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08-17-2013, 07:56 PM | #411 (permalink) | ||
D-D-D-D-D-DROP THE BASS!
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oh look, people destroying your system. tore, it doesn't work. it never has worked, in the entire history of online forums it probably hasn't worked, and I've seen it fail a whole ton of times the same way. it just becomes a pissing contest. hell, reddit is a site devoted to the idea of making something very similar work...and it just doesn't.
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08-17-2013, 08:04 PM | #412 (permalink) | |
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But regardless, it was just an example of a possible way one could reward good behaviour. It is not one which can be implemented here and so it is a bit off-topic, but I would like to discuss its implementation if we were to have a new site. If only for a test run .. removing it if it didn't work as intended would be a simple matter.
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08-17-2013, 08:25 PM | #413 (permalink) | |
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And Neapolitan, thank you for your kind support of my work in the journals section. It's certainly appreciated mate.
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08-17-2013, 08:34 PM | #414 (permalink) | |
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Also, picking up your point somewhat. Oh no wait, first, let me echo Jamsz's welcome back to you. You have been missed. Now, when I first joined here in 2008 I did indeed feel that there was an elitist, you-dont-know-jack-about-music attitude, and that people were laughing at what they saw as my "pedestrian" music preferences. I left. Some time later |I rejoined and changed my attitude, to the point where I now think hell if people don't like my music then fine; there's music here I wouldn't listen to. But I made the effort to get out and meet these people and found them all, mostly, to be really nice people. I used to think Urban was a grumpy so-and-so who had it in for me, now I know he's a grumpy so-and-so who doesn't have it in for me. I actually really like him. A lot of it is about perception. Are you feeling marginalised because you're letting yourself be? Are you taking things too seriously? Hell, if someone talks about my "crappy prog albums" or "stupid genesis fetish" or whatever, I just laugh. Doesn't mean anything, and isn't meant to. It's just someone's opinion, and it could also be meant as a joke. In the end, as everyone here knows, you make the forum better by how you approach it. If everyone here was gloomy, tight-arsed and up themselves about their music, it's likely we wouldn't even talk to each other, or stay here. Some people bring drama with them like the Irish summer brings the rain, but that doesn't mean you have to join in, or be affected by it. If you make it your mission to enjoy, and try to help others enjoy the forum, chances are it will work. Maybe not all the time, but I find more often than not it does. One last point, to everyone. I noticed myself laughing at a post today (can't recall which, think it was Urban's comment about my power metal in my journal) but it set me to thinking, how often do I laugh here at posts and how often do I scowl or get angry/insulted/take offence? It's weighted far in favour of the former, and I think that has to be a good thing. It also hinges a lot on how you see, and use, the forum.
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08-17-2013, 08:53 PM | #415 (permalink) | |
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I too think there's an elitist feel to this site. Maybe that's why few people seem to respect my music knowledge or even reply to my music comments.
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Anyway, when will people meet the challenge of coming up with doable, non-technical ideas for curtailing drama? This thread has been almost an amazing dance away from such musings.
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08-17-2013, 09:00 PM | #416 (permalink) | ||
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08-17-2013, 09:06 PM | #419 (permalink) |
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well look at that i totally did invent a new word Thnx for the welcome im surprise ppl still remember me to add to what you said, yes i agree eventually you get used to this place but as a newcomer it can be kinda hard to adjust to this place cause ppl will pound at any little stupid thing you say.. Not everybody though.. i wanna make clear that some ppl here are very well adjusted and know to debate the subject not debate a person's character The thing is those ppl get overshadowed by the jerk who attacks everybody even i know the best way to get attention around here is by being an intellectual jerk to everybody.. we say we don't like drama but this thread alone is proof that we love to dwell on it. i understand we all have a jerky side and that we like jerks and we secretly chuckle when they own somebody but we can't indulge that over being friendly to ppl because it affects the vibe of the community. Its like you said, we shape the forums by how we behave on them ^^
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08-17-2013, 09:37 PM | #420 (permalink) |
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My issue with karma systems is that they can be used to publicly popularize or shame particular users. Reputation features are tools easily manipulated by groupthink. I honestly, honestly, seriously don't think we need any more avenues through which to create and define user-cliques on this site.
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