If You Want To Know Why The Spill Your Guts Thread Was Closed Read On

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

What's sad is you have not once maturely expressed your shortcomings as a moderator and how you are going to improve the forum as a moderator.

So far you have made it very clear that you are above criticism and your arrogance has blinded you of your failure to successful moderate this forum.

Again, I don't have to prove anything to you anymore because obviously the OWNER of this forum feels the same way about this forum as I do.

In other words, you have been put on notice and you know you have otherwise you would not have made this thread.

I am just trying to get you to understand that its not JUST the members and you play an essential role too as far as why this forum is the way it is. It would be immature to blame every one else and not take no type of responsibility yourself.

Did you even read the first post of this thread?

The whole point if this is asking EVERYBODY to try and show a bit of restraint so we don't have to start throwing down draconian laws down that nobody wants and banning people. This isn't moderators vs members, this is members full stop as in everybody, me, you, that guy who posts all those K pop videos.... everybody.

Again I ask you, what would you like me to do? anybody who went over the line with you was asked not to do it and action was taken, I was always civil to you. I'm not saying I'm perfect here but I'm beginning to think putting a saint in charge of the forum still wouldn't satisfy you.

And we have not been 'Put on notice' by the owners. I asked the question if things were becoming too much in the Lounge and was told it might be a good time to tighten things up a bit given that we're allowed to be a bit looser than their other forums. It's worked that way for 10 years, there's no harm in ensuring people are reminded about the situation.

Nobody is asking anybody to be whiter than white here, just making an effort to calm things down. As in not sending so many threads off topic with stuff that could just as easily be said in the shoutbox, or being quick to label people pointlessly.