Dirty

I wasn't sure how infractions were handled. AKA whether or not they were discussed or just given out by individual mods whenever. Thank you for responding, I did not know that. I can't be sure (can you check sent messages in your inbox??) but I am pretty sure I PMed her like right after I came back on the 10th. And she's been online plenty of times since then. I don't think she likes me, and I don't really like her, and I have to think that's part of the reason she won't respond to me. I know responding to me isn't a priority if she's moving but if she can take time out to tell DJ what a misogynistic prick he is then I feel like there's probably time to let me know what she meant by her messages. But whatever, I'll wait around until she feels like clarifying.

Burning Down

Well, Vanilla would be the one to clarify that for you. I was hardly involved in the situation, so there are things that even I don't know. I did get your PM, and really should have responded with what I just said. It went right to the back of my mind, I guess, as I was dealing with an overload of personal problems at the time.

Freebase Dali

I got the memo.
Dismissed it as whiny.

Dirty

Freebase Dali

Sorry bruv. 'tis the truth.
I didn't know what you were going on about anyway.
But if you want, I can make something up if it will make you feel better.

Dirty

go for it.

In between venting and showing how unfair the ban was, I was really trying to figure out who complained about me and for what (other than Paloma who lobbies for my ban every chance she gets). And also wondering if my two bans and her zero infractions were just a result of some mods being butt buddies with her or just a matter of me not 'officially reporting' things. Cause if that's the case, I'll go ahead and do that. Cause I'm not gonna sit around and take it from someone like her, and then respond, and me end up the only one who gets any type of punishment.

Freebase Dali

I have no idea who complained.
I don't know any mods as being "butt buddies" with her.
As far as the complaint that caused a mod to look into your situation, the mod obviously acted on personal judgment in infracting you. I have never seen an occasion where someone was punished based solely on the fact that they were reported.
The reports themselves are not punishable. They simply serve as a way for users to bring situations to our attention that we may not see on our own.

If you want to report posts that are offensive, go ahead. Everyone is encouraged to do so. Just know that the mods are still going to use their personal judgment in deciding whether the offense is punishable.

Urban Hat€monger ?

Feel free

I personally think you & Paloma are as bad as each other and have no qualms about getting rid of both of you.

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Dirty

I think Paloma got pissed I trolled her in tinychat, then sent saved chat logs to Vanilla, who decided to ban me immediately. I'll have to wait and see if that's what happened, because like I said Vanilla has ignored me for 2 weeks now so PMing her seems completely pointless. All I want is to know specifically why I was banned. I get messages about tormenting people for their race and sexuality. I get messages saying that multiple complaints have been made about light-hearted messages that others find offensive. I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHO COMPLAINED AND WHAT COMMENTS THEY COMPLAINED ABOUT. If I had some sort of idea, I wouldn't bother asking and just assume. Other than Paloma, who I hate, I don't know of a problem I have with anyone else on the site. I haven't had infractions or warnings or messages from any members or mods saying im offending them and I don't plan on changing my style, BUT id like to avoid another ban so some insight from Vanilla or whoever about what exactly others are finding offensive would be great.

You are a guy who has a lot of posts. That's the extent of what I know about you, I think we may have talked 0 times but you apparently find my posts in the rap forum or the lounge annoying or offensive. Well anyways, nice to meet you too bro!

right-track

You already know I'd have banned you ages ago.
As usual...I was right.