.

Trollheart · 05-31-2015, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

Bring in new moderators--- check

Enforce the rules---- check

And that will break up the cliques, favoritism and the bully driven mentality of this board

I still would like to know why Sansa was banned because the reasons I have been given don't make any sense.

There are members who have said and done far worse but they are oddly still here.

You seem to be the only one here advocating new mods. I think the vast majority of us (ie everyone else) thinks they are all fine and nobody wants them to be replaced.

Also, you do love the term "bully" don't you? But you seem to be blissfully unaware that this is the exact behaviour you are carrying on here.

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

But the problem I have with some of the moderators is that there not fair. And a lot of times they give infractions to people that they don't like instead of objectively and maturely moderating the forums.

Also, I notice that there are moderators that are very disrespectful to members: call them out their name and are quite cruel here but they are oddly still moderators.

That's a problem.

I don't see how a member can be a moderator when they are disrespectful to other members themselves. Thats not a good role model for how a moderator should conduct themselves.

Again, what does the bolded part mean? Anyone? "Call them out their name"???? I asked this before but you ignored me. If you're using it as supposed justification for something you should explain what you mean. Or am I just thick? Does everyone else know what she's talking about? And if so, can someone let me know because it makes no sense to me....?

Key · 05-31-2015, 08:40 PM

This is getting ridiculous. Is there a chance we can just stop talking about this and move on, and those still interesting can exchange ideas via PM? Sick of seeing this thread pop up constantly.

DwnWthVwls · 05-31-2015, 08:50 PM

I'm gonna bump it until it get locked just to annoy you. Welcome home

Neapolitan · 05-31-2015, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

This is getting ridiculous. Is there a chance we can just stop talking about this and move on, and those still interesting can exchange ideas via PM? Sick of seeing this thread pop up constantly.

You don't have to hit New Posts every 15 seconds. If it's not your cup of tea just ignore it.

fiddler · 05-31-2015, 08:54 PM

It's a high dollar topic, and should be discuss openly without fear of prosecution for your thoughts, afterall, any changes to the way the forum is ran will effect all of us. Also, there's an option to mark all threads as "read".

~~Soulflower~~ · 05-31-2015, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan

Stands to date she is the only one who played a video of her subs. I don't agree with that other video being played either. And anyone who plugs better understand that showing porn to minors is illegal. And in case you forget there are minors who belong to MusicBanter who plug.

She calls them "slaves" and/or "slaves" and you're cool with that? When she was here she would get her subs/slaves to follow her into MusicBanter or stalk her or whatever they were doing. And had one Scotty the Rebel harass us in plug.

You can't justify a wrong with the wrongs other people do. And I don't see defending her actions. Unless you're all cool with someone being treated like a slave or sub, for whatever reason.

I don't remember skipping but I remember muting you, I said I did it by accident. I wanted to click @ but I clicked the wrong button. I remember apologizing about it. I thought we were cool with that. I apologize for any misunderstand about that happening.

I am not insisting I am cool with anything.

I just think if you are going to shed light on an issue than don't just point out one member when there are other members who do similar things.

Also you did skip me back to back one night and I don't lie on anybody. I have said numerous positive things about you in the past and I was confused as to why you did it.

I've noticed there are others that have similar complaints about this site but don't say anything or have left. I think the reason why more members dont speak out is because they get bashed for it.

Key · 05-31-2015, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

I'm gonna bump it until it get locked just to annoy you. Welcome home

I hate you.

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan

You don't have to hit New Posts every 15 seconds. If it's not your cup of tea just ignore it.

Sorry, didn't realize my opinion on a thread didn't matter.

RoxyRollah · 05-31-2015, 09:03 PM

I just want to point out it's possible to accidentally mess up with the controls in plug.

I accidentally ignored fiddler for a good 20 minutes once and sent him an angry pm. All high and mighty like what you cant talk to me.... Don't I look silly now.

I also did something to Anticipation after our 8 hour session where he lost all his woots and had to make a new account. I am not sure how that one happened either.

Neo might not have noticed he did it.

And as far as the porn goes. If someone makes you uncomfortable, please say something to me and I will do what the situation calls for. Talking, warning, or 30 minute ban.

But as for a permaban from plug for Hermione I vote no. I am sorry but she was important to people here and I don't think ripping someone away from their people completely is fair in any way. I will not take part in crushing someone like that.

And everyone should be comfortable in plug. And if people aren't you guys need to speak up to someone with a stripe that can help you.

05-31-2015, 08:40 PM	#194 (permalink)
Key . Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 13,153	This is getting ridiculous. Is there a chance we can just stop talking about this and move on, and those still interesting can exchange ideas via PM? Sick of seeing this thread pop up constantly.

05-31-2015, 08:54 PM	#197 (permalink)
fiddler Music Addict Join Date: May 2015 Posts: 242	It's a high dollar topic, and should be discuss openly without fear of prosecution for your thoughts, afterall, any changes to the way the forum is ran will effect all of us. Also, there's an option to mark all threads as "read".