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[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by jadis

Amazing



You lot are a bunch of angry villagers with pitchforks who don't deserve Marie

He gets mad whenever I post that thread so I keep doing it.

[Marie Monday]

Originally Posted by The Batlord

So would you trust him to babysit a teenage girl?

no, but that's not the same as decidedly accusing someone of being a pedo, and that nuance is exactly my point. Someone can be very creepy and blamable for serious things without being an outright pedophile

[Exo]

Tbh, I didn't read any of this. I just wanted to join in.

[SGR]

Originally Posted by Exo

Tbh, I didn't read any of this. I just wanted to join in.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by Marie Monday

no, but that's not the same as decidedly accusing someone of being a pedo, and that nuance is exactly my point. Someone can be very creepy and blamable for serious things without being an outright pedophile

I think nuance is great but at a certain point you gotta make a judgement call and he's reached my limit. Do I have a smoking gun? No. Am I willing to give him the benefit of the doubt anyway? Also no. He's a piece of **** for any number.of reasons (f.ex. calling black people monkeys) and I'm just done with him and don't want him on this forum.

[WWWP]

Originally Posted by jadis

You lot are a bunch of angry villagers with pitchforks who don't deserve Marie

Ok OH

[Key]

Originally Posted by Chula Vista

HA! Boy did I pick an awesome day to troll! Actually came in to do a search for Plank. He still AWOL?

Anyhoo, stopped posting cause every time I start getting too involved in chat here is time spent away from jamming.
Takes a while to realize it, but if I'm in the middle of some killer improv and suddenly start worrying about something as dumb as an apt punk retort on a message board...... well......

not good.
(with all due respect my dear Marie )

The boys.

Good to see ya, Chula. Glad you're well.

[Marie Monday]

Originally Posted by The Batlord

I think nuance is great but at a certain point you gotta make a judgement call and he's reached my limit. Do I have a smoking gun? No. Am I willing to give him the benefit of the doubt anyway? Also no. He's a piece of **** for any number.of reasons (f.ex. calling black people monkeys) and I'm just done with him and don't want him on this forum.

When it comes to things like pedophilia then no, that would be using it too lightly. Do you fully realise how grave a thing that is?

And thy is there a need to make a judgement call anyway? You can realise he's creepy, problematic, sexually inappropriate and possibly a pedo without making the full accusation. To stick with your example, you can not let someone babysit a child to be sure of safety, without such an accusation. You also have enough reasons not to want him on this forum without such an accusation (and I agree, don't lump me in with the people who don't)

[The Batlord]

We're also on a medium where we can't watch him or have social cues that might be easier to pick up on irl. Abusers can have a whole side hustle going on in PMs we never are privy to while having only a cultivated persona to judge. We literally have no idea whether it's true that he just started lying about having a wife for no reason or whether he's been lying about not having a wife this entire time for whatever reason. All we know is he's a liar who's lying for some reason. You should listen to weird manipulators when they seem to inform on themselves, like when they continually are weird about underage girls.

[Marie Monday]

No, you should be extra careful online, not extra quick to pass judgement. You should take disturbing indications like that seriously, but in the way where you don't let them babysit your children, not in the way where you full on call them a pedo.