bungalow

EDIT: To Fenix, since I posted this before I read your post. I agree that TGS should have been banned. I agree that he broke the rules, and then disrespected your desicion by coming back immediatly. I completely agree with the way that you handled it. You don't have to prove to me that he needed to be banned. I know he did man. What I am blabbering about, is that madeinNY disrespected hookers desicion when she just returned after he made the choice to ban her permenently. You are a mod. Isnt perma ban a pretty serious action?

Fenix, you even wrote this^. That exact e mail could have been sent to Hoffa


Hookers didn't "say to unban". In your last post, you said that when he was asked about it, his response was that he didn't care. Had madeinNY never broken the rules in the first place, there would be no need for him to question his desicion. Why then, is it ok for her to break the rules like that? And why do you ignore key parts of my post? Do you think I won't notice? Do you want me to have to type them out again. Every point that I made is valid, but is completely ignored by you. I'll repost them:



And why do you get so uptight when someone questions you? I am not sure what world you live in. Maybe in your world, everyone agrees with you all the time. That is not how it. People are allowed to question a desicion of yours without you admonishing them. Is this new to you? I can understand how this would be a shocking revalation if you lived in a world where you are always agreed with.

The point is, I disagree. If any other member had done the same thing, they would not be here right now. The fact that hookers felt the need to give Hoffa a permenent ban, and Fenix only felt the need for a 2 week ban, should say something as well. The Hoffa account acted worse than TGS acted. Please, just reply civally, instead of telling me to "quit stirring things up". There is nothing attcking about this thread. I haven't flamed anyone, I haven't spammed it and filled it with jokes. Why then, do you get so uptight. (don't answer this, I don't want that to be the focus of your next post)

ArtistInTheAmbulance

If I was sad enough to save all my previous PMs, Hookers said something along the lines of "Unban her, I dont really care and Im not sure on whats going on at the moment anyway". Feel free to ask him about that, I dont have a fapping photographic memory on such lame and unimportant matters.

*Sigh* I cant beleive I have to spend so much time on you.

Right. First point :

"That just goes to show, get banned, all you have to do is e mail a mod and promise never to be bad again."
The problem is...? Even if it were that simple, at least we'd have members who arent stirring up trouble again. It shows that the banning system was working, yes? You do bad, you get punished, you learn your lesson. Madeinny had done that.

"yonks ago? She returned from her ban slightly more than a month after she was banned. Since when are permanent bans given, and taken away so casually? Obviously she did something to deserve a ban on her Hoffa account, so hookers banned her for it. But now, because she promises not to do it again, everything is ok.......does that make sense. "I'm sorry that I murdered my wife officer, I won't do it again""
Youre comparing an internet forum to murder. Losing your grip on reality much? But really, I cant repeat myself any more here, if she's no longer breaking the rules, then what is the big problem?

"And why do you get so uptight when someone questions you? I am not sure what world you live in. Maybe in your world, everyone agrees with you all the time. That is not how it. People are allowed to question a desicion of yours without you admonishing them. Is this new to you? I can understand how this would be a shocking revalation if you lived in a world where you are always agreed with. "
I normally dont get uptight over such trivial things, but things do get tiring after a while as Im sure you know. And even if I did have my head up my own arse all the time, that doesnt come into this. So I unbanned a member who was currently breaking no rules. Nothing to flip out about and throw personal insults really..

"The point is, I disagree. If any other member had done the same thing, they would not be here right now. The fact that hookers felt the need to give Hoffa a permenent ban, and Fenix only felt the need for a 2 week ban, should say something as well. The Hoffa account acted worse than TGS acted. Please, just reply civally, instead of telling me to "quit stirring things up". There is nothing attcking about this thread. I haven't flamed anyone, I haven't spammed it and filled it with jokes. Why then, do you get so uptight. (don't answer this, I don't want that to be the focus of your next post)"
Nah Ill answer anyway, thanks for the advice though. As Ive said, TGS had a number of posts deleted and was flaming far more than madeinny has done. I cant even remember exactly what madeinny was banned for, you must forgive me for that, something to do with Simon Cowell and everyone hating her for it. God knows really. Point is, she changed her ways, whereas TGS just came right back and did the very same as before.

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Fenixpunk

Yes, a perma ban is pretty serious but Im also pretty sure each mod has their own scale on what gets banned for and for how long, only in extreme situations do the mods discuss bannings. In most cases it is usually just up to the mod that does the banning.

A member that has been banned (whether it be for 2 weeks, or perm.) should contact the mod that banned them and try and get the ban lifted before starting new accounts to avoid an IP ban.

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IamAlejo

I can only deal with who I ban because those are the only circumstances I can deal with.

And nobody better be coming back early on my bans, I got that ip power.

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bungalow

I agree completely. The difference is, madeinNY came back without telling the mods, then she discussed it with them. It wasn't vice versa.

to AITA: PATROH didn't come back and insult anyone. The only thing that gave him away to me was the fact that he kept sticking up for TGS. When I said " all you have to do is promise never to be bad again" I didn't mean that they actually refine their ways. Anyone who is banned, could say that they promise to be good. You said "madeinNY isn't breaking the rules anymore" I disagree. Everyday she is breaking the rules, simply by posting. She isn't supposed to be here, she got banned for good. Whether of not she apologizes shouldn't matter. Look how many times she has been banned. 3? Am I right? But yet you say she learned her lesson? I will just remember that next time that I get banned, I will just PM a mod, and promise to be good. Hey, it worked for Hoffa, therefore it should work with every other person who gets banned. If you are going to allow that for 1 person, then you should allow it for all. If that turns out to be the case, then what are bans really? They are jokes if they can be overturned so easily.

explosions-in-my-pants

they've alreayd explained themsevles even tho non of the mods had to.. and your still talking about it.

will you just let it go, you want her gone to get banned.. well clearly the mods want more of a reason to do so, and you giving a reason isn't good enough.

just let it go for now.

bungalow

So far the only responses in this thread, aside from yours and madeinNY's spam fest, are from mods. Which is a good thing. You do not know what you are talking about, and are sticking up for certain mods to earn yourself some brownie points. YOU give it up. Quit replying to this thread, which has been mostly on topic since AITA and fenix started posting.

explosions-in-my-pants

i could honeslty care less about what the mods think of me.. i would never try to earn brownies points...

i'm just pointing out that you won't let things go no matter how much it gets explanned.. do you honestly think the more you want her to get banned it will happen.. i mean get over yourself your stirring up a fight and making an bad pot of stew..

she hasn't done anything harmful to your's or anyone's emotions, she is spamming less when she mainly would spam she keeps it to the bitch thread, where it makes sense to bitch about ones personal life.

i haven't spammed in this thread, i've been pointing out what i think and what others think about the subject.

bungalow

What you think is irreleveant since you do not know the story. I really should stop replying to you.

And who are these others. Because I know that somepeople who are backing me on this, probably have a greater say than, oh, I dunno, Lexxi.

Mr Sensitive

Oh stop flogging the dead horse and let this topic die already.

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