Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1556583)

I try to improve my community Janszy.:( This my home man and some of you are my family. I dont **** where I eat.

Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy (Post 1556594)

Pretty typical of you to try and turn the subject onto someone else. It's always someone else. My eyes are opened: you are the greatest poster on MusicBanter

At least I admitted I was ridiculous and set out to try and make a change

Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ? (Post 1556200)

This is the first warning we have had from the owners to get ourselves in order.

Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ? (Post 1556563)

I asked a question in the mod forum based on these factors if it was time to do something about this where Yac posted his reply to me which I posted earlier that it was maybe time something was done about it, then I closed the SYG thread and started this thread.

Originally Posted by Yac

If I may
I don't want to tell you have to be mods here, I know you all know what is what.
From my perspective though, and keeping in mind city-data has a lot more rules than mb, the Lounge is a bit too relaxed for its own good.
It's great when members talk to each other, know each other, when members are friends. But at some point it stops being friendly, and starts being .. cliquish, so to say. When you have friends discussing things, it's good. But when they take any discussion and turn it into (even if friendly and/or funny) banter, insults and general off topic comments .. well, it's not good. Selected few are having fun, the rest -not so much.
Just some food for thought.
Yac.

Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ? (Post 1556563)

In the past month or so I have been receiving complaints from members that they felt that something needed to be done about what was being posted in the Lounge.

Originally Posted by Neapolitan (Post 1556503)

I don't understand this place at all. Never have, never will. No offense to Trollheart and UH? but one has a avatar of Spock painted up like The Joker and is asking "Are you all ... thirteen years of age???" The other has an avatar that basically says "Get You Tits Out..." pointing out that other members are posting "childish gifs." :confused: If this is all done tongue in cheek way, it's kinda humorous in the ironic sense. So is this a joke or not a joke?

Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ? (Post 1556510)

Nobody is asking anybody to be whiter than white here

Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy (Post 1556518)

Mildly off-topic: has anybody considered using any of the numerous ways to make their own forum to replace this place so that we can, you know, have the owners actually be an active part of the community?

Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls (Post 1556521)

That'd be nice except you would lose 10+ years of music info.

Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1556526)

And the work people put into their journals. And everything else.

Originally Posted by Soulflower (Post 1556552)

Your right, this isn't a members versus moderator debate nor did I imply it so don't make it into one. This is about YOU. This is me simply responding to a post in which you pointed the finger at all the members and did not reflect on any of your own short comings as a moderator. You made it appear as if you were put on notice in your first post, no where do you imply you "personally inquired" about anything and if that is the case you should have said that instead of perpetuating the opposite.

If that is the case, why did you delete the SYG thread? Your "new story" reeks of bs to be honest.

If this is not what you intended than you should have clarified that because your first post comes off arrogant. Every time I or anyone disagrees with you you throw a tantrum like its against the law to disagree with you. Like your status on this forum anoints you as the most high and nobody can disagree with anything you say.


Again, I ask what can YOU do to improve this forum and be a better moderator. I notice you are still deflecting that question and trying to fit "everybody" in the question. This is not everybody. This is about YOU.

Why is it so hard for you to answer this question?

Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1556565)

Honestly, with how agitated Soulflower is getting, I haven't seen Urban step out of line in any of his responses. He's been thorough and respectful. That says more than anything if you want to think about it that way.

Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1556581)

Which is kind of ironic when you think about it.

Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy (Post 1556590)

Yes keep gracing our wonderful community with the consistently high example you set, throwing out countless profanity-filled tirades a day, targeting people and incessantly berating them for things they've already apologized for, and triple posting to spice up important threads in the "Announcements, Suggestions, & Feedback" forum to keep things looking neat and tidy.

Originally Posted by Oriphiel (Post 1556612)

Alright, I don't want to fan the flames here, but I want to make something clear. Urban, in your first post, you made it sound like you were being ordered to take recent actions, and said ominous things like this:



But when pressed for more details, you went on to post this:



I'm kind of confused. You made it sound like you were being ordered by the owners of the site to crack down on us, and yet the only involvement that the owners have in this whole situation is this:



Which is basically a "Yeah, sure, The Lounge can be kinda unruly. Feel free to do whatever you want." It wasn't a set of orders being thrown down by the angry owners, it was just Yac giving a sensible response when asked a question.

If i'm wrong about this whole thing, please correct me, but it seems like this whole thing is being blown way out of proportion. The owners are as distant as they've ever been, and clearly couldn't care any less about what goes on around here. The real reason for all of this mess is this:



So the whole reason that this started is that a few users were complaining. But guess what? People will always complain about something. That's just what happens when you give people freedom of speech; people speak their minds, and feelings get hurt. Rock and Roll isn't going to destroy our children, and The Lounge isn't going to destroy us. You can ask us to clean up our act, and we will try our best to do so, but unless you turn us into robots, things are just going to revert back to normal in a week or two. It doesn't matter how many threads you close, you'll never take the off-topic banter out of the Lounge, which exists purely for that purpose.

Originally Posted by Neapolitan (Post 1556503)

I don't understand this place at all. Never have, never will. No offense to Trollheart and UH? but one has a avatar of Spock painted up like The Joker and is asking "Are you all ... thirteen years of age???" The other has an avatar that basically says "Get You Tits Out..." pointing out that other members are posting "childish gifs." :confused: If this is all done tongue in cheek way, it's kinda humorous in the ironic sense.