If You Want To Know Why The Spill Your Guts Thread Was Closed Read On

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Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ?

If you want the full story I'll give it to you.

In the past month or so I have been receiving complaints from members that they felt that something needed to be done about what was being posted in the Lounge.
After the debacle that happened in the SYG thread where there were 20 pages of bickering I closed it down for a couple of days. I re-opned it and people just carried on with the bickering like nothing had happened.

I asked a question in the mod forum based on these factors if it was time to do something about this where Yac posted his reply to me which I posted earlier that it was maybe time something was done about it, then I closed the SYG thread and started this thread.

Then a few hours later Vanilla re-opned that thread under approved post conditions and asked if anyone minded it being re-opned. We then had a vote in the mod forum which is still ongoing about getting rid of that thread for good, Currently it's at 3 to 1 votes to close it for good.

That's exactly what happened, this is not me issuing a personal vendetta or me wanting to get my own way. This is about me acting as a moderator and trying to do something about things when I'm asked to. Something I believe you want me to do. You can't complain that I don't act and then when I do act on an issue complain when I do. That's just being contrary for the sake of it.

Fair enough.

But why did you post what you did in the first post?

It had to take me calling you out for you to clarify this.

This post right here should have been your first post.

Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ?

I'm not deflecting anything I want to know what it is I seem to be doing thats so wrong in your eyes.

All I can see is you interpret my posts a certain way which from what I can see is more on you than me. You seem to think I disregard your posts. If that were true I wouldn't respond to them in the first place.

I feel like you disregard my post because when I ask a question you do disregard them.

I sat here and have asked you at least 4 times now to discuss how you can improve this forum as a moderator but you oddly have not answered BUT you want me to answer your question though. (this is an example of you disregarding my posts and my feelings)

Like I have said many times in the past, I don't have a problem with you but for some reason you disregard my posts like they are nothing as well my opinions. I am not sure why that is when I take the time to answer your questions and really read your post and understand your perspectives ( as I would want anyone to do my own). I don't get that same respect from you. All I get is arrogance, superiority and immaturity.



I will not be patronized or dictated. My questions and opinions need to be considered as well not just YOURS.


It is a pretty simple question that you are dragging and making into a big deal by not answering it.

I wonder if it is because you are afraid to answer because it puts your flaws on display for all to see?